Neha's Diary - Page 3

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Come on now - surely that is NOT the first time you've agreed with me? 😉
Or is it? 😆

Very entertaining posts guys. 😃 I loved reading all your responses. In my opinion, Neha's negative feelings expressed in her diary towards Simran is justified, considering the fact that no woman can tolerate the sight of her husband caring so much for someone else. It's bound to make Neha feel insecure and to some extent, jealous of Simran. That is very natural. We all want our loved ones to be devoted and care the most about us first and foremost.

However, according to Neha's diary, she always got the feeling that Abhi loved Simran more than her right. So why did she marry him and then, get upset when she saw his concern for Simran?? She should have expected that from him! For me, I think she was more obsessed with Abhi's love for Simran, than her own love for Abhi. I might sound harsh, but I feel absolutely no sympathy for Neha's character.

And I also wish that she would have written down the "exact words" that she had said to Simran before dying. That would have cleared the confusion from Astha's mind. And after reading the diary, why did Astha get so wild at Simran only?? From Neha's words, couldn't Astha tell that Abhi was at fault too?

Hey II,
Didn't think it was a crappy post but a very clever one.
You tried hard to be different from all of us but in the end seemed to convey the same things.
Like a masala hindi movie 😉 .....little bit from all pots....oops posts.

Anyway,enjoyed reading it.What started out as a serious topic turned out to be very humorous!!!

And II don't give us idle threats that we will see less of you......you've been hooked on this much before us ,so we know of your addiction. 😆 😉

Cheers to all

And vazz....."non combative" manner,I like that word.Couldn't find it while drafting the warning......but don't think we'lll need it now.The forum's doing fine with such lovely co-operative guys like you all.

😳 oh dear oh dear oh dear

Akshata - u r too smart!
i didn't even last 24 hours 😆

I loved reading every one's views on this , infact i was thinking about this too when i came across this post , and yup this forum is damn addictive 😆 . My views are similar to all yours , but i feel Neha may have written her changed feelings towards the end , i think i can recall her writing in her diary when Abhi and Simran feel ill simultaneously, and thats when she changed her mind . Hopefully she has penned down her feelings and Astha will eventually read those last few pages , much later in the serial and then understand the actual events that took place in her mom's life before she died . I mean there is no way to change this Astha character's view points , she believes no one at all( only her Nani) , so the only way she will beleive and trust anybody , or any thing can be this diary !! Has to be this diary . There is no other way ! What do you all say ???

I too often wondered why Neha did not write the positive experiences in her diary. Well, if she had, then Abhi would have married Simran 18 years ago and we would not be watching this leap then! LOL! And yes, Aastha too would have felt better. But Abhi should have had the sense to keep the diary away.

It amazes me to think that people, (not only in movies, but in real life also), tend to just dwell on the negatives. In the case of NEHA, she bestowed her new born baby to SIMRAN, and asked her to make her daughter just like her. After raising Astha for 18 years or so, there is no appreciation on the part of the brat. How disgusting is her role. Her role is so negative, that you don't want to watch the series sometimes. In the past, I did not want to even miss one episode.

Simran made a big mistake,by not telling Aastha her identity,and i can understand that Aastha's hurt as she heard it from a third party,that too by mistake!I can comprehend that and give Aastha benefit of the doubt for her intial reaction,dard hota hoga naa...when u find out that jisse apna kehtehei..voh paraaye nikley!!

But,in every normal circumstances,she should be able to get over it and move on,and try to look at the brighter side of it,and be thankful for the fact that Simran brought her up,when she could have left her with her mentally-ill Nani,or just abandon her at tt her dada/dadi's place etc!!And she shud have been more sensible,in rationalizing the fact as to why wud Neha (her mother,whom she believes has been wronged!!)give her up to Simran and not to others??Whether or not she was brainwashed by her Nani,agar voh thodasa bhi intelligent hoti,which in this case i guess not,she wud try to find out more,and talk to Simran or allow Simran to explain,if she is too angry with Simran,then speak to her Nanu,she doesn't have a problem with him rite?Or speak to Sid,she loves him she claims rite?Instead of jumping,screaming and getting hyterical like a lunatic,she shud be more keen in knowing the truth!!!

Simran made a few major mistakes in her life,which is not worth it as she ended up blamed!

1)Forced Abhi to marry Neha.

2)Not having telling Aastha the truth from the very beginning,and smothered her with so much love and affection,that she ended up spoiling her rotten.

3)Over protecting Aastha's feelings too much,that when she gets exposed to the raw truth,she could not digest it,and turns around and blame the very person that was protecting her to be sly,cunning etc!!!

Sharaafat ka zamana tho raha nahi!So,the damage has been done quite extensively now,that Simran will not be able to bring Aastha back to her senses,as the girl is stubborn,temperemental,cunning and under heavy material influence,of course no to forget she is deeply insecure,so each time she WANTS to see some sense,her insecurity clouds her mind,and she goes beserk again!People like Aastha,will come around after being 'hit'hard by reality falling flat down on her face,by her own mistakes!She will only wake up then,no one can help her unless she helps herself!And in some cases,these characters goes into self-destruction as they refuse help or are too proud for it,especially when they're hit badly by their own mistake!!

Thats my thoughts!! 😛

I was wondering about this too principessa..
but again ... if neha has written positive things about simran .. how would the program go ahead? 😆

Originally posted by: wawahehe

What positive things are we talking about - I guess something like "My husband truly loves another woman sho loves my husband equally. Their love is immortal and I am feeling a bit out of place. I want to sincerely thank both my husband and the second lady for giving me suchlife". Can any married woman ever be happy with her husband in love with another woman?

😆 😆 😆

Right.........I agree !