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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Neelum.drashti


I think this intensity is the key to success. It makes character come alive and become real in our eyes. i hope CVs maintain it, be it in romance, buse, fun...everything


Well said wating in patience to see the sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sg2013

I think he wants her to understand what repercussions once actions can have and how he had to deal with all that humiliation. But he still loves the girl for all her goodness and simplicity.



Abusers r stirred from childhood character is formed form child and environment...
NA image and living..he was living...someone living for him make him reliving himself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dakshaavi

I too feel that all these romance was not fake . He will teach her lesson like made says sabak and then show his real love otherwise why will he marry her if it is only revenge.



The abuse is shown but the other r getting sidelined too..of inner room..
@dakshu,such,

Tiwsted dialogues always used made astha cry,,

The hidden boy who like s to play wiht kavya coming up when ignored or not worshipped..

Paying attention pampers a kid but an eye in them makes them focus your presence..

Too much devotion leads to blindness shlok to NA.
Aastha to shlok..

Devotion in the form of hate and sarrowness does the job of inner love

Why he was like that ...is am looking for.lif he would or some other have not misled by power to attain..he or other wouldn't have been. There to a use.

Seen,seeking,leaching, here then next what..mind stopped right but heart says to do something..what ..where and why..

Stranded woman by sustain or responsiblites or not knowing to approach,

My tought start from home..givng options of good making kiddo choose good all the time makes them to good morale

If fighting and got hurt,,ask the one with hurt,,if you are hurt this much what about the other,

If complaining for every reason of. Other innocence deeds as kids r..we have to teach them leave it.. And move forward..if not u don't have friends.

Someone stole a pencil kiddo crying and saying theif ,steelers..I say not a stealer may be he needs it ..and do you call them steeler..


Basic morale for kids to build goodness,,and activities to build fight the bad in later...storngness.
Will power.

Family dinners and outing saying always a family and need family when in need.

In between me lost...being tough ,discipline,directing..motivating.. And answering..

Found at inner @here..



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Posted: 12 years ago
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I was crying after watching the SBS..😭..I knew that shlok is taking revenge on her but i never thought that he would do something like this😔Poor Astha😔..I m looking forward for the show to see more intensity..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i think it would be extra salt to the wound if he makes her act happy infront of his family when she is sad from the inside
1 think the 1st week or 2 aastha will be indenial or shock
but after that i want the tigeress to come out of her
everytime shlok rubs salt in her wounds she should put chilli in his
i hope she starts playing games with him as well
will be fun to see how he reacts when he is frustrated
he wants to see a crying aastha so she should never act like a bechari
i don't want to see another anjali
i hope shloks grey characer is maintain cos its just unrealistic if 26-28 years of niranjan's upbringing is washed away with a few weeks of aastha's presence
come one that never happens, its very gradual if it ever happens
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ya agree
I didn't shlok will do so to her... I know he is taking revenge but after watching SBS segment... Didn't expect he will do like that
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki795

ya agree
I didn't shlok will do so to her... I know he is taking revenge but after watching SBS segment... Didn't expect he will do like that


Sbs is misleading he is emotional abuser ..soft type emotional he did uptil now and he will do that in future..here shlok is in anger as Aastha is not listening to him..
Shlok when avoided turns into manhandling..

Iam sure the before marirage talk of NA made astha cry ...

NA isaid I will handle this..and shlok giving instruction will fallow or not.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am trying to fight something , abuse or betray ? Which is worst and what when both are there? How do you get back all that you have lost when you are being abused and lost the trust you had in theta person. The very basis of a relationship. I see Astha saving the house and ah look still watching. So yes she will forgive him , but can she really or she going to do it to save her house?

Some symbols in today's episode,

Sojal's mother throwing the rice - society looking down at you. Something Shlok could not see as according to his modern views this whole paschyatap was wrong and I agree with it. so he showed his resistance by saying he equally responsible for it .

The pouring of the milk and water - obviously for purification. Shlok will need that again at some point and it is to be seen if Astha will be there with him at that time.

Only women responsible for all the paap. Horrible thought that needs to be thrown out and Shlok actually did it by pouring the milk and water on himself. They were saying the surya mantra at that time praying to Aditya and prabhakar meaning Surya.

The fruits of soubhaya falling and Shlok not helping her then but just watching , shows he will do the same for some time now till he does his paschyatap.

The mandap falling indicates fall of the house, , the Agnihotri mansion, NA's domain by Astha so NA is so worried. The world that he has created is going to break into pieces due to Astha. So he is telling Anjali to tame this lioness.

Sojal's mother stealing Astha's ornaments and not being caught by Varad shows that She will help Sojal to steal Astha's happiness and although Varad will know that he will not speak up.

No Chachu today. I wanted him today.

Kalindi and Avadhoot going away without taking the prasad of Satyanarayan - and leaving in between shows that they will not be there to help Astha and they themselves will be responsible for it as they walked away on their own.


Tai Attyaa caught in the whirlpool of traditions although I feel is purposely doing this so that Shlok will go against it . She has been bearing the wrath of these old traditions living as a widow, most likely child widow.

I do think there should be a thread on abuse or betray which is worst or both?
Let me know your views.

Edited by Sg2013 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@suci
I am doing a post in it ..and u made one..a main post to make one see ...
Emotions galoring and crying for not knowing one pain here in forum and being helpless.

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