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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: ekta-avinafan

Yes that is the fact .In a show we can only connect to persons who sacrifice ,is selfless .Even if he/she does do one thing bad ,we don't get connect. and in return ,blame cvs that they create white/BLACK characters .
Its hard to connect to grey characters ...


For grey characters , you have to have good reasons , none is perfect , but in TV world , you are too good with tears running down or too bad with twisting of your facial expressions .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You all conveniently forgot that Sarita did LEAVE! She was on her way back to her hometown. Who brought her back by giving false hopes that Raj will love her? Divya! She keeps building that Umeed (hope) in Sarita that Raj is her and that marriage is a much stronger bond than love.

It is really easy to keep blaming one character and making the other one seem selfless, but in this story all of them are at fault. In Fact I think everyone should appreciate that all the characters are not perfect. This show brings out the imperfections of humans, which is a great thing. Humans do tend go get selfish and guess what All three characters have been selfish including Divya and Sarita.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Neerjaa

Why does not Sarita take task to Raj who spoilt her life , took away the prime years of her life , instead going after Divya . Divya was not there when Raj married her, took Vows , Divya is soft target , it should be Raj she should be handling . Raj is still going after her looking at Divya like lost lonely puppy openly . Her anger should be directed at him not Divya . Sarita should take the whole family publicly and give them left right and leave the house with her head high . But CV + channel will never go in that direction . What a drama .


blaming the family i understand but blamin raj is not fair. coz she could have gone away from raj anytime. its not like raj tied her up. raj's family is really weird. they dont understand a thing about love so ya they can be blamed for getting their son married like that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: SkyLight

You all conveniently forgot that Sarita did LEAVE! She was on her way back to her hometown. Who brought her back by giving false hopes that Raj will love her? Divya! She keeps building that Umeed (hope) in Sarita that Raj is her and that marriage is a much stronger bond than love.

It is really easy to keep blaming one character and making the other one seem selfless, but in this story all of them are at fault. In Fact I think everyone should appreciate that all the characters are not perfect. This show brings out the imperfections of humans, which is a great thing. Humans do tend go get selfish and guess what All three characters have been selfish including Divya and Sarita.



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so sarita left after 10 yrs n after blaming divya?? yes.. divya did bring her back. after all foul things sarita spoke she was forced to bring her back..

divya was being generous... she dint want to be da cause of sari's distress. so for doing this good deed, we should blame divya again?😲

come on yar.. sarita herself is building up her woes. n I'm not disapproving sarita. U should have seen how many posts ppl made here abt divya being selfish... I jus felt that sarita was selfish too
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: john909


blaming the family i understand but blamin raj is not fair. coz she could have gone away from raj anytime. its not like raj tied her up. raj's family is really weird. they dont understand a thing about love so ya they can be blamed for getting their son married like that.


Its easy to say than done . do we know her background except mentioned in the beginning , from a rich family . Then Mr Sohan lal in one breath saying she is from powerful family and , on the other side ,planning to throw her out of the house . There is contradiction in both the dialogues . Where are her parents who never once came to see their daughter . Just watching one show on SP , just started . Watch that one , relations and emotions ties the people not the nonsense , unrealistic story . Sarita should have long ago gone back , why she is taking all this garbage if is educated , if belongs to powerful family . As for getting him married is concerned , , this marriage might not be fixed same day , Raj had plenty of time to tell Sarita in this age of telephone . None is at blame , specially the actors , who are doing what they are told to do . Its creatives work to bring logical dialogues and tracks .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i totally agree when u love someone u want to make them happy. raj loves divya and he is a person not some toy that they can manipulate.

sarita says she loves raj and can do anything for him.so why cant she love him enough to let him go?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: archi29

i totally agree when u love someone u want to make them happy. raj loves divya and he is a person not some toy that they can manipulate.


sarita says she loves raj and can do anything for him.so why cant she love him enough to let him go?



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exactly my point!⭐️
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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: Neerjaa


Its easy to say than done . do we know her background except mentioned in the beginning , from a rich family . Then Mr Sohan lal in one breath saying she is from powerful family and , on the other side ,planning to throw her out of the house . There is contradiction in both the dialogues . Where are her parents who never once came to see their daughter . Just watching one show on SP , just started . Watch that one , relations and emotions ties the people not the nonsense , unrealistic story . Sarita should have long ago gone back , why she is taking all this garbage if is educated , if belongs to powerful family . As for getting him married is concerned , , this marriage might not be fixed same day , Raj had plenty of time to tell Sarita in this age of telephone . None is at blame , specially the actors , who are doing what they are told to do . Its creatives work to bring logical dialogues and tracks .

well considering how they have showed her character i am assuming tht she has a lot of self respect otherwise she would not have yelled at raj on the day when his aunt was accusing her for not being able to give them a child. but i used the word assumed coz she went to divya to save her own marriage when she knew what her relation with raj was. that step of hers just made no sense to me. she was behaving as if divya was trying to break her non existent marriage. after knowing everything instead of going to divya she should have just left raj and there is nothing hard about coz she that would be a totally justifiable step. even today she is clinging to raj knowing fully the extent to which raj loves divya and vice versa. what kinda wife goes to her husband's ex lover to fix her own marital problems.
anyways i am completely aware that cvs decide the script and actors just do what they are told but my point was completely on the story in reel life. it is about the characters and not the actors
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Priyamvada



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exactly my point!⭐️

Exactly..that 's why I don't understand her !! 😳 She said she can do anything for Raj naa ? 🤔 So why isn't she letting him free ?? When you TRULY love someone , that person's happiness is your purpose so why she choose to keep Raj unhappy ? 🤔 He loves ONLY Divya !!
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