Saloni should Prioritize Sawri .

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think this serial is not about Saloni winning the hurdles in her way but about Saloni being terribly unhappy ............Saloni ka Suffer instead of Saloni Ka Safar .
First she lost her child trying to save Adi . That same Adi is the cause she is in jail today .
Then she had no inkling that the child was actually in front of her all along as a maid's child.
Finally when she knows , she is miles away in jail from the child and has to choose between adopted child and her own child .
Knowing Saloni and her sacrifcing spirit , on humanitarian grounds she will try to keep Sheweta alive and pamper Shweta by keeping Sawari away . Why ? Shweta will faint , Shweta may die .
It is Sawri's misfortune that Saloni is not a normal mom. She is being horribly punished for and discriminated against for no fault of hers . Each time her mom de prioritised her ...........first for that selfish brat Adi now for the selfish spoilt Shweta .
It is good to be noble and sacrificing but definetely not to this extent . Saloni had at that time for Tara's sake left Nahar , almost killed her own baby , now she will again perhaps do the same .
One shud sacrifice so long as no one is hurt . One shud not sacrifice in such a way that someone will be hurt very badly . In this case , Shweta will be saved , Sawri will be hurt . Adi was saved , Sawri was almost killed . So u see , these kind of sacrifices r hardly noble.
Look at the irony of it all . The same Tara for whom Saloni destroyed her marraige and even her own kid , doesnt mind the fact that she may spend her half life in jail for a crime she didnt even commit . Tara's attitude shud have been such that even if Saloni had really pushed Jiji down the stairs , she shud have pressurized her son to set Saloni free , coz Jiji has wreaked havoc upon their lives . She , of all people , shud have understood , but it is ok for her if Saloni wastes away in jail , what is more important is pampering her son's emotions .
Is Tara wrong ? Yes , but Saloni is more wrong for constantly she ignored this woman's selfish tendencies and gave no value to her own husband and now her own daughter .
Seeing Adi , whom she saved , Tara , whom she always protected and Shweta's yet another selfish demand , Saloni shud rebel and become a human for once . This is endless and will engulf her whole life ......Saloni shud place Shweta under psyciatric care and find root reason for her insecurities , and give the horrid Kamini and her equally horrid mom a blasting once the docs find out who has made Shweta so insecure after a spate of questions by a counsellor . And she shud envelop Sawri in her arms ..........with this solution , everything gets solved . If she decides however to pamper Shweta , it is another horrendous mistake for life .........like Jiji .
There is nothing wrong in making ur kid ur priority ..........God makes a woman a mother only for this purpose .

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Posted: 15 years ago
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As much as I expected today's episode I am actually very disenchanted Sawri deserves her birthright and identity but more than that Saloni should remember Sawri is Nahar's child - the only part of him that is left on earth. Amrit may walk around as Nahar but she should remember that Sawri is Nahar's flesh and blood and she deserves her right. That's the moral thing. But the way the writers I going I have no expectation but to believe that Saloni is going to bow to the 'Great' Amrit assessment of the situation and Sawri is going to be treated as dirt. The next step is going to be Saloni will come out of jail and have to hear all the filth that will be thrown at Sawri and not say a word. I don't believe Sawri will forgive her when she finds out the truth because Saloni would have chosen Shweta over Sawri. At this time I don't believe Saloni deserves Sawri. And maybe that's the morale of the story if you want to put everyone before your husband and child maybe you don't deserve them. As you said she chose Tara over Nahar so she got Tara for life. She chose Adi over Sawri so she deserves him. If she chose Shweta over Sawri she deserves all the hatred that will come her way because she has seen first hand how every-one treats Sawri. At this time I am very tired off SP and its never-ending torture......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Absolutely agree with you Madhu. Firstly let me start on Tara, her behaviour is looking rather selfish and heartless especially towards Saloni. I can't understand this woman she is a mother for pete's sake and you're telling me that she can't sympathize with another mother. It's rather mind-boggling to me and I hate to say this but after seeing Tara's attitude now you know why she didn't have any children of her own. Today when Bhabho and Pia ask her to talk to Adi about changing his statement what was her excuse he's in shock and she knows that Sal is innocent but she can't ask him to do something like that. I was like damn woman then you don't believe that Sal is innocent because you wouldn't make that kind of statement you only said that whole innocent thing to pacify Bhabho and Pia. You're telling me that Tara couldn't do this one thing for Sal, it wouldn't make up for all the things that Sal has done or all the sacrifices that she has made for her but at least it would've been a start in her returning the favour. Now for Amrit I can't believe this man has the audacity to make such a statement to Sal, actually telling a mother she has to decide who does she want between her daughters. It's like are you crazy, is this his twisted way of honouring their friendship by putting a mother in such a predicament. This was such a slap in the face he should have better sense than that afterall this was a man who spent the majority of his life serving God and learning the teachings of God. Does God favour one child over the other, no he loves all his children equally then knowing that why would Amrit suggest something like that. He is quick to preach to others but sadly he doesn't practice what he preach. What makes Shweta so damn special that her needs has to be place above everyone else's especially Savri's. After today's incident you can 100% see that Amrit and Nahar are poles apart because Nahar wouldn't have place Sal in such a predicament, he and Sal would've come up with a solution. I have a solution 😆 to save Shweta with her fickle nature and to tell Savri that she is her mother all Sal has to do is tell a white little lie and say that Shweta and Savri are fraternal twins (they already celebrate the same birthday and are the same age) and on the day that they were born Savri went missing from the hospital. They looked for her but couldn't find her and unbeknownst to them the daughter that they were craving for was actually living in their house with a woman who they thought was her mother, problem solved 😆. Savri's needs to experience joy just like everybody else, I really hope that Sal doesn't deprive her daughter of knowing the truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: judyp

