Its not mutually exclusive... Basically you cannot love only saachi and leave DV or vice versa... both are the two important wheels of this love story... So I do not see why one has to identify only with one character...
The way one feels or shows differs from character to character and both DV and Saachi are very much in their characters while expressing this grief...
DV due to the rich back ground he has, has the luxury of sitting without doing any work and grief whole day... Though his dad and bro are taking his work load... previously also he did not associate or take work or family business that seriously...
where as Saachi is the bread winner so she has to keep her day to day work going on and being the lead of the family she cannot tumble and sit and cry - it effects the morale of the other members of the family.
eg: my maid when her hubby passed away was back to work after 15 days because then only she can feed her kids.. she did not have luxury to sit and mourn for ages.
Edited by ApoorvaFan - 12 years ago