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xAishuuux

@xAishuuux

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

I feel sorry for Sarita but she knows that Raj doesn't love her ! I also believe in marriage ,but one side marriage is awful . You can't make a marriage successful just with your efforts and Sarita should really understand that ! She is still believing that Raj would accept her after 10 long years ? And what Sarita is doing right now isn't love ,is obsession and I don't think I exaggerate this ! After the falling of the jhoomar , Divya told her that they shouldn't continue with this 'cause Sarita can be hurted but Sarita said to continue this .She doesn't care about how many objects gonna fall on her ...she cut her hand just to make Raj wash and bandage her hand ?? 🤔
Sarita heard Raj two times talking about her...he said he CAN'T give her fake hopes ! Let's believe she didn't know that before and she was hoping that one day Raj will accept her. But now she doesn't have any reasons for staying in that marriage , I think she clearly heard Raj when he told that he can never love Sarita !
In today's episode Raj said that he is taking care of Sarita because she is sick/ill ... these are humanly reaction ! I would do the same if I was in his place ! Sarita is very self -important when she's talking with her MIL ..she told she can't let anyone to hurt her vanity ! Then what about this marriage..isn't it hurting her vanity ? She is staying in a house where she isn't respected...I don't understand her !
If she truly loves Raj why isn't she letting his free ? Love means freedom ,understanding ... she should know that noone can force someone to love ,love comes naturally ! "True love cannot be found where it does not exist ! " 😉

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anjali

@rosette80

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#12

Hey sidra...long time yaar!🤗missed u dear!.
thanks for ur reply and undersrtanding..but many mixed opinions..sometimes its right..why is sarita suffering this much pain..why she needs to take this from Raj..she can move on...but then as aishuu...said...obsession..noo dear..its not that...its her wish or desire to see his love and care...u know after 10 years long of marriage..staying with a man who does not look at her at all...wen he saves her from being killed...gets into this notion automaticaly that this is the way he can feel for me..she wants him also.wants their marriage to work out frends..i know i sound mad and illogical but thats the fact!

Anyways thanks alot for al ur thoughts..i agree with each one of u in ur place!

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ekta15

@ekta15

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

In my views, It depends on person to person ,his/her character that he can or can not move on with the situations with circumstances of present and leave behind past .Some people are mature enough practical enough and some are not .Some people are innocent with emotional .

But Pls don't mind .Its not right to say that mature ones are right only and not emotional ones .In my views ,Both are humans and both will make mistakes in different situations.In some situations,mature ones 's decisions will work and in some emotional ones.

Now as you said that hearing some foolish dumb prophecy he is showing concern and care towards sarita. Its his character who is emotional but not mature .He is not even mature enough to think for now .He is asking Divya what he should do .If you think from his pov ,you will be able to feel it.

I know in this yug ,People are very very very much mature even small kids I will say .You will hardly find such persons .They don't believe in such prophecy. So its get hard to connect with such person.

I'm not pointing at anyone .I just said things bcoz I'm emotional and my sister practical .She thinks am wrong and I think she is. But the fact is both are right acc to their thoughts.So we should not bring these words of wrong right or fair unfair in decisions of others.

Now coming to love/marriage I will not say love is right or fair or marriage is right or fair .sometimes love marriages even don't work and even sometimes marriages too don't work .The main requirement is acceptance and understanding.If its not there then neither marriage works nor love.Theses two things come after both partners try ,it doesn't come if marriage is there or love is there . Now even if raj had married divya ,we are not sure if that would have worked if with Sarita has not worked.Sometimes the love people think is not love even but just craze. And we have not seen Raj-Divya relation in true sense ,we have just seen 4 to 5 scenes of cozy and crazy ones . But here I have to agree that cvs are doing it intentionally. ZEE tried to give this lesson of marriage over love in other shows but unfortunately fans were too stubborn to accept that.So they started this story to give the same lesson with RaVya relation not showing ,editing their scenes.Lets see will they be able to ?? For now am seeing positive response in their plans working but can't say for future.

Yes marriage is a pure bond But not Just bcoz you have taken seven vows around agni or sindoor or mangalsutra .Marriage is known as sangam of two people and if its not there ,then its not even marriage .If one doesn't respect it ,then other can't make it forcibly .But yes ,I can understand Sarita ,she had married with utmost honesty with pure heart .She had dreams like eevry girl has .She wanted to see lover as well as husband in Raj . Whats her fault in all this that Divya and Raj couldn't unite .She has seen Raj always as her husband and has feelings for him only and like others ,she wants to live with the person she loves .

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neerjashingla

@Neerjaa

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#14

Whether its arrange or love marriage , you have to work on that . A single person,s efforts can not make it successful .Just because of Seven vows and all that , one can not go on entrapped in that relationship for life . who has seven lives , it should be the present life which one should be thinking of .

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