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Angie12 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anaghakaran

karan is a very good actor..


Anagha: I haven't seen prior work of Karan, so not qualified to comment on the past performance. But in last two episodes, when he finally got some focus, he performed well.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: misti73

Angie I saw yesterdays episode. I think when Divya left Raj lost the ability to differentiate between abuse and normal behaviour. He married Sarita because he was emotionally blackmailed and also because Sarita was waiting in the mandap. To him his responsibility was limited to see whether the physical needs of Sarita are being met or not...that is she has a house on her head...she has food.Since his emotions were locked up he did not see all that was happening to Sarita as abuse. Anyway this is how this dysfunctional family also behaves with its own members so with the loss in his ability to judging between what is abuse and what is normal behaviour he did not react. Today he reacted because now with Divya back in his life he is seeing stuff that he did not see before.So basically there was a short switch before which has been rectified by Divya.😉

Yes, it seems that he was the sleeping prince with those 10 years spent being in a different world. Even his help to strangers (it happened to be Divya both times) in a very detached manner. He could sense Sarita's physical discomfort because that was not related to emotions, but could not sense her abuse until she had to implore to him. Also, you are right the entire family is abusive. Father insults the mother, she butters him up to boost his ego but also resents him inside, dadi insults bahu and vice versa and finally all daughters are the same way. Even Shiela had taunted Kamla on a very low point in a crude way. So he has grown up with all this. He of course was probably not subjected to much because he was a son. The father did verbally abuse him too. More than likely, that could be one of the main reasons to get attracted to Divya - a soft spoken, cultured girl from a normal family. It seems that she did tell him everything about her family, but he didn't tell her anything.

But at least he has now woken up.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Angie

Should I again say that I love your post - I won't say it or I will sound like a stuck tape-recorder 😃.
From now onwards, I have actually decided to follow the story believing it is set in some alternate universe (like Harry Potter or Avatar).
I was just wondering about the story in general and the basic premise itself didn't make sense. In today's date, are arranged marriages any different from love marriages? The two people involved talk to each other, and develop at least a mutual liking before going for marriage - in fact, I found the pre-wedding conversations of some of my friends who went for arranged marriage far more romantic than my own 😭😆.
So, I was just thinking whether Sarita and Raj never met each other before the wedding day - unlikely, isn't it? If no, why? Why would an educated, beautiful and rich girl agree to get married like that? Marriage is always a risk - no matter how well you know your partner because you would always discover new facets of his / her personality after wedding. But to treat it as a jackpot, or a blind marriage (like blind date)? And if they met, why didn't Raj speak those magical words to her (about not accepting her), why Sarita didn't perceive his complete lack of interest when they were both free? Even if they knew each other from before, there must have been some time after the match was decided and before the wedding date. Won't any normally engaged couple try to talk to each other? It didn't matter to Raj but wasn't Sarita worried if Raj never called. Even my parents used to meet (chori chori 😃) in Mummy's college after their engagement - they are from small towns and their marriage took place 30 years back..
Coming to the present, Chhoti bahu's (the popular celebrity) wedding got broken, and she is staying at some random place (having left her own house). Why isn't media publishing real or cooked up stories about her? Why has no one in Raj's family discovered that there is no such show, esp. as there's no shooting going on?
So many questions which really do not have any explanation - so I guess I shouldn't look for them now.
I have chosen to believe that these characters are from some other planet and CVs from some other time (my great grand ma's time 😆)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Angie , very good post with the questions that every one wants to know . just the last part Raj was behaving like a kid who got his favorite toy . And it really irritates or laughing when ever that song is in the background . Where is Sarita,s family not once shown , as if disappeared in thin air . As for you mentioned his father forcing Raj to marry by taking his life , Angie it happens and have personal experience , That guy was from SRCC toppers in masters , but handling business , rags to riches story . Broke three engagements because of the girl he was supposed to be in love . Yes that girl was from middle class , well educated . Last i saw him , he was in tears as he could not take the pressure , then let him go . I still feel he was coward . In my community have sen , where purse strings are in parents hand and no business or property in sons, name .just to have control . It not story of some old era . I can understand Raj ,may be in the same position where he succumbed to pressure but should have the guts to tell truth to Sarita about himself before marriage . That kind of person do not deserve Divya . .He wasted the 10 years of Sarita,s life . and its not possible if he does not know how his wife is being treated .
Problem is makers itself do not know what they told earlier and what now . Sarita,s desperation of loosing her husband is like decades ago ,woman may had. where this was the motto jahan shadi hui vahin se arthi uthhe. Show sarita,s reasons also to stuck in this marriage , why still nothing about that when she has become so fire brand . Where that mausi disappeared after giving the lectures / abusing .
Just saw the whole episide , earlier it was just after reading your post , He woke up very soon realizing that human,s are more important then the furniture . May be i feel strongly about these kind of things . How is it possible that you never knew about what your unwanted wife was going through . Why this bhashan about wife,s bhakti and all , that Savitri is long time gone so are the people . If suppose anything happens to Sarita , will it not effect Divya kind of person ..Raj is in his dreamland with Divya , Divya in his illusion world making Raj love Sarita with her lie . Sarita also in dreamland thinking Divya is magic stick . And the blaring of songs attached with Sarita and Divya . quite funny . I also likes to write small posts but can not .
Does Divya deserves this family , hope she soon wakes up from her sleep and go for reality check . never is in to this kind of shows but the people from the previous show and Rubina makes me to see . Still believe it was not DJ,s it was channel who ruined the CB show after watching this one .

