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Fab post Riti,

Nowadays, I rarely share my opinion at the forum. Not that I never do, but I prefer to stick to posts made by people I am familiar with and the ones who I am sure would respect my opinion even if my views differ from them. It's really sad that you can't comment here without your intentions being judged and it's not even between fans of two actors but between fans of the same actor. If the tussle between some members of the two fan bases weren't bad enough, where the sensible section of both fan bases and the neutral fans suffered, the division between Barun's fans is an added woe.

The intention of Zoha's post was simple. She only made it to appreciate Barun and the way he handled things. There was no hidden agenda behind it. People who commented there were all Barun fans and they love him in their own way and if people disagreed with others, they could have just left it at that instead of digressing from the actual topic. Every fan has their own ideas regarding what happened and that doesn't have to match others but different opinion doesn't make you a lesser fan.

Your POV may not with match others but the biggest problem is everyone thinks their opinion or their way of seeing things is right, if you disagree to that, you're a lesser fan or not a fan at all.

People need to stop assuming things, but I really doubt if that's ever going to happen.

Originally posted by: itsmadsera

Nice post riti

100% agree that forum has gone bonkers

We can have different liking, different choices, different set of opinions. But it never meant he other choice person is always wrong

Here there are Barun lovers, Sanaya lovers and sarun lovers. But people forgot to respect each other likings.

One lovers trash other people interest. Just by seeing the ID people get to a conclusion they are not our group bhai, so whatever they say should be offended.

Whatever was pointed towards yday Zoha post was wrong. A seasoned girl who is such a Barun lover should never be questioned

Insecurities and protection of personal egos disguising under the name of celebrity liking and war has become the norm of this forum

This used to be a cool place, someone started this attacking and character assassination in the name of moralities and people fell for the charms. That is the reason people say one rotten egg is enough to spoil the cake

Sigh can't help. People can't understand it

Originally posted by: ishqRONsharma

very true.. i m nt capable of preaching here as i very much attack ppl who try to say unacceptable things related to barun 😆
but i have to say the quote option on IF makes ppl attack the members...
i would say question the member on wat makes him have such opinion, as it can lead to a healthy discussion, u never know having a healthy discussion may also help in changing the other person's opinion too..
but attacking the member, o insulting his POV ( a reasonable POV ) is bad..

Originally posted by: meens80

Great post Riti and I appreciate the effort and intention. Thanks for the PM.

I can guarantee that all the fan groups that Barun currently has can agree on one thing. Everyone wishes him professional success and happiness. Barun the actor is what brought us all together then why can't everyone pledge to support the actor in him and let each ones judgement about the peripherals take a rest.

If Group A has reasons to believe X and Group B has equally strong reasons to believe Y; who is to say what is correct. I said this in Zoha's post yesterday and I'll say it again; when we are exposed to just a miniscule fraction of an actors life; we don't know what makes them tick, why they say certain things and most importantly what they do in their lives 24/7. No-one can judge and be 100% certain the opinions they have formed are correct so lets just agree to respect the others opinion even if one disagrees.

Originally posted by: UltimateBarun

ThanKs Riti for this post! But I doubt if it'll effect or help!

One thinG for sure,,,,its really sad,,that people who love one person hate, fight and argue with each other,,coz everyone thinks,,their own perspective is right!

I made a post,,,it was abt appreciating the actor,,,n I just added a news bit a shocking news bit,,from a reliable channel it was a NEWS(I dont know right or wrong, coz I am not the eye witness to what happened), n my intentions were on Scrutiny! Though I never said anything,,coz I hav my own opinions,,I dont share them publicly, as I can be wrong,,or I may be right. Everyone,,has their own opinion,,but again,like the man said,,no one among us knows the complete story,,coz a lot has happened! Who knows What,,so I am never going to declare or put something that this is what happenned or this is what the truth is,coz I DONT KNOW THE EXACT THING THAT HAPPENED DAMMMIT!😕

HATS OFF TO THE MAN,,,who carried out everything professionally...and MAY SUCCESS always be with him..n INSHALLAH WE shall see him on the top for long! Yea PPL migh laught at this too,,,,but it can happen,,,,he took all the defamation, bashing sportingly always!