As much as I expected today's episode I am actually very disenchanted Sawri deserves her birthright and identity but more than that Saloni should remember Sawri is Nahar's child - the only part of him that is left on earth. Amrit may walk around as Nahar but she should remember that Sawri is Nahar's flesh and blood and she deserves her right. That's the moral thing. But the way the writers I going I have no expectation but to believe that Saloni is going to bow to the 'Great' Amrit assessment of the situation and Sawri is going to be treated as dirt. The next step is going to be Saloni will come out of jail and have to hear all the filth that will be thrown at Sawri and not say a word. I don't believe Sawri will forgive her when she finds out the truth because Saloni would have chosen Shweta over Sawri. At this time I don't believe Saloni deserves Sawri. And maybe that's the morale of the story if you want to put everyone before your husband and child maybe you don't deserve them. As you said she chose Tara over Nahar so she got Tara for life. She chose Adi over Sawri so she deserves him. If she chose Shweta over Sawri she deserves all the hatred that will come her way because she has seen first hand how every-one treats Sawri. At this time I am very tired off SP and its never-ending torture......

Yes I absolutely agree . It is again , giving Nahar no credence . She didn;t prioritize him when he was alive , she will not prioritize him by giving his kid more importance after his death. Always , Always , some one else will be there , more important than her husand , her daughter . This is endless and only she can put a full stop to it . Amrit wud have never assesed the situation if Sawri was his blood . If shweta is suffering from such a strange disorder , frankly , she needs treatment . Doing injustice to another child simply cannot be the remedy to Shweta's disorder . To cure one child , do injustice to an equally innocent sweet child...........what kind of medicene is this and see how it even sounds to the ears . Saloni shud be rational and decide to accept Sawri saying she has suffered ENOUGH . And that I will try to save shweta too by putting her under best possible doctor's care . Choosing her over Sawri is ridiculous and not good even as a sanskaar or value to pass on to Shweta.......that she can get anything she demands , all she has to do is to fall ill . No , the message shud be even if ur ill , only the right thing will be done . We will teach u to learn to accept the right thing and love u equally .
About Sawri hating her later ..........Judy i seriously doubt it. Sawri has Saloni's forgiving tendencies ..........u saw how she let Shweta win and took her blame............she may understand and forgive her mom . But if she doesn't , it will definetely be more interesting to watch as human drama . Currently we r getting absolutely no viewer satisfaction .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with you all sal needs to set her priorities straight. Sawari comes first at any cost. Sawari has been victimized and treated like a servant long enough. She is the singh heiress and should be treated like it.

Sal is mother to sawari first then to all others. She should not let her go thru what she has been thru in her life.
To tell you the truth I have seen my mother suffer so much and then I went thru similar experiences and worst in my life so even though I love girls so much and wanted to have a daughter but always worried what if she has my fate and when I had a son I was happy. and never regretted not having a daughter. Because I can not see my daughter being ridiculed and humiliated by others.
I mean how can a mother see her daughter get humilaited and ridiculed and labled and keep quiet. The creative should not show this enough is enough.😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: g_spice

Absolutely agree with you Madhu. Firstly let me start on Tara, her behaviour is looking rather selfish and heartless especially towards Saloni. I can't understand this woman she is a mother for pete's sake and you're telling me that she can't sympathize with another mother. It's rather mind-boggling to me and I hate to say this but after seeing Tara's attitude now you know why she didn't have any children of her own. Today when Bhabho and Pia ask her to talk to Adi about changing his statement what was her excuse he's in shock and she knows that Sal is innocent but she can't ask him to do something like that. I was like damn woman then you don't believe that Sal is innocent because you wouldn't make that kind of statement you only said that whole innocent thing to pacify Bhabho and Pia. You're telling me that Tara couldn't do this one thing for Sal, it wouldn't make up for all the things that Sal has done or all the sacrifices that she has made for her but at least it would've been a start in her returning the favour. Now for Amrit I can't believe this man has the audacity to make such a statement to Sal, actually telling a mother she has to decide who does she want between her daughters. It's like are you crazy, is this his twisted way of honouring their friendship by putting a mother in such a predicament. This was such a slap in the face he should have better sense than that afterall this was a man who spent the majority of his life serving God and learning the teachings of God. Does God favour one child over the other, no he loves all his children equally then knowing that why would Amrit suggest something like that. He is quick to preach to others but sadly he doesn't practice what he preach. What makes Shweta so damn special that her needs has to be place above everyone else's especially Savri's. After today's incident you can 100% see that Amrit and Nahar are poles apart because Nahar wouldn't have place Sal in such a predicament, he and Sal would've come up with a solution. Savri's needs to experience joy just like everybody else, I really hope that Sal doesn't deprive her daughter of knowing the truth.

