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Angie12 thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: goolab

for me i dont like divya have to make raj fall in love with sarita

what did sarita do for 10years she did not try to get her husband back now she blame divya for that now she tell raj i,m living you raj dont cara he told i bring your ticket now see what will happen


Goolab, Divya can provide a closure to Raj in some way. But she can't force his feelings. Nobody can make somebody fall in love with somebody else. Sarita is desperate and frustrated and is projecting all her anger/frustrations on Divya. Since she has been compared for 7 years or more to Divya either in her serial avataar or because Raj could never forget her, Sarita is now comparing herself to Divya and convincing herself that there is nothing special about Divya. So Divya is the culprit and Raj gets scot free in her book as it is convenient to blame Divya.

It seems that she tried different ways to make Raj fall for her. Today she tried her last weapon that of leaving him. Even that backfired as Raj did not even pretend to stop her. In a real world, nobody would take this kind of crap for 10 years especially if they have a supportive resourceful family. But here I do feel sympathy for her too because she has lived in false hopes for 10 years that someday Raj would fall for her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#12

so agree. vamps have a career, bad moms work in office and don't pay attention to their kids. gud mothers toil day and night and never think for themselves and most of all are dumb 😆
how i wish, we would have progressive shows but nope that doesn't bring ratings. oh I'd so love to know which families have that stupid meter installed and hence dictate what should come on indian tele.
thanks for the UK/US shows, or else I would have gone mad by now watching all non sense crap. even this show I'm following coz of the answers Sarita gives bk and DivyaRaj, any more dragging or stupidity and I'll be off...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: deepa1122

To me Sarita and raj both are messed up


Sarita for marrying a guy who does not love

Chalo that would be ok to as a young woman

She thought she could change him

But it took her 10 yrs to figure that out

And raj uska to kya Kahna he expects Divya to wait for him

And ignores Sarita knowing the tx she is getting

Dono pagal hai

To me the only sane one is Divya

Naively she believed that raj will wait for

But founding out raj did nothing of the sort she decoded do get on with her

Life I only hope she does not turn out to be the one who sacrifices for

Others pls radhika na ban Jana


Deepa, I think they are showing that all these 3 characters were immature and young when all these things happened. So all 3 got stuck in time and never came out of their dreamworld. It is more than likely that Sarita had conditioned herself to love the husband. So she stays with him because she has no other dreams. Divya on the other hand is a more open character who can make best out of circumstances. From today's episode, it seems that Sarita could have counted on her family to support her. Granted, it was mostly Raj's faults. But she could have lifted herself out and moved from Raj's house to make a new life for herself. She never did and is now blaming Divya for the wastage of her 10 years.

Divya is better understandable because she is open and honest. Raj and Sarita are kept hidden and that's why all their actions are not making sense to many audience. Once more of the back story is released, then hopefully their characters would be understandable.

But I do feel sympathy for all three characters for different reasons. Sarita is not really delusional. She has made Raj the sole purpose of her life. Her approach so far has been that one day he would see her and come out of his Divya world. She did today what she should have done long time ago. She left a person who is detached to extreme at least with her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#14
nice post 😃

i also feel sorry for divya and sarita.
gaurav is just too sweet yaar. too bad he got caught up in this drama.
raj is messed up. in the last episode he was saying that he didn't give sarita any rights because he kept waiting for her and she didn't even look for him. i'm like "huh?" is he serious? what did he plan on doing? divorcing d poor girl and going to divya right away? sigh 😔 they need to work on raj 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chalhov

Angie liked your analysis of the 3 characters

All expectations from Divya past or present and is Divya to prove her reel life CB mahanta in real life. well seems so at present I thought Gaurav was practical and liberal but he also wants love well but will he get it immediately high expectations but his last line was in sync with the character I was thinking.my POV. Raj and Sarita well reminds me of the pound of flesh story lets see just because they(Ravya Raj an Divya) love and Raj could not move on despite marrying.
Raj and Sarita are more complicated and grey have to W&W how slowly the story takes shape


Yes, that is why I felt sorry for Divya. She is already feeling very guilty that Raj has destroyed his life because of her. Now on top of that, Sarita has made Divya feel that her (Sarita's) life is also messed up because of her as she caused Raj to become this emotionally dead person. So she is now responsible for two lives. Then on top of that, there is now Gaurav who is liberal and broad minded but has expectations from her because he has fallen in love with her. Gaurav is not wrong in his place. Any guy would want their would be wife to love them eventually. But so far he had given her space. Today he did give her space, but also showed his insecurity to her when she just took Raj's name. How would he deal when Raj comes back in her life. Today, he was shown to feel apprehensive when he saw Raj. But Raj did not create a scene, just returned him his money and left. But he did taunt Gaurav of taking Divya who belonged to him. So Raj did convey to Gaurav that Divya was his and Gaurav had done wrong by taking her from Raj. So Raj is a possessive person who will not let Divya go away easily if she comes back in his life. Gaurav has to react to that.

