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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: JaiJagannath

@innocent:What has wrong happened with Sarita is Divya responsible for that???Raj married her and did not give her any rights.It was Raj who wronged her.She should blame Raj but instead she is blaming Divya and calling her mean,grehen and what not.She was not even in picture for the last 10 years.So is blaming Divya for everything is right???Is it right to go to her haldi ceremony and ask her to call off her wedding just to sort out her marital problems???She was well aware of Raj's unwillingness to marry her but she went ahead as in this society a girl is always blamed.Is not the same case with Divya??If Divya refuses to marry now wont the society point a finger towards her family???What about Gourav??What is his fault in this mess that his family will also have to face humiliation if Divya agrees to her demands and calls off her wedding.What Sarita did today she should do the same with Raj because he is the main culprit behind her condition.Her blaming Divya is for everything is completely wrong.

And about Divya not communicating with Raj,We have to wait for the back story.What exactly happened between her nad Raj we don't know yet.

And for Divya blaming Sarita,she did apologized for that but still Sarita gave her curse that she wont be happy in her life.When Divya blamed Sarita she was called "shameless" "selfish" "shallow".But when Sarita blames Divya it is also Divya's fault.She is the main culprit in making three lives hell.What to say!!!

Apologies for late response! Havent had time to be active! I will keep it short, and say you have decided to watch the show on the basis of favouritism and its evident you will support Divya no matter what, hence I will end my debate here! If we place ourseleves in the two women's shoes, its evident both have been wronged (if thats word) Hence good luck to both! The show has really gone down hill, its ruined all the characters now, I deteste Raj's antics, he has become exactly like his father! Divya is herself an idiot, for doing what she did with Gaurav and Gaurav is a bigger idiot for still supporting her! And the other idiot is Sarita for still wanting something from a man who didnt bother supporting her for 10 years! She should leave and curse Raj instead!

Marriage is no candy, ie you cant throw it in the bin if you fail to like the taste of it! Something Raj failed to understand, all because his hormones havent been suppressed! So he doesnt deserve happiness at all!


PS I only blame Raj! He caused this all! Not Divya nor Sarita, although the ladies have been acting like idiots as of late!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soniaman

we can say that divya did nt communicate with raj or she had nt tried atleast??? Have they shown that?? (i think that it s need to show the story before ten yrs,and how events take place and thr is something before to reach conclusions!) Well when divya met sarita ,she did nt know the conditions,but people call her shallow ,shameful etc...and today when sarita goes to divya s home people call sarita selfish etc...all are humans,everyone does mistake,yehen koi dhud ka dhola nhi hai?? If sarita speaks to divya,or divya speaks to sarita this way,that means both are negative??cant this serial wale take all characters postive..

CV are busy promoting marriage to be a joke and affairs to be the norm of today and thats why they fail to ensure their characters are exploring their feeling and emotions and instead stick to giving baseless dialogues to the women and the family members! You are right we are all humans, and we do all commit mistakes, but a mistake can be forgiven as per its consequences, (per my belief) and the biggest mistaker has to be Raj, and instead of showing him the mirror the two ladies are acting like they will never get another man in their lives! anyways, the show is promoting nonsense! and i dont watch this based on loving one actor more, hence i want the marriage to be saved, only because 10 years was wasted in a woman's life in the belief that maybe one day, her husband will love her!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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CV are busy promoting marriage to be a joke and affairs to be the norm of today and thats why they fail to ensure their characters are exploring their feeling and emotions and instead stick to giving baseless dialogues to the women and the family members! You are right we are all humans, and we do all commit mistakes, but a mistake can be forgiven as per its consequences, (per my belief) and the biggest mistaker has to be Raj, and instead of showing him the mirror the two ladies are acting like they will never get another man in their lives! anyways, the show is promoting nonsense! and i dont watch this based on loving one actor more, hence i want the marriage to be saved, only because 10 years was wasted in a woman's life in the belief that maybe one day, her husband will love her!


Innocent, why will they show that kind of emotions/feelings if they feel that it won't bring ratings. They only think mindless melodrama bring ratings. That's why screaming matches between Sarita and Kamla are shown every day. In the beginning, it was refreshing to see Sarita standing up for herself because typically this kind of DIL is not shown. But now it is just repetition. I would rather see emotions of leads and their actions. All actions of 3 characters (whether right or wrong) can still be explained very logically if the creatives want to do that because it is only one month and the story has not moved to an extent where it would be hard to do so.

I don't think they are going towards Divya and Raj wedding. That is the whole purpose to show Sundari that eventually Raj will be different from the father and Divya is different from Sundari. They are definitely going towards Raj and Sarita. That's why none of emotions of Divya and Raj are explored because they don't want viewers to root for this couple who have really good chemistry.

The norm of serials is to either show an ideal hero/husband or this obsessive destructive sort of hero who torments his other half (wife/lover). The wife/lover adores that person and takes all that abuse in the name of love and then reforms that person. Here he would be reformed by the help of his first love Divya. In PV1, it was obsession with the first wife (dead and perfect soulmate type love) and here in PV2, it is an obsession with first love (alive and perfect soulmate type). In both cases, the wedding was out of some source of force, but eventually it transformed the hero. Those kind of stories are fetching them good ratings and so this is the type of heros we will get in TV serials.


Of course, in all this all the issues will be ignored about characters. Raj had to have abandonment issues even before Divya left him. That's why her desertion of him (even for noble cause and him being aware of it) left such scars. They can easily contrast him with Gaurav who too was abandoned by his father but is emotionally secure. Maybe the mother is the key in all that because Raj has no functional parent and even Dadi is pretty screwed up character. They can also send a message that tolerating abuse for anyone (a husband or anybody else) is a waste of one's precious life. But I doubt they will do that. It would instead be shown that one's persistence can change/reform even a stone-hearted person, and hence it was good to tolerate all this abuse/neglect for 10 years.

They can show that people realize that memories of first love are more perfect than that love. Or that people change in 10 years and cannot go back to recapture the past, even though they are drawn towards it because it was so innocent and sweet. More than likely the last thing would be shown but in a convoluted serial type way.



So far I am highly unimpressed by the execution of this PH in how they are presenting characters. The story has potential, but the direction/execution/script needs major improvement. I don't have problems with actors because I have seen their previous work and know what they are capable of if given a good script. In this kind of script, even an actor like Naseeruddin Shah will not be able to do much.
Edited by Angie12 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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How can one consider sarita negative if she is going help div and raj get to gather ?
Agree this Ph has gone bonkers showing all kinds of stupid stuff
2 wives
Husband unaware of wife being treated cruely for 10 yrs

The list goes on and on
First time seeing a joint family -the parents being crude and behaving like cats and dogs usually the parents are upstanding decent folks and some one else bad mouths others
Edited by chayya55 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't think that Sarita is negative despite her getting angry at Divya. Sarita is the DIL who has not been accepted by her husband nor his family. She enlists the help of his ex-lover and when said ex-lover comes home, she sees that the family accepts her. They treat ex-lover like a queen and make unfair and hurtful comparisons.
It's only normal human behaviour that Sarita would be jealous and hurt by the comparisons. I don't think she was actually angry at Divya herself but more at the comparison itself.
So far, apart from remaining with Raj for 10 years, I could relate to Sarita's characters. Her emotions are more natural and believable.
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