u have asked such a valid question..............what makes Shweta so damn special that her needs have to be placed above everyone else's especially Sawri's .
Her demand in itself is wrong and one cannot bring up a child by watering the seed of a unjust demand . This demand is not good even for shweta as an human being .........giving in will make her more selfish and give her a totally wrong message . A demand that destroys the life of another child simply cannot be met ! Answer is so simple .
Ur solution is fantaulous and i hope scriptwriters see it . Tell Shweta a lie about the fraternal twin thing .......or , simply put her under doctor;s care and intensive counselling . In fact , in such a remedy they can show that the truth that Kamini poisoned her mind comes out and reaches Samar's ears and Samar sends that selfish little brat to a boarding scchool as Kaveri pampers her far too much . But in no way is doing injustice to an innocent the cure for someone's strange disorder , that too , mental !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I agree with you all sal needs to set her priorities straight. Sawari comes first at any cost. Sawari has been victimized and treated like a servant long enough. She is the singh heiress and should be treated like it.

Sal is mother to sawari first then to all others. She should not let her go thru what she has been thru in her life.
To tell you the truth I have seen my mother suffer so much and then I went thru similar experiences and worst in my life so even though I love girls so much and wanted to have a daughter but always worried what if she has my fate and when I had a son I was happy. and never regretted not having a daughter. Because I can not see my daughter being ridiculed and humiliated by others.
I mean how can a mother see her daughter get humilaited and ridiculed and labled and keep quiet. The creative should not show this enough is enough.😡

My mother was the eldest daughter in law of the family and so I have suffered this de prioritisation a lot . Always she was in demand by joint family members to fulfil some obligation or the other . Even if I squabled with my cousins , My mom wud hesitate to side with me even if I was right at times . Even today i cannot forget those phases ..........years later i told her her that she was always there for others , never for me.
Today i have matured and I understand her predicament . Those days were diffrent , joint family , she was eldest bahu and had to treat all the kids like her own etc etc . But Even today that feeling that at least once she cud have been mine alone still nags me . Im telling u............these kind of feelings just dont go .
Children have no one to defend them but a God given angel calld Mother . And if that angel too keeps indiffrently or helplessly quiet they really really suffer . Saloni shud not keep quiet . If she does , its not Shweta , or Amrit who suggested this who is the wrong doer but Saloni alone , for she defied a commitment to God........that for a mother , everything else comes later .....first comes only her child.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I understand I have done similar things to my son some times and he has reminded me that why I scolded him even though it was not his fault just to control the situation. When my brother's kids were wrong. and also I am the elder sister.

But kids to get hurt and feel that you did something wrong to them and they never forget that, Thankfully he still thinks I have given him all the love he deserves.
I hope saloni loves sawari more than sweta and let Tara. Samar and Dheer pia bhabho know that sawari is her's and Nahar's daughter. So atleast she get the love from family members and make sawari understand that even though she is her real daughter sweta is ill and she may have to show more affection towards her. But she loves her the most.
My mother was the eldest daughter in law of the family and so I have suffered this de prioritisation a lot . Always she was in demand by joint family members to fulfil some obligation or the other . Even if I squabled with my cousins , My mom wud hesitate to side with me even if I was right at times . Even today i cannot forget those phases ..........years later i told her her that she was always there for others , never for me.
Today i have matured and I understand her predicament . Those days were diffrent , joint family , she was eldest bahu and had to treat all the kids like her own etc etc . But Even today that feeling that at least once she cud have been mine alone still nags me . Im telling u............these kind of feelings just dont go .
Children have no one to defend them but a God given angel calld Mother . And if that angel too keeps indiffrently or helplessly quiet they really really suffer . Saloni shud not keep quiet . If she does , its not Shweta , or Amrit who suggested this who is the wrong doer but Saloni alone , for she defied a commitment to God........that for a mother , everything else comes later .....first comes only her child.

Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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😆 so Madhu you think that my fraternal twin lie looks like a good idea. Saloni tells anybody that would listen that though she didn't give birth to Sawari she is her daughter, well now that she knows the truth it's her duty to inform her child but if she chooses Shweta over Sawari then to me she will be going against the principles that she lives by and stands for.
Edited by g_spice - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Saloni ka suffer lol
Too true
I agree Sal needs to prioritise she has reached the limit of noble sacrifice and gone beyond
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