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Posted: 12 years ago
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Note- This is not a moral preaching post but a post made by a Frustrated soul in this forum.
Hello Everyone
Many of you know me and many of you dont ..But still felt like writing what my heart felt seeing state of forum for the past 1.5 years.
This forum has many divided groups. Each Group considering them as RIGHT and other one as WRONG and it is not harm if they consider other as wrong..but what turns ugly when they try to prove others as wrong. We all are entitled to our opinions. Whether our opinion on something is right or not.. You really dont have power to decide on it. You look at certain things with certain way..I look at it with some other way.. Why being judgemental over difference of opinions. I certainly dont have 2 horns on my head and a tail if I disagree with your group or If I like a certain actor and even if I dont like certain.
That respect for varied opinions have really gone missing and perhaps was never there in this place. Firstly there were fights involved between two fanbases of actors who are such good friends in first place. Then there were fights between those who like and who dont like actor.. and now I see fighting within even those who like same actor ..It is funny but at the same time it is sad to see name calling to this extent that we even dont realise tone and manner in which we speak may offend other and hurt some real feelings..
Every person here is judged by her intentions of post.. Well quiet funny ..people actually tend to find hidden agenda or motive with every other person who disagrees.. Are people so free to have agendas here... where they spend their time for leisure activity..
There is always a perspective to look at things...Our perspective may differ but that doesnt make one perspective right and other one wrong.. It is everyone's right to choose to believe in what they feel is right.
As I said this is not a preachy post but a post from frustrated soul..so just concluding with an appeal..coz thats only thing I can make-
Respect Disagreement - Atleast Be Civil in expressing your disagreement.
Take Care
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Since I have nothing more to add than what you said, i am pasting your comment on the first page preet and this comment deserves to be here on the first page itself (with your permission of course).


Originally posted by: pmgsk

Riti , forum never experienced a term called co-existence ...it was always survival of the fittest group ... Things were always bad in this place , it turned worse during Barun quitting ... It gave rise to more groups and agendas ... I have no problem with ppl making a post , I just don't like it when ppl turn it into a mission ... A recent written interview being edited and a video interview being twisted to suit ppl's requirements and many more like that is what irks me...


I was there in Zoha's thread yesterday , I had absolutely no issues with her post , ppl who know her will not question her intentions ... I had issues with the comments that followed in that post by a certain section of ppl who are known to create stories out of nothing... I know it's a sad state where Barun fans are fighting Barun fans ... One section are hell bent in proving their theories be it at the cost of Barun's reputation and other section of Barun fans who completely ridicule these theories ...

We have seen the impact of the activities by such groups during IPK closure , till date Barun is being held responsible for it. And the last interview of Barun where he clearly said the show shut down not bcoz he quit but due to risks and threats to ppl points at the fact that fans did play a big role in the show being shut. I expected that ppl will accept their mistakes and amend it but here again ppl are back to same old theories 👏

I really thought ppl came here for entertainment , past few months have made me change my opinion ... Ppl are here with diverse motives for reasons unknown and unintelligible 🥱

Coming to respecting disagreement , that's a far call in this forum ... It's everyone's right here to bash or ridicule 😆 ... It will do a hell lot of good to ppl and the forum if they stop seeing beyond words , and if they don't try to enforce their opinions on others ...Forum will perhaps never change , but a lovely post nevertheless 😊


Thