The discussion is on Radha Krishna relationship in this changed circumstances—the point here is regarding their extramarital relationship. ---
History is a difficult subject. Even from the puraṇas we only have bits and pieces of info regarding the normal life including marital norms and how society controlled and defined certain issues in human relationships, esp in the issue of marriage, and extramarital relationships at that stage of history, in that specific Yuga.
The Vedas never say “one size fits all.” They never recommend applying moral principles to everyone in the same manner! The Vedas recognize at least four different basic personality types --thinker, leader, business, and employee, and each one of those four[ caste system] goes through four stages in life -student, family, retirement, and spiritual dedication, and the moral principles apply differently to each type of person in each phase of life!! The marital norms that apply to a thinker in the stage of spiritual dedication, for example, are extremely different than those that apply to an employee in the stage of family development!
In Dwapar Yug, there was a drastic change in the position of women, a quick change blinded the entire community at once and made them a bit confused. Giving you the examples for this sudden change! The society was liberal regarding the rightful rights of women at that stage, but the autocratic decisions taken by men is still a norm then, in this tussle, a few lives struggled, suffered and survived the scare of the society’s punishments. But in this process, some strong women characters emerged to question, to define and to display their decision making powers in an emphatic manner!
The examples are many—Satyavathi, a fisherwoman who yielded to Parasar’s lust [ can’t say divine or spiritual pleasure , for such Rushi who wanted to have her despite the boat nearing the shore where her father was waiting for his daughter!] hadVed Vyas, and later married king Santanu and almost till the reign of Duryodhana, she played a vital role in every royal decision in the Kuru dynasty!
Kunti, another strong woman who fought to get the status of royalty for her sons whom she got with ‘ divine blessings’, and displayed her ‘free will’ to leave her pre-marital son[ Sun’s blessing’] to his fate because of the scare of blame from the society! Kunti’s life was, a shy girl’s story and a strong mother’s quest!
Then Amba who questioned and displayed her displeasure regarding the might of Bheesma and his autocratic decision! Draupadi is the best example of the different perspectives and angles of women’s freedom at that Dwapar yug!Rukmini, as a lover, Satya as a warrior queen, Subhadra, a doted sister of Krishna who married Arjun against her elder brother Balram’s wish—who wanted to give away her to his favorite student Duryodhan! AND FINALLY Radha , a free woman with strong beliefs, she displayed her attitude from the moment she met her Krishna, who loved Krishna, who played and danced with Him, spent many cool nights on the river bank listening to the enchanting tunes of his flute music! Some Puranas says she was married by the time Krishna was born. Some stories depict that though there was age difference, they were played and grown up together and after Krishna left to Mathura she married Ayan, who is a pious person, who understood his wife’s eternal love for her Krishna and kept himself busy in Kali pooja and meeting sages and saints.
There was no such story as far as I know,[ mine is limited knowledge, I am very much aware of it.] that Krishna asked Radha to marry another one and again having a relationship with her!!
She represented the free culture of a village woman, who normally used to sell milk and curd to Mathura people, a businesswoman with a highly romantic heart for the overtures of her Krishna! She was famous for her beauty and brains at that time. Not because she was the daughter of a village mukhia.
Krishna is the soul of Radha and Radha is surely the soul of Krishna. Radha is the feminine aspects of Krishna and is non-different from Krishna. In one of Krishna’s folk story, Krishna and Radha wear the dress of each other. And Radha becomes Krishna and Krishna becomes Radha. This story has clear proof and sign that they are one. So Radha is Krishna's dream girl and the melody in his music.
Here , in this serial, the story was different, Radha willingly [ though in unavoidable circumstances acco to the writer] married this cruel Ayan, and Krishna himself arranged everything from Bride decoration to the final Bidai. Then the door was closed symbolically.
Now as stormborn rightly mentioned, they entangled themselves in such a situation that there was no amicable solution or conducive atmosphere for the continuation of Radha Krishna bonding in physical form. She herself closed her door for Krishna, then how she will proceed further with her attachment with Krishna? In this situation, if they meet each other, it looks like an extramarital affair, not a divine bonding. It is my personal opinion.
Edited by Viswasruti - 5 years ago
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