Originally posted by: Skepblun
@Reshmi
Please.
I request you not to get personal.
Everyone has their own POV on characters.
I was responding to Rameera's post only. That Shiv needed to do things as elder brother and son earlier.
Right now it only looks like he's trying to make up for lack of action earlier or perhaps taking revenge.
Given his tact which he has shown in handling situations earlier, I thought maybe he will delve deep into the situation and then take some action accordingly.
Okay he can blast Jagya if he wants to.
But his leaving aside Anandi, using her name to strengthen case yet not even informing her about what was coming her way was odd and unexpected.
He may not support Anandi. It is okay. But as husband-wife, can't they just talk once and share each other's feelings and POVs?
And why doesn't he react when Ira threatens to torture or throw out Anandi? His silence gives me creeps...makes me wonder what he will do. I mean...I don't want to see him silently standing or turning his face away as Ira kicks out Anandi. ๐
Again I repeat I am saying this not because I can't see Anandi kicked out but because I don't want to see it happening with passive consent or indifference of Shiv.
@skep- Your post is meaningful i agree, but the title is very debatable and not match with your views. Now I give my views:
Jagya - He always support the lady he loves very strongly. Now this is a quality of a lover, but a good lover does not mean a good husband too. A husband has to balance his relationship with his wife also he needs to keep his wife on a good footing to his family. A wife ties a strong bond with her in laws through her husband's guidance.
In this case, Anandi made a mess by being silent and confused, She should have been more strong and kept one track mind that she is not for the rishta. And last few episodes, she just kept taking Jagya's side which would have made any husband shift from wife to family. I am telling from practical scenerio.
But inspite of all shiv has said i can understand Anandi s position. Have Anandi tried to console shiv even if he was giving her cold shoulder, she should have just make him sit and discuss things saying it is a fault from both side, but this is a fact so lets move on. Instead she started her jagya jaap.
At the end, I do not know about what will be Anandi's fate. But if Shiv and Anandi has to be together, Anandi has to be away from Jagya 's life. I am safe for JaGan because now Jagya will wipe off Anandi fully, as he is a one woman man with his current love.
Hope I am clear with my thoughts.