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Posted: 11 years ago
#11
I do nt know if raj divya fans agree with me,but i want gourav for divya..i am saying on basis of what they have shown,the character Raj is very much in shadow,and they have put light on this characters,but as well as divya also!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said misti good to see you back and angie very nice analysis very well wasid both of u
yes the line suits divya very much as divya tried running away from her past after she got to know about raj and saritas marriage but still it is coming behind her like a beetal( vikram betal). SHe has toface it an dit is the harsh truth of life.
Well in sbb they said that sarita will fall in love with gaurav and that they will marry at the end
really a good analysis both of u on the two lead strong characters
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soniaman

Beautiful lines misti..very gud analysis angie..your analysis was very much missed! Yestreday,in SBB,they told sarita to fall in love with gourav!


Thanks Sonia. As for Sarita falling in love with Gaurav lets see whats there in future.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Misti: πŸ˜†Yes, I used to write quite long and I loved writing essays in both Hindi and English. I remember when I was in sixth or seventh grade, I ran out of my time on my midterm because I just kept on writing my essay and then had to finish the rest of the paper in half an hour. After that I learnt time management and left essays for the last. In my comprehensives for the Ph.D. program, we used to have about 14 hours of exam spread over two days. There were 14 essay questions and I took every second of it. My teachers only comments were that I prepared well and knew my topics and that they were amazed that somebody could write so much in an hour for each question. There are no grades assigned to those essays. It is either Pass or Fail. So I would have got the same grade if I had written half of what I wrote. Now in my current job, I have learnt to write quite concisely as it is a government job and there is a lot of emphasis on short sentences and very precise/concise stuff. I had some difficulty in the beginning and used to argue with my boss that his editing is changing the context and meaning of my sentence. Now at least for technical stuff, I am very concise. Now writing on the forum is a different thing. Maybe one of these days, I would learn to edit and write in short sentences.

Do tell me about Gora's middle and the ending. I saw only until Gora was imprisoned and he seemed to be changing where he only wanted to eat what the rest of the prison population was having. His friend and Lolita were getting attracted towards each other. So what happened next? I was very disappointed that I could not get the novel this time. And if I couldn't get it from Universal store in Lucknow, there is no way I can find it anywhere else. Maybe I will buy English translation, but I always feel that the Hindi translation is the best after the original as a lot of essence is still retained in the translation. I have not been very happy with English translations of these pieces of literature for the most part.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: chalhov

Misti very apt when I was watching the whole sequence of Divya Sarita scene and Sarita's rantings I felt she was full of poor me and the whole world seems to be my enemy everyone else but she is also responsible for her situation maybe she also spent more time with Raj then Divya spent with him she is scorning all family Raj Divya ,she cold have tried maybe a different type of approach where she could have mad herself indispensable instead of the crankly way where she seems to do everything but with anger and cribbing fighting with all and he slowly thawed then moved to the next stage to Raj and Raj seemed stone like in his feelings but not unsympathetic to her as a person well still have to watch more as yet many situations have to be clarified. Divya was not in touch with Raj all these yearsπŸ˜•πŸ˜• so I am umable to understand why Raj did not move on what is the reason??????


Thanks Chalhov. As for Sarita I am going to give her the benefit of doubt regarding what happened in the past.This is mainly because I don't know what exactly are the circumstances under which Sarita entered this marriage.Did she have any choice? Was she told that after marriage everything will be ok and time will take care of stuff. That responsibilities will change Raj...That Raj returning to get married meant that he is ready to give this relationship a chance...I mean thousands of arranged marriages takes place where the girl enters a new house fully understanding that the love might not be there but with time it will happen. I do accept that Sarita should have tried a different approach but is there any person who has guided her in this? Sarita was also very young when she entered this house and she did not have any support, so how can a young inexperienced person be expected to know all this. The MIL always blames her and the dadi gives her sympathy but they are empty ones to me. The dadi is the eldest in the family, if she had really wanted she could have shut up the entire family. I was astounded in that scene where they showed the mausi using very crass language in front of the MIL of her sister. Dadi had the complete authority to shut up the mausi and show her the way to the door. But she did not do anything...she did not like what that mausi was saying but she did not protest loudly to stop it.As for making her indispensable and doing everything...she is doing everything for the family but what is she getting in return. Just insult after insult and that too for 10 years. How long is a person supposed to bear abuse and mental torture without retaliating? There are people who do not retaliate and softly do their work but Sarita does not have the maturity to handle people that way. If she did then she would have realised that it is not Divya's fault that her marriage is not successful but Raj's. Once Raj decided to enter the marriage the responsibility towards this marriage was his, not Divya's. Since Sarita is not that mature, she needs guidance but that even is not there for her. I am not saying that Sarita does not have faults...she does have them...she has an ego, she lacks the maturity to recognise and accept what her heart and mind are telling her. But she is human...she does love her husband and is now
fighting to save her marriage. Also Chalhov, Sarita is not the lead but Divya is πŸ˜‰...so on the basis of how hindi shows are written, it is Divya who will be having all the characters that you are looking for in Sarita.πŸ˜‰