Edited by Neerjaa - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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angie I love to read ur posts...
well the sleeping prince woke up after 10 years, but he wasn't waking up at nce, he was waking up bit by bit, but its Divya who made him wake up and why divya was failing to understanding this and was thinkign sarita was the one who is waking up Raj.
Raj was a complete child like character, who was vexed up with his family and looks for happiness with some one and that some one is Divya, whom he made an emotional support and when she left him he lost it. But what I fail to understand is, why he agreed to marry sarita only because she is at mandap
Any way, I will leave it for rest and I just wonder why cv's are playing Divya as a dumbo. at first thy showed her a bit mature amongst the three. but she was connecting her reality with reel life, and was thinking every thing here will be like whay happens in TV shows. I am just wondering cv's are intended to show about punarvivaah or a love story or life of a TV actress and her illusions in this show
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SushantFan_Afss

Nice one angie di. Agree with u.

Afsara , thanks.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Angie, superb thread as usual! Thanks for clearing things out...this thread kinda "translates" episodes in a normal modern language.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks Neerja, I agree that parents pressure even in real life to marry according to their choice. But those people also move on even if it is done reluctantly. Here they are showing that Raj did not give in to financial pressure but to emotional pressure. So he considers Sarita his responsibility, but not his wife. As far as logic about waking up now is concerned, everyone is waking up after 10 years - Dadi, Sarita, Kamla etc. Divya is their trigger. Now expecting logic is useless. How else can they show their twists if they don't keep things ambiguous.

As far as writing a long post is concerned, don't worry about me. I am the last one who can lecture anybody about writing a short post.😊. As far the channel spoiling a show is concerned, they may be the primary culprit. But they are not the only culprit. The PH shares the responsibility. There are all these constraints under which writers/PH works. But under the same constraints, the logical sequences can still be shown. The execution is by PH and they are the ones to submit the final product (after editing etc.). Now day before yesterday, it was shown that Palaki idea was Sohan Lal's. Now why did they not make it clear the day it was shown. That day, it seemed so strange that Divya was coming to Raj's house in that manner. Some people would have been turned off by Divya's character. So that is from the PH/writers. If a show is good, the creatives (channel/PH/writers/editors/.etc.) takes the credit. If it is bad, then they share the blame.


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