Where is the romance we all ask, are JaJo ready to romance though? - Page 3

Originally posted by: elasingh

Hi Kshithi

It was not hate alone dear...At least not from Jallu's side...he wanted her even if only in lust...Then again a natural progression from lust would be love...OK forget love but at least their should be some underlying passion between them...but where it is? They are sharing a very platonic relationship and that's what bugs me...

Originally posted by: ann2012

👏 completely agree with you! We have waited so long.. thoda aur hi sahi

Originally posted by: elasingh

Hi Kshithi

It was not hate alone dear...At least not from Jallu's side...he wanted her even if only in lust...Then again a natural progression from lust would be love...OK forget love but at least their should be some underlying passion between them...but where it is? They are sharing a very platonic relationship and that's what bugs me...

Originally posted by: ngayou

You r right, Ela, nil passion seen nowadays btwn JaJo. Reg the earlier sword & aarthi scenes, well we all know from Jalal s side atleast that he was attracted to Jo on 1st sight & it was a big ego blow to him when she placed her sword on his neck & declared her intense hatred for Jalal. And also we know that very hatred of hers made him marry her & spout his hate & revenge nonsense to her. But despite that, his attraction for her came out at those close moments.

On Jodha s side, tho we did see her flashbacks of seeing Jalal s face at the Gangaur festival at odd times before marriage, nothing else was shown later on regarding her attraction towards Jalal. She s just shown to be little aware when he comes near her or when her lil sisters praise his looks. Of course, it might be that her hatred for him didnt let her feel any passion or other feelings for him. But now that her ghrina has gone for him & she s even started respecting & admiring his good qualities, next logical step would be to show a degree of attraction for him. Let us see whether she gets such vichitra feelings at all 😆 .

Regarding Jalal s seemingly complete lack of reaction to Jodha now, well it must be the result of understanding finally Jodha s feelings about him before & after marriage. He has understood why she hated him so much & also what all wrongs he has done to her. So (not to forget the mysterious no touching vacchan too) unless & until Jodha gives him the go ahead for taking their relationship to the next level, Ja will maintain his distance & probably hide his feelings too. Also he s confused himself reg his feelings for her & is still discovering his nonexistent heart 😉 .

If all else fails, we can give them mighty dakkas to fall in each others arms & realise their attraction for each other, I d say 😉

Originally posted by: meghanajain

Hi Ela,

I differ with yo here. Lust is a negative emotion and cannot lead to love...I feel trust and respect can lead to love. This is what was missing from their rship. Many love marriages that start mainly because of physical attraction do not last. You need to appreciate the person as whole, not just the physical beauty. The pure passion was shown when Ja was emotionally down and Jo touches him on shoulder. His teards were shown in her eyes,, this is what passion is. The passion was there when Ja was thinking about Jo after his bday gift. The passion was there when he felt the heart beat, although I didnt like that scene that much..Jo showed the passion admiring the gift she received and showed worry in beating the gift..

Originally posted by: kmmdesai

Ela and Megha,

You both are right in the sense that there are different kinds of passions. Passion towards a body (physical attraction), Passion towards a person (on the whole), passion towards a concept (like how Jalal is on the tasneem case), meeting of minds kind of passion etc. For ex: today me and hubby shared an ice-cream cup and we just loved it (honey-ginger flavor to be precise and we were eating it for the first time). We were eating from the same cup, yes. But it was all very platonic. It was still passionate for me because of our shared experience. This is also kind of an intimacy. Not sure I was able to explain this correctly.

So, coming to the point, what we are missing between Jodha-Jalal is the physical and also romantic intimacy. Its the right time for the CV's to start showing it and this is what I was mentioning about and expecting too.

But, they have also shared other passions, like in BB's case when Jodha keeps a hand on his shoulder, they shared grief. During Tasneem's case, they are sharing a passion for a concept and so on.

Love,

Kshithi

Originally posted by: lashy

meghana...did you have a eureka moment in the bath tub?

This post is AMAZING!!!!

Hats off to you girl for making me a worthwhile weekend read...🤗

LOVE YA

Originally posted by: preet_pal320

Great post!

These are my exact thoughts on this subject. The show is not 6 months in yet, the actual romance and passion surely can't begin yet! We are seeing the foundation laid out. It's also my belief that as soon as the lead express their love, the show loses its appeal. This may not happen for JA, I'm really rooting for it, but it's what I've seen.

The equation between Jalal and Ruqs is not romantic in my opinion. If he ever touches her, it's only to comfort her and console her. They're only friendly with each other, even if Ruqs wants more than that, Jalal has already denied it. All I see between the two is political discussion and games. It's all superficial to me.

JJ's interactions on the other hand are much deeper. There's equality there. Jalal really speaks to Jodha in a different manner than with anyone else. The depth in their discussions is not seen anywhere else. They may not be in love yet but already there's a sweet uniqueness to their relationship.

I'm also more interested in seeing how JJ weather these circumstances together. I don't like seeing romance when the couple isn't even ready for it; this is why I did not enjoy the boat scene. But I like their discussions and arguments when these issues arise. From this Tasneem problem, we saw Jalal realizing Jodha's feelings toward her own marriage and attempting to understand her feelings. He basically presented himself alongside Adham for doing the same thing to her. This has so much more of an impact on their relationship than just romance would.