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Posted: 11 years ago
#11
Sarita dony want to give raj his freedom
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinyere

sarita cant be selfish ,she stuck in a marrigae for 10 years to a man who didnt love her ,at least she was dedicated,loyal ,trust worthy and reliable patient,she sacrificed her happines ,,her self for raj may to see if she can bring back the joy the love that divya sucked out of him by choosing her family over the lobe of her live as she has claimed.

the question is could divya be trusted a second time and leave raj again high and dry for her family and helplessness if those things ever arise again? she isnt trustworthy or dedicated to the one one she claims to love.God forbids had Raj drop dead within the 10 yrs who ,would have been there at his funeral,his bed side if he was sick
divya or sarita?not a call in ten years but sarita selfish

So if someone else was in Divya's situation that person would let his family suffering after his parents death and go away ,right ? 😕 I know that Sarita is craving for Raj's love ...but ten years ? 😕 Let's believe that she didn't know that Raj can't love her and she was thinking that she can make him to fall in love with her one day ! Let's believe it...but now ,after hearing Raj & Divya's conversation she knows that Raj can't give her fake hopes ! So why is she still thinking about receiving love from Raj ? Isn't this kinda weird ? 😳 Is she truly loving Raj ? I do not doubt about that but I know that if you love a person ,that person's happiness is a priority for you 'cause if that person isn't happy , same will happen with you... She should know that if one of them isn't happy in the marriage ,noone of them will be ! If you love somebody who doesn't love you ,you need to free that person ! 😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinyere

sarita cant be selfish ,she stuck in a marrigae for 10 years to a man who didnt love her ,at least she was dedicated,loyal ,trust worthy and reliable patient,she sacrificed her happines ,,her self for raj may to see if she can bring back the joy the love that divya sucked out of him by choosing her family over the lobe of her live as she has claimed.

the question is could divya be trusted a second time and leave raj again high and dry for her family and helplessness if those things ever arise again? she isnt trustworthy or dedicated to the one one she claims to love.God forbids had Raj drop dead within the 10 yrs who ,would have been there at his funeral,his bed side if he was sick
divya or sarita?not a call in ten years but sarita selfish


so raj is suppose to love her coz she stayed with him for all this time. that sounds more like conditions applied love rather than unconditional. its like i did so much for you so now you have to love me. its not like raj ever claimed to love her and ditch her. she became well aware of everything about raj and she chose this path herself. even when divya was not there (10 years is a long time) he never loved her that just shows that no matter what sarita does raj will love divya only whether she is in his life or not and those 10 years have proved that. if she really loves raj she would have understood raj's feelings for divya by now.
divya was not being selfish when she left raj. infact she made one of the toughest decisions of her life. she loved raj and her family needed her at that time. she chose to support her family by sacrificing her love so how does that make her selfish? i am not saying sarita is a bad person. its just that either she doesnt want to understand raj's feelings coz of the fear of losing raj or she is obsessed with him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree. sarita is being selfish and unreasonable...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ekta-avinafan

Here raj and sarita are selfish. They both want to live their life whom they love .Selfless is Divya.

But we are all selfish in our lives .and This much selfishness is human nature and that is okay.



agree wid u..

dis is a show.. so we expect ppl to be selfless😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aishuuu.

So if someone else was in Divya's situation that person would let his family suffering after his parents death and go away ,right ? 😕 I know that Sarita is craving for Raj's love ...but ten years ? 😕 Let's believe that she didn't know that Raj can't love her and she was thinking that she can make him to fall in love with her one day ! Let's believe it...but now ,after hearing Raj & Divya's conversation she knows that Raj can't give her fake hopes ! So why is she still thinking about receiving love from Raj ? Isn't this kinda weird ? 😳 Is she truly loving Raj ? I do not doubt about that but I know that if you love a person ,that person's happiness is a priority for you 'cause if that person isn't happy , same will happen with you... She should know that if one of them isn't happy in the marriage ,noone of them will be ! If you love somebody who doesn't love you ,you need to free that person ! 😊



U've said it all aishu...⭐️👏

I mean if sarita trluly loves raj.. she should realise his happiness is wid Divya n let him go yar..⭐️

Love is not selfish yar.. its selfless.. we care more abt da person we love! not abt ourselves🥱
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Posted: 11 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: ashna26

I can't understand Sarita from the beginning. Even when she got all the focuss. I do feel sorry but that I feel for all the three characters? I was just thinking well you are not poor, seems you could have gone to her parents.. you knew that Raj didn't want to get married// She has a big mouth to her MIL but when it comes to Raj, she want his love. For me it is obsession. Love mean freedom, space. What kinda message does it give to women out there? I know people will say there are a lot of woman doing the same. So It is good to stay in a marraige for ten years. And off course you will get love..eventually sorry 😡 I think that is wrong. Instead of taking actions of your own life this story is oldfashion hoping that husband will love you it is giving a wrong message. And telling women should stay in a loveless marriage for ten years.. The twist is here off course the lover angle, Divya will give your rights. Eventually I know Raj will like her, only outcome of this storyline, as Sarita is the biggest victim right. The dialogue yesterday about marriage and lover really put me off.. 😕

This marraige is done by force, so how can this call a marraige in the first place.. A marriage should be called a marriage when two parties agree.. Just mine humble opinion.
I know in India it is different, you cannot get divorce that easy, and marriage only happens once etc.. I don't think Sarita is selfish but I feel she is obsessed of Raj. Also don't like how she kept on blaming Divya. Did she ever hold Raj or even her parents responsible or maybe herself even?



agree wid u!⭐️⭐️ cnt say more.. u have said it all!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinyere

sarita cant be selfish ,she stuck in a marrigae for 10 years to a man who didnt love her ,at least she was dedicated,loyal ,trust worthy and reliable patient,she sacrific,her self for raj may to see if she can bring back the joy the love that divya sucked out of him by choosing her family over the lobe of her live as she has claimed.ed her happines ,

the question is could divya be trusted a second time and leave raj again high and dry for her family and helplessness if those things ever arise again? she isnt trustworthy or dedicated to the one one she claims to love.God forbids had Raj drop dead within the 10 yrs who ,would have been there at his funeral,his bed side if he was sick
divya or sarita?not a call in ten years but sarita selfish


@underlined:Do you really know what is sacrifice. She is running after her happiness ,her rights of a wife .She did everything possible for that ,not only mentally but physically too.
@pink:If she was not doing it for herself but raj ,to give her joy.Then she would have left now seeing raj loves divya .

Frankly and openly am saying this: that I am pointing at you not sarita .Bcoz I can understnad sarita which my words of here may not be indicating ,i know. But I can't understand you .I am fully aware of your views on Rubina which you are trying to say by naming it Divya. Why to hide ??Then say it openly na.
Edited by ekta-avinafan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Priyamvada



agree wid u..

dis is a show.. so we expect ppl to be selfless😆

Yes that is the fact .In a show we can only connect to persons who sacrifice ,is selfless .Even if he/she does do one thing bad ,we don't get connect. and in return ,blame cvs that they create white/BLACK characters .
Its hard to connect to grey characters ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why does not Sarita take task to Raj who spoilt her life , took away the prime years of her life , instead going after Divya . Divya was not there when Raj married her, took Vows , Divya is soft target , it should be Raj she should be handling . Raj is still going after her looking at Divya like lost lonely puppy openly . Her anger should be directed at him not Divya . Sarita should take the whole family publicly and give them left right and leave the house with her head high . But CV + channel will never go in that direction . What a drama .
Edited by Neerjaa - 11 years ago
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