Sleet of Emotional Quivers on RadhaKrishn Eternal Love CC #5 - Page 116

Originally posted by: stormborn

The adoption will be considerable only if life gets too lonely (a kid that needs help from a motherly figure is a better option than a grown up man who needs help from a motherly figure and expects that from me ). My plan is to work on weekdays and travel on weekends, so hardly any time to be lonely. But still we never know !

If that kid already has nothing to lose, then even if I die, s/he will be at worst get back to square one and at best I would be able to pre arrange something in case of an untimely death. But if I don't die, both of us can get a family and find solace in each other. Of course this is a far away fantasy and can only happen if I can ever financially reach that place.

@teal: believe it or not, it's way more likely for you to find love than me. You are romantic (first condition for romance), I can see your emotional quotient is pretty high and most importantly you believe in love. I am not even sure whether love is the real thing or it's just a game of hormones like serotonin, dopamine etc..

Yes dear. Financial stability is a must for adoption.

Just explore your life as of now. See where it carries you.😳

I guess the biggest roadblock in my finding a true love's path is my no compromise policy. It's either zero or absolute hundred. I don't want the in-betweens. Also sharing your personal space with someone else is still ok but oh boy what about the extended khandaan of your pati parmeshwar and those bunch of namoonas in his clan. 🤪 Humse na ho paega ! Stormie dear, my emotions also play the satan's role in my love related endeavors 😆 I'm way too emotional. ☺️ Also i lack all those feminine charm and elegance.🐷

Dear, even I can't exactly explain what kind of a phenomenon love actually is. No matter how much you try to solve this puzzle, it keeps getting more puzzling.

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

Gaayu, culturally marriage holds a huge significance. It's considered an institution to maintain discipline in our day to day life. It has its own guidelines and limits that you can't disobey. Marriage often instills a sense of responsibility within a person. Marriage isn't bad if it's based on mutual consent and agreement where two people respect each other's dreams, principles,wishes and other aspects but unfortunately with the course of time marriage has become a social license to have intercourse and kids. Chauvinism, patriarchy,dowry, domestic abuse, selfish interests etc have polluted it. In this century, with the wake of individualism and personal liberation, people are fighting against odds and also with each other to somehow retain the authenticity of marriage. If we look at our parents' marriages, the bedrocks of their bond are undoubtedly sacrifices and compromises. For us it's impossible to imagine to go through all that let alone experience on a personal level. With time the definition of marriage has changed and it will keep changing.

Coming to your question, I personally believe that the "marriage is a must and an inevitable necessity" dogma has been spread to fulfill self-centered desires. For middle class and less privileged families, its the only way parents of present generation can have a secure future after turning old. For men, its a weapon to enslave women and make them feel inferior in most of the cases. In certain societies, marriage for a woman provides an identity and social, personal, financial security. For men, it enables them to legally reproduce and spread their generation further.

Basically marriage plays an instrumental role in the natural process of live an organized life.

But personally I find it very very tough. One day I'm definitely going to take the BUDDHA route not literally though but still...so I obvious don't want a male Yashodhara and a Rahul in my life. I have mad respect for people who get married and celebrate it lifelong but for someone like me, it's better to stay single forever.

Krishna even I am unmarried ..but my ideas of marriage are different than yours .. .. it’s not adopting a grown up man when his parents no longer wish to take care of him .. please spare me

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

Yes dear. Financial stability is a must for adoption.

Just explore your life as of now. See where it carries you.😳

I guess the biggest roadblock in my finding a true love's path is my no compromise policy. It's either zero or absolute hundred. I don't want the in-betweens. Also spending your personal space with someone else is still ok but oh boy what about the extended khandaan of your pati parmeshwar and those bunch of namoon in his clan. 🤪 Humse na ho paega ! Stormie dear, my emotions also play the satan's role in my love endeavors 😆 I'm way too emotional. ☺️ Also i lack all those feminine charm and elegance.🐷

Dear, even I can't exactly explain what kind of a phenomenon love actually is. No matter how much try to solve this puzzle, it keeps getting more puzzling.

Kyun Dara rahe ho mujhey .. stormy ..this is not done ..🤷‍♀️🤔. I will most probably get married ... as soon as I finish internship .. ..

Originally posted by: ReadLo

I don't know how they're gonna spin their story.

But I really have my doubts about it.

For Ayan yes it's justified.

But do you really think people will accept a romance other than Radhakrishn? I don't think they will.

They will see Rukmini as kebab mein haddi ! 🥺

Originally posted by: RainFire125

smart ass writers!! they know that mass will not accept Rukmini vivah just like that. so show this first and then make Radha convince Krishna to marry Rukmini.

They could have shown this before KriBal's departure from Barsana. Showing this just after the introduction of Rukmini is kinda weird. Viewers with low IQs will bash Rukmini for no valid reason.😭

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

Yes dear. Financial stability is a must for adoption.

Just explore your life as of now. See where it carries you.😳

I guess the biggest roadblock in my finding a true love's path is my no compromise policy. It's either zero or absolute hundred. I don't want the in-betweens. Also sharing your personal space with someone else is still ok but oh boy what about the extended khandaan of your pati parmeshwar and those bunch of namoonas in his clan. 🤪 Humse na ho paega ! Stormie dear, my emotions also play the satan's role in my love related endeavors 😆 I'm way too emotional. ☺️ Also i lack all those feminine charm and elegance.🐷

Dear, even I can't exactly explain what kind of a phenomenon love actually is. No matter how much you try to solve this puzzle, it keeps getting more puzzling.

I know two guys whose idea of living is backpacking through the world while singing in bars and teaching kids about birds or abstract photography. There are plenty of male buddhas available who are just waiting for females like you to join them in their journey. Don't lose hope. 🤗

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Krishna even I am unmarried ..but my ideas of marriage are different than yours .. .. it’s not adopting a grown up man when his parents no longer wish to take care of him .. please spare me

You have all the rights to have your own opinion dear and we all respect it.🤗 Good luck with finding your soulmate. 😳

Originally posted by: Sutapasima

Kyun Dara rahe ho mujhey .. stormy ..this is not done ..🤷‍♀️🤔. I will most probably get married ... as soon as I finish internship .. ..

The very wish of yours to get married will be reason enough for you to have a happy and successful married life. 🤗

You are one suljhi hui manushya amidst us uljhe huye aatmas.😆

Originally posted by: stormborn

I know two guys whose idea of living is backpacking through the world while singing in bars and teaching kids about birds or abstract photography. There are plenty of male buddhas available who are just waiting for females like you to join them in their journey. Don't lose hope. 🤗

Stormy why giving wrong ideas to dear friend .. very bad .. 👎🏼

she deserves better..why tease her with male buddhas ..??

Originally posted by: Krishnpriya

The very wish of yours to get married will be reason enough for you to have a happy and successful married life. 🤗

You are one suljhi hui manushya amidst us uljhe huye aatmas.😆

I think we should be lucky to find a partner with similar outlook towards life .. everything falls in place ..by itself ... no hard work needed ..