This is becoming embarrassing to watch... - Page 4

Originally posted by: sparshav

Sorry to know that dear. We all are in this together ... None of us are spared the dogma. Even men are abused by expecting them to be masculine... That is why the portrayal of cold blooded protagonist are really not my cup of tea. It is a mutual expectation which is why I always call our society dysfunctional. It is really a sad state that we don't recognize the abuse and we pass it on to generations saying in the name of tradition and custom. Women and men have some natural abilities and strengths... but people over generations have used their roles for their own benefits...

I believe in domino effect. Every action of mine effects someone in the chain of my connections. That is why I believe in spreading messages about self-respect, safe guarding ourselves from emotional abuse - which is so deeply connected to physical & sexual assaults. These terms have deep meanings. Also, even how to improve our emotional intelligence.

overall, I can really feel what you say and I agree with you what effect such tele-serials with such messages can do to the society... and I agree very well with you. The only thing we could do is share our thoughts and also tell what would be a ideal situation if we are in same boat... this trigger a series of thought process in every individual who reads it and eventually find strength in themselves and also be in peace with a situation.. make sure that they recognize abusive patterns.

I watch crime patrol very regularly... in that anup soni concludes every session with a thought provoking phrase... what if we could just take a moment of our anger and process it ... things would have been different... that is very very true... at the same time it gives assurance too that what would happened couldn't have been reverted even if we thought we had control... sometimes societal norms are so deeply ingrained that you cannot fight back with the system without being deeply scarred...in such situations the only hope is that we remove ourselves from the lives of those people and regain our self-confidence and ensure that we are emotionally healthy to ensure that we do not get into such abusive relations (recognizing the pattern and being aware).

I really hope you are not in such a situation anymore. hoping the best for you.

It has been a very lengthy response... but have been enjoying sharing my thoughts here... and thank you for responding to my thoughts !

Originally posted by: Priyamvada

agree.. there will be loadz of drama before Vikrant changes n by the time he repents sarita might start hating him for his plan..

I know Vikz wont kill her, but hw can he get the thought of killing her? killing ur love isnt as easy as they show in tv.. but then this is tv! N they need this kind of masala..

I guess I'll keep away from the show till mess is cleared.. n will depend on WUs,,

Nice post