I find all the three characters impressive. Everyone is human and grey here.
Firstly, the one who has managed to capture everyone's attention -- Sarita. Yes, she is one of them who has suffered in this 10 long years. But why is she suffering? She came to know on her wedding night itself that Raj was not interested in marrying her, then why did she go ahead with this marriage? I agree people would have made some talks because they belong to a small town, but coming from a rich family, she could have afforded to take a bold decision and walked away from the marriage! Why? Why did she chose to have this tough life? Hasn't she brought this upon herself? She decided to marry him despite knowing the truth...and now is frustrated! I am not saying that she is responsible for everything that is happening...but what made her to say yes to this wedding, when she knew that the road ahead would be completely bumpy!
Secondly, I come to Divya -- She sacrificed her most precious relation in life, her love Raj just to support and bring up her siblings. Its not easy yet she did it. Yes, she did wrong to Raj...but what about her family. Who would have looked after her family, if she did not. Though she got fame and money, she was lonely inside from these 10 yrs because her Raj was not with her. Is she selfish? No. She is not selfish for me. Yes, it was wrong on her part to expect Raj to have waited 10 yrs for her, without having any intimation from her! Yes, she was expecting too much...may be because for her, in love she could have expected this much atleast from her lover. But yes, it was completely wrong on her part. But what was her so called majboori that made her leave bhopal and Raj?
Thirdly, I come to Raj -- why did this man agree to marry Sarita when he knew that he would never be able to love her? Didn't he destroy Sarita's life? Rather than remaining a married bachelor all his life, he could have remained a bachelor only na? It would have saved Sarita's life as well. Saying that he did this for his family, is little difficult to digest, because he doesn't seem to that kind of man to sacrifice for family and all. Why did he come back and agree to this marriage when he had ran away? Did he do this to show Divya that if she left him, he too could move on in his life? May be Yes. Because i don't see any other reason until now for his actions.
Until i don't get answers to these three questions of these characters, i won't be able to make up mind on who is the victim and who is not.
1) Why Sarita married Raj despite knowing the truths?
2) What was Divya's 'majboori' to have sacrificed or left her Raj in midway
3) Why Raj agreed to come back and get married to Sarita!
Edited by sia_lovely - 11 years ago
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