I like the word "pound of flesh". Sarita is definitely going to do that and she did that today too, the way she cursed Divya. Raj has been expecting her to come back to him. So when she goes to his house, she would be fighting her feelings for him and destroying his expectations too.

All three are grey characters because even Divya is not doing the right thing by marrying Gaurav. She is not ready for any relationship until she resolves her feelings for Raj.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: sush_avina



well u are absolutely right.

Divya has to face all the three sides.
Sarita pressurising her to get her husband's love to her. She is not realising that if divya will stay with her and try to get raj's love divya is the on who is going to gain it and not sarita. Sarita is only taunting are everywhere where as divya is trying to protect her is thinking about her.
Gaurav is expecting her to love him in just 2-3 days comeon she is already in love and ya uske saat lkove at first sight hone ke liye who toh uske bhai jaise dikhta hai toh love at first sight kaise hoga bhai.
Raj yes agree with u that he is the most messed up character. He is not thinking about what is happening to sarita is not right and he is not even thinking about what he did to divya by moving ahead in life divya is doing the same. He can move ahead but not divya what kind of justice is this.
Well great idea that she should runaway to Mumbai lekinn who dev ke saat nahi humare dev ke saat.😉

Sush, Sarita is not thinking straight. She has tried her ways to reach out to Raj, but Raj is pretty unresponsive. Today she tried the last thing by deciding to walk out. Even then he did not react. So in her desperation, she is approaching Divya because that is the only way for Raj to react. Only time he reacted was when she took Divya's ring. So she is hoping that Divya with that kind of hold would be able to reach Raj and be able to persuade him to move on in his life with Sarita. So I don't blame Sarita for this. She doesn't have much to lose. Already Divya is between them even if it is not Divya's fault. So even if Divya comes back and Raj starts going after her, it would at least be out in open.

Divya on the other hand is feeling guilty about her actions that caused Raj to reach this stage. So she is feeling responsible for two lives now and is feeling torn between her own feelings for Raj and bringing back some happiness in these two people's lives.

Gaurav is not really expecting Divya to fall for him because he knows that she still has feelings for Raj. After the police station, Divya broke down and told Gaurav that Raj was her life and she cannot even bear him wasting his potential. But he probably consoled himself that Divya is moving on because she agreed to marry him in a week and so on. Today he realized that she still has deep feelings for Raj and that made Gaurav insecure. He also looked apprehensive when he saw Raj at his house. On top of that, Raj made it clear that Divya was his and Gaurav was actually taking something that Raj had given him. So his hint was that Gaurav was only getting Divya because Raj had backed down. If Raj decides to fight for Divya, then Gaurav would not get her. I think those two events made Gaurav feel insecure and he blurted out his feelings to Divya and his subconscious desire for her to love him the way he loves her.


Raj is the most damaged character who is living in his own world. That's why he should not be with anybody. He married Sarita under duress, but never told her explicitly to leave him and start a new life. His small courtesies provided some hope to Sarita that he would one day look at her. He on the other hand is acting as if there is no Sarita in his life. So he expected Divya to come back to his life despite him having a wife. Or he expected Divya to live like him for the rest of her life. That is pretty convoluted thinking. That's why he needs help before he can be with anybody.

As far as running away to Dev, I knew at least one-third of the forum would be in that favor. They can have a cameo of someone whom people are missing and Divya (CB) going back to him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes,yes..divya should run just like Forrest did, leaving all the obstacles behind..i too was surprised to see gaurav asking her abt love when he didnt expect nothing but honesty before...i am very curious how this character develops later on...you know,. these quite ones can hide the biggest storms..who knows...on the opposite side, sarita who is very loud abt sharing her views i feel that she isnt a bad person, maybe shes just a rich kid who wanted a new toy ( raj) waited patiently for him to notice her, but when he didnt she got caught up in the rutine and still waits and suffers, now she seems to have been waken up, will she really go?!
Raj is still an enigma to me...
Angie, if divya must run back to her co star to mumbai,. i will agree only if hes is played by Avinash 😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soniaman

Nice analyis angie!!and a welcome change of name..well this is story of Tv star,so they will show her hardship and mahanta..i also want her to run to go to her bholu😆


Sonia, thanks. Of course, Divya is the lead here and hence she will be the one to bring change to everyone's life. I know you don't mind the last choice where Divya leaves everyone and goes back to Bholu.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angie12

Sush, Sarita is not thinking straight. She has tried her ways to reach out to Raj, but Raj is pretty unresponsive. Today she tried the last thing by deciding to walk out. Even then he did not react. So in her desperation, she is approaching Divya because that is the only way for Raj to react. Only time he reacted was when she took Divya's ring. So she is hoping that Divya with that kind of hold would be able to reach Raj and be able to persuade him to move on in his life with Sarita. So I don't blame Sarita for this. She doesn't have much to lose. Already Divya is between them even if it is not Divya's fault. So even if Divya comes back and Raj starts going after her, it would at least be out in open.