Raj is a conundrum for me. I don't understand people like him. To me if he was really sympathetic towards Sarita then he would have tried to find a solution for this problem and not just go around with a sullen face. Till now they have not showed anything regarding him and he is a big question mark for me.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Myra.nelly

Hello girls :) good to see you posting again misti...
This show has two strong characters here and ur quotes describe them well...these two ladies lead the show and Raj is the instrument that brings them together...honestly he is just the shadow of the guy these girls fell for, if hes not changing i dnt want any of divya or sarita to b with him...


Hello there stranger. πŸ€— Any dreams about a very special bad boy riding a bike? Thanks for liking the quotes and yes this show does have two very strong characters in Divya and Sarita. Raj is the thread that joins them even if they don't want to be joined to each otherπŸ˜‰πŸ˜†. As for Raj he needs to go off somewhere and think regarding what does he exactly want from life and needs someone to give him a reality check. He should not be in any relationship until he has made with himself. More than harming others, he is actually harming himself more.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: misti73



Hello there stranger.πŸ€—Any dreams about a very special bad boy riding a bike? Thanks for liking the quotes and yes this show does have two very strong characters in Divya and Sarita. Raj is the thread that joins them even if they don't want to be joined to each otherπŸ˜‰πŸ˜†. As for Raj he needs to go off somewhere and think regarding what does he exactly want from life and needs someone to give him a reality check. He should not be in any relationship until he has made with himself. More than harming others, he is actually harming himself more.

πŸ€— Nope, no more dreams...unfortunatly.. and this show doesnt have a villan πŸ˜‰ Agree, Raj needs to get himself fixed...but he needs help, my guess is that divya will b the one to help...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sush_avina

well said misti good to see you back and angie very nice analysis very well wasid both of u

yes the line suits divya very much as divya tried running away from her past after she got to know about raj and saritas marriage but still it is coming behind her like a beetal( vikram betal). SHe has toface it an dit is the harsh truth of life.
Well in sbb they said that sarita will fall in love with gaurav and that they will marry at the end
really a good analysis both of u on the two lead strong characters


Thanks, Sush. I like this reference of Betaal even though Sarita seems more like a betaal to Divya's Vikram right now. I have not watched any betaal show on TV or anywhere else, but Vikram Betaal stories used to be one of my favorites and Betaal was one of really comical characters for me with his sarcastic demeanor and tongue in cheek humor.

Misti/Myra: Actually, if I have to think of Vikram Betaal using TV soap characters, Dev/Rohan combo comes to my mind.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Myra.nelly

Hello girls :) good to see you posting again misti...
This show has two strong characters here and ur quotes describe them well...these two ladies lead the show and Raj is the instrument that brings them together...honestly he is just the shadow of the guy these girls fell for, if hes not changing i dnt want any of divya or sarita to b with him...


Hey Myra. Seems almost like old days even though some of the old gang is missing. I have the same feelings about Raj that at this point, he should not be in any relationship. His viewpoint is the least shown in the show, but can not figure out how he could not have seen abuse towards Sarita or why he married her. But he needs to sort himself out before he should be near anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Myra.nelly

I noticed that both sarita and raj familly think that only outside beauty is all that counts to win man's love in this case raj's love..Sarita thinks that dressing up or..undressing can attract raj..bitterness turned her shallow..She is bitter, frustrated and desperate.....but i did like her interaction with divya yday..i know i love rubinas acting but this time i was surprised by the other actress too.Regarding Shristi, she has improved from what we saw before. I am also relieved that she is not smiling..



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