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Posted: 12 years ago
#61
We are happy with the way J is shaping up. For his part he has also worked tirelessly to save
people in the hospital. I dont think he was trying to get any selfish benifit out if it. It is human nature to
Take pleasure in helping others even though the same humans can be selfish some times.
The two characteristics are not mutually exclusive.
We have seen enough reminders of J 's ill treatment of A. But in his young age he has also helped her
Go to school. He convinced hs father. Past is past. Whenwe can accept the reformation of
Mother of all child marrisges, remarriages fighting against child marriage, we can accept Jagia also
As reforming and reformed.
Honestly most of us want reformation and happiness of characters of grey shade. In fact i will
Want Saanchi also reform and lead a happy life. I dont want her becoming worse and become a
Woman scorned. Ratan singh and co are beyond any improvement because they are evil to
The core.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Now supporting Ganga is not a desire to see her educated and see her standing on her own two feet but to set himself free of the guilt.

He still thinks of only himself and all the things that he has lost because of his own stupidity.He rarely thinks of all the damage and destruction he has caused with his selfishness in the lives of the people who loved him and whom he claims to love.All the good things he is doing now only to free himself from the guilt and not really to make people around him happy.

When are they going to show him doing something just because he wanted to see happiness in the faces of the people who claims to love?

Aparna i will say your analysis here is 100 percent wrong When you now ever for once saw him thinking or saying whatever he is doing it is going to free him from his guilt? can you tell me even one time now ?Where if i remember correctly he always said he cannot correct past but he can do something good now

On which basis you are saying that he is helping Ganga with no desire to see her educated and standing on her two feet but only free him from a guilt ? When she was narrating her poem recently from his emotions there and applaud for you derived he want to free himself from a guilt ?Where cvs have shown it in his thoughts then ?When he ever said or even thought he can free himself from any guilt here ?

He is doing a lot for his family but still his eyes are moist and pain is everywhere in him for past On mother's day recently he was asking forgiveness from his mother over past hurt to her you analysed from it his works are to free him from his guilt so where is that freedom of guilt ? From where you derived he is not doing anything with this intention to see happiness on people's faces he loves but only freeing from guilt ? he has been pretty clear he don't want any mercy on him he wants punishment for him forever so what freedom from guilt you are forcing on him he wants when he wants to punish himself forever ?

When are cvs going to show him doing so ? well they are showing him but question is when you guys are going to see it in right light instead of putting his works in wrong shade every time ?This is really not fair

I disagree with you here No offence meant sorry if you took any but you are putting really wrong blames on him here
Edited by kikyo - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: aparnauma

It is not her fault that she did not know about her mother's illness.Her mother becamae ill because it broke her to see what had happened to her daughter A tried to hide her sadness and mother tried to hide her illness from her.

Her mother wanted to repair the damage that has been done by bal vivah and ba marriage done to her daughter by getting her married to Shiv and Anandi wanted to make her mother happy in the last days of her life so she promised to marry Shiv like her mother asked her to.

This is what is love Anandi agreed to marry Shiv even when she was not keen on getting married because she loved her mother and Anandi's mother forced her to marry Shiv because she felt that Shiv will make her daughter happy.

I dont get this... It is not her fault that she did not know about her mom's illness ??😲 and Anandi tried to hide her sadness ?? 😲😲


Btw, how sad was she when she was felicitated by the CM for her achievements ?? In her speech, she thanked everyone under the sun including her her teacherji, but not her own parents !!😕 which daughter who loves her parents would do that ??😲😲😲

Her poor mother thought that her daughter's life was shattered... It was the daughter's duty to assure her mother that she was doing fine which she never did. And therefore according to me she is the cause of her mother's death.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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True Shinya here people are blaming Jagaya killed Anandi's mother yeah he really he shot her to deathThe extremely great daughter who love her parents so much knew very well how her mother left Singhs house in so much depression but pretty strange the ideal daughter never bothered to visit her parents for once in two years 😕she kept connection to them via phone but never talked with her mother and papa always mislead her but she could never doubt Her extra special seven senses only work for others but not for her parents🤢 .Whether you are brought up in village or city or whatever household one can never be so careless to her parents The kid Anandi never was but adult so much She never bothered to take her parents name in her speech , her mother is dying in depression of daughter's pain and she is dancing with Shiv .Seeing her one happy picture Bhago became so much happy if she would have paid proper visits to them Bhago could be saved but the greatest woman never did so So she is biggest responsible for her mother's death she didn't pay proper attention to them

and now she has forgot about her father completely 🤢she don't have even photo of her parents in her room What a great daughter really ? Cvs want to prove her to be an ideal woman but i call her no where close to ideal because she is so so so careless to her parents 👎🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: Shinya

I dont get this... It is not her fault that she did not know about her mom's illness ??😲 and Anandi tried to hide her sadness ?? 😲😲


Btw, how sad was she when she was felicitated by the CM for her achievements ?? In her speech, she thanked everyone under the sun including her her teacherji, but not her own parents !!😕 which daughter who loves her parents would do that ??😲😲😲

Her poor mother thought that her daughter's life was shattered... It was the daughter's duty to assure her mother that she was doing fine which she never did. And therefore according to me she is the cause of her mother's death.





Arre vidya.. She has to thank whom she got to thank. How would have she gotten luxurious haveli life?? How would have she gotten bachelor handsome rich bakra to marry if not for singh's. Would the poor parents would have ever been able to do it ?? So, why thank them ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Annadi's parents just saw what all things happened to all the abandoned child brides and they did not want that to happen to their child.They knew they will not be able to handle it.It was Anandi's parents who washed their hands off their responsibility by sending her off to he in laws place at such a young age.She was told by her own parents that Singhs are her parents and their house is her home.
Even when she ran away from BH because of DS's ill treatment they brought her right back to BH and told that it is her home.Now what kind of parents were they?How can a child have normal feelings for her parents after such incidents?Will a small child understand that her parents are doing it for her good?

How much of a role did her parents play in her life?Singhs have been more her parents than her own parents have been.They just sent her off to BH did they ever wonder what might have happened to her child if Sumi and Bhairon were also like DS?

It is very easy to say that she should have returned to her parents home after her good for nothing two timing husband left her.But how is it for her parents to support their daughter who is an abandoned wife?

How is easy for a woman especially in a feudalistic society to live on her own for that matter after being abandoned by her husband?

Obviously it is much better to stay with in laws even after being left by husband if the in laws are supportive.That's what Anandi did.

She was abandoned by her parents in the name of bal vivah.Anandi 's story is only one of the many stories.

Jagya also is a victim of child marriage but compared to Anandi what price did he pay?
Was he the one who is forced to make home for himself among the starngers?
Was he stopped from going to school because he is married status
Was he stopped from going to play after school?
The only privilege he lost was to have a girl of his choice as a wife.

It is very easy to say that both are victims of child marriage but Anandi paid double price one for being a child bride and losing her childhood and another for ending up as a wife of an no good abusive two timing husband.

Anandi had to pay the price for all the ills committed by her parents, DS Singhs and Jagya.

If Anandi is more attached to Singhs to than her parents it is her parents fault it was they who washed off their hand of the responsibility of raising their girl child to see her to adult hood.

Singhs have to take the responsibilty for the marriage being broken because they could not raise their son properly.

None of all this was her fault.







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