Divya on the other hand is feeling guilty about her actions that caused Raj to reach this stage. So she is feeling responsible for two lives now and is feeling torn between her own feelings for Raj and bringing back some happiness in these two people's lives.

Gaurav is not really expecting Divya to fall for him because he knows that she still has feelings for Raj. After the police station, Divya broke down and told Gaurav that Raj was her life and she cannot even bear him wasting his potential. But he probably consoled himself that Divya is moving on because she agreed to marry him in a week and so on. Today he realized that she still has deep feelings for Raj and that made Gaurav insecure. He also looked apprehensive when he saw Raj at his house. On top of that, Raj made it clear that Divya was his and Gaurav was actually taking something that Raj had given him. So his hint was that Gaurav was only getting Divya because Raj had backed down. If Raj decides to fight for Divya, then Gaurav would not get her. I think those two events made Gaurav feel insecure and he blurted out his feelings to Divya and his subconscious desire for her to love him the way he loves her.


Raj is the most damaged character who is living in his own world. That's why he should not be with anybody. He married Sarita under duress, but never told her explicitly to leave him and start a new life. His small courtesies provided some hope to Sarita that he would one day look at her. He on the other hand is acting as if there is no Sarita in his life. So he expected Divya to come back to his life despite him having a wife. Or he expected Divya to live like him for the rest of her life. That is pretty convoluted thinking. That's why he needs help before he can be with anybody.

As far as running away to Dev, I knew at least one-third of the forum would be in that favor. They can have a cameo of someone whom people are missing and Divya (CB) going back to him.

well said angie u explained it really well better then my previous school teachers.
now I am able to clearly analyse the characters and their felling
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angie12

I am now feeling extremely sorry for Divya. She came back with high anticipation of a teenage memory thinking that she would get married to the love of her life and live happily ever after. Instead she has met three characters who seem to be making one demand after another from her.


1. Sarita - So she marches to Divya's house in the middle of the ceremony, makes a public scene that Divya averts, makes demands and still manages to curse her publicly. So now it is going to be Divya's job to make her husband of 10 years fall in love with her. In the process, Divya would be supposed to reform the entire Jakotia family so that they start thinking of Sarita as an ideal bahu. So it seems that Sarita does have a supportive family in Vidisha who happen to be quite rich. She did what she should have done 10 years ago by walking out on Raj and his family. But now there is Divya to take care of everything.

2. Gaurav - Now Gaurav has been depicted as a mature understanding guy who is big hearted enough to accept a girl who is marrying him only after finding out that her lover did not wait for her. But today he got insecure at realizing that Divya hasn't forgotten Raj and started hoping that Divya has fallen for him in 3 days. On hearing Divya's honest answer that love in arranged marriage doesn't happen in 2 days and that too prior to the marriage, he is now telling her that he fell for her the first time he met her at Bhopal station. Now he wants her to love him back. Poor Divya. She got engaged to him by hearing from him that she just needed to bring honesty to the relationship and he would bring the love. But now she knows that deep down he does want her to love him back and that too sooner than later.

3. Raj - the most messed up character in the show. So he marries Sarita, ignores her and also ignores all the abuse that she is getting from his family even though he is aware of it. So he has not set Sarita free in 10 years because it was his expectation that Sarita would leave him by herself. But he expects that Divya would remain in a limbo like him and when she returns would come to him despite him being a married man as he has remained faithful to her both physically and emotionally for 10 years. So now he feels that she has betrayed him once again - first by leaving him for her family and now getting engaged to a guy who is more successful than him. But there is no thought in his mind that what would he be doing with a wife when his girlfriend comes back in his life. So despite thinking that Divya never once came to find out him and has betrayed him, he is still ok with Sarita leaving him. When he finds out that Divya did come to his house and expected to marry him, what would he do?

So Divya now has to deal with these characters and try to meet their expectations. So I am feeling quite sorry for her. I think I like Ruchi's suggestion in her thread that she should go back to Mumbai leaving all three - Gaurav, Sarita and Raj and getting together with the co-star of her CB show.

Good heavens - what is the matter? 😲😲
Why all this talk of Divya leaving all three and going back to Mumbai? 😲😲
Surely it is not forgotten?
Divya is Choti Bahu, the only lady in TV land who can fix everything and make everyone happy! 😉😃
I admit she prefers to live in her (pre-TV) la la land of 10 years ago - nevertheless, she is Choti Bahu nah?
😆😆😆😆😆
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