Where's the fire?

Aditiya's situation

He was brought up by Tara believing She and Brijesh were his parents. However, learning from Jiji that she was his mother and the evil Tara kept her away from his father and him. He secretly met his mother. No denying he was spoilt but there was no denying he loved Jiji. He now felt animosity towards the people that treated his mother harshly - as a child he took out his displeasure by treating Tara and family with scant courteous. In his eyes Saloni killed his mother and in his hurt and anger he sought revenge of the person who took away his mother. Misplaced but understandable.... (the singh family however allowed the injustice to saloni to happened he was never taken to task) After six years he still miss his mother and hate the people who treated his mother badly.. No one has correct him because correcting him will ofcourse means dealing with saloni..

Sawari. was brought up believing that Savirtri was her mother she loved her because she believed she was her biological mother despite the fact she died when she was a baby. Saloni brought her up but periodically we saw her mourning the lost of Savitri despite all Saloni's love she felt she belonged to no one. Now on finding out Saloni is her mother she was happy but also sad with Shweta being ill. Saawri as a child saw her mother being taken away in a prison van. She actually saw the family do a dead ceremony for her mother. Yet she has no animosity or no hurt feelings towards the Singh Family. She sad because the family treats her an outsider. Yet there's no anger towards Bhaboo or Tara. Even privately - no private scene with a little anger/tantrum. I understand she's in the house as an unwelcome guest but a little anger is justified. She writes letters to her mother and stores them in a drawer... Where's the fire?