THIS IS FROM A FAN WHO WILL ALWAYS WISH GOOD FOR HIM,REGARDLESS OF EGO, REGARDLESS OF HIS REASONS TO QUIT, REGARDLESS OF MY OPINIONS! COZ WHAT MATTERS IS HIS SUCCESS AND NOT MY OPINIONS!

my love for him is a lot bigger than the opinions I have. So I care damn abt wat is right and wat is wrong! I only feel for him BAS! Coz clearly he was victim,,,with that disclaimer run,,I will always hav that grudge against SP..n yea that was the motive of my post! the topic header if anyone paid attention to it...although the man has got a big heart for taking it sportingly!

FOR ANYONE WHO WANTS TO QUOTE ME AND ARGUE WITH ME: "YOU ARE always RIGHT! HAPPY!!"

So dont bother to waste your time with me!

but problem is here one section of people changed post another level ..people start clamming Barun never wanted to leave the show ...there another section of people came and disagree with them ...post turned into war zone ...few people were there so much rude with each other ...

here the people who disagree with first section of people has not hidden motive to close the post ...but they were against the controversies discussing again ...its clear from ur post that u was discussing about SP disclaimer...but people there were discussing he was never wanted to leave the show ...this was irked another group ...each has own prespective to think '. few people think in that way ...i dnt have problem with their opinion ...but issue is making comment like Barun never wanted to leave the show only put Barun into bad light ...when man himself said from his first to recent interview that he himself left the show ...it was health reason ...by making comment he never wanted to leave show just make him liar ...how we can say or assume that he did nt wanted to leave when he told in each interview he feeling overworked ,health issue were there''most ridiculing thing when people disagree with particular group '.people of the particular sound so much rude and judgmental and wanted to enforce their opinions to others

m here no one to preach or tell others to not voice their opinion and perspective '' .as u said its nt abt right or wrong , nt about ego '.thats I wants to say '.its nothing about ego or right or wrong 'its shd nt proving each group right its abut supporting the man to whom we all luv '.after name calling and pathetic bashing we all are still here '.the reason only'.to luv and support the person '..as we all aware how other section of people blame Barun fans to create controversies '.many of said they hate Barun just due to these controversies theories '.they r quite right from their own perspectives' '..its no doubt all these things gave Barun bad name and damage him in many ways '..this is point of many people and me too post was fabulous 'but comments there leading to another way which seems member there proving themselves right and start discussing controversies again '..each has own different way of perspective and but as we discussing abt Barun 'shd nt we liitle carefull sometimes our perspective can maligning his name further 'we r his fans so we support him '.its doest nt matter whether he wanted to leave or not wanted to leave 'every one from Both groups supported Barun during quiiting fisacco '.we called by cheap names but we all did nt care and support to Barun 'so wht matter if wanted or leave or nt wanted to leave 'matter is we all from different section luv him and support him and will contiounsly do 'there is no doubt about it ...

as a Barun fan people from another section who only belive in Barun 's words feels bringing old issue abt controversies with PH will further mudsling and maligning Barun 'thts only for Barun 'its nothing hidden agenda or right ,or wrong '.have nt talked more than enough on this matter '..

u talked about SP disclaimer'.yeah from the day its aired we all Barun fans knows its nt truth ..we never belived he left for movies '.there was tme when media stating he left for movies 'people from another section referring themselves researcher were busy to malignaning ..that time we all stood by him ignoring all fact '..

m sure if he left for movies '.many of us still support him 'the reason is the man is honest , nice and hold many qualities with himself '.he believed in dignified silence and stood as winner in such mudslinging '..he himself hold cool and positive attitude and never blamed to any one 'this is reason we luv him '.hatts to Barun 'he is like one is millon '...thnx for u making particular post '

hope I agree and disagree with respectfully 'people can be agree or disagree with me respectfully too '.hope i did nt hurt anyone here ...

thnx riti for making it is much neeed at this sate ...

Originally posted by: tvshowfan

Sigh why the same respect for others feeling was not there during nov

I fully understand and agree that fans petitionor calls r not responsiblefor show closure but then these people gave the reason on the silver plate so that involved part can pick it. too much of interference in anything is bad and now also let people have difference of opinion, i willblame bs for closure he and his fans played a major part, till now wahatever i have seen thats my observation and opinion so be it why people want to change it. So its ok to have difference of opinion