According to the discussions made I believe there is many people in this forum who feel pity with Sarita. I just don't get 'why'. Its I believe entirely Sarita's fault that she is living this life for the past 10 long years. Nobody forced her to live like dat.
1. Sarita very well knew that raj didn't love her yet she married him. "why". Was she expecting to change raj. If so she wasn't very successful in doing this. Raj made it very clear at the wedding night that they will only live as strangers and nothing more. She could have left raj after one or two years well that's the maximum time u can use to judge if a person is eva going to change or not. She did not leave then why now she is blaming other people for her miserable life.
2. She doesn't show respect for Raj's family members. She is soo younger then kamla yet is that how she should treat her MIL ( I know kamla also treats her like that)but atleast she should have "pretended" to tolerate it and shown some respect to raj's family members then dat indirectly mite have been a gateway to raj's heart.
3. Sarita also is very selfish. Wat right does she have to go to divya's wedding rituals and ask her not to marry until her own marital life is blossomed. That's totally foolish. She sounded like she would kill the gal who made raj like dat to not to accept sarita has his wife. Why blame dat girl. She didn't do anything and neither had she interfered in the raj's life for 10 years. Then Why blame her.
If sarita had had been more vigilant and influensive towards raj she wouldn't have been facing this. There had been a saying "a women's tongue is enough to rise a men's leg" ( soory for using that language) but had been sarita like that then she would have had atleast 2 children. N now some of u might be saying that sarita was like that but raj neva melted- then come back to the same question why is she not leaving raj. Is 10 years not enuf to know if a person will change or not, is she waiting for another 20-30 years to see if raj is eva going to love her.
Raj- raj should have been felt soory for because he was the one who had to marry someone forcefully n marrying means living with the person u neva loved or neither wanted to spend ur life with( sarita on the other hand had a choice, her family didn't force her to marry- she chose her own destiny). Raj was the one who was dumped by a girl whom he loved earnestly. Dat gal left him without giving him any justification and telling him what his mistake was that she was leaving him.
Divya- divya on the other hand also suffers a lot, she has to leave a guy and go and pursue her career in order to support her family in their crucial times. She had to leave her first love even if she didn't want to do dat. Now she has to marry someone else whom she doesn't love to give her family some happiness.
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