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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont understand how after living with someone for ten whole years, you can not haveany feelings of guilt and remorse. Sarita took care of Raj for a long time, and although they lived like strangers, she served him and his mother and sisters the whole time, It is one thing to not fall in love with someone after ten years. That is acceptable. How can someone like Raj, have no feelings of basic human compassion for Sarita? Leave alone friendship, we are talking of basic empathy, which this fellow seems to be entirely lacking.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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True kaha na he is messed up big time

How can he tolerate all that is happening to Sarita is he blind or what

Then says I'll buy your ticket chalti bank
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Posted: 11 years ago
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If u love someone dearly, then it is clear that u may never ever love a next person the same way. In a marriage, a couple belongs to each other. Every moment, every fight. For Raj and Divya its the same. Though Raj has married Sarita he still loves Divya. So no woman no matter who or how famous she is can replace his Divya.
Though Divya moved on, she is still worried about Raj's condition as well.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well wht u said is rgt
but he messed up he has stopped having any feeling after divya left him so not any feeling resides in him except anger
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Posted: 11 years ago
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emotional issues my friend. raj is loaded with them. he can't see anything beyond Divya 😔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree wid u guys!

Raj has now become a cold hearted person! being ditched by the gal of his dreams he's broken inside.. so much that he doesn't feel anything else..

I guess its time he behaves as a normal human being.. now that Divu is back!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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but raj should have atleast consider sarita as a frnd..i also dun understand y raj doesnt feel even sympathy for sarita?!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aimf

I dont understand how after living with someone for ten whole years, you can not haveany feelings of guilt and remorse. Sarita took care of Raj for a long time, and although they lived like strangers, she served him and his mother and sisters the whole time, It is one thing to not fall in love with someone after ten years. That is acceptable. How can someone like Raj, have no feelings of basic human compassion for Sarita? Leave alone friendship, we are talking of basic empathy, which this fellow seems to be entirely lacking.

Aimf, Raj's empathy genes are missing. But I think there are feelings of guilt and remorse somewhere. Otherwise, he would not have asked Sarita to forgive him. He was not expecting her to forgive him, but asked for it nevertheless.

They are showing a big contradiction in his behavior. On one hand, they showed him aware enough to sense her phsyical discomfort and he switched off the fan. On the other hand, they show him sleeping on the bed and letting Sarita sleep on the floor. He is aware of his family's abuse of her and yet does nothing until Sarita had to scream for it.

Based on what has been shown so far, it seems that he is an ostrich. So not giving Sarita his bed or not noticing her is his way of convincing himself that she doesn't exist. It is like she is an elephant in the room whom he refuses to see. That's why he was shown to be thinking that he was waiting for Divya to come back to him and Divya betrayed him. There was no thought of Sarita anywhere. It was as if he wanted Sarita to walk out of his life, but it had to be her who was supposed to it.

In some sense, it is a good change to see such a flawed character who is not a typical hero. A typical hero may not love a woman in his life, but he would be sticking to her out of some sense of responsibility. He needs to pay for his mistakes and I do hope they show everything logical to explain his character. I also hope that he doesn't keep on getting a free pass from Sarita. Yesterday, Sarita finally did something she should have done a long time ago.
Edited by Angie12 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ All Thank you for liking the post and taking the time to respond. I appreciate it.
@ Angie
Very well said. You have made some great points about the contradictions in Raj's character. A flawed reel hero is indeed more interesting than a perfect one. We will have to wait and see what the CVS have in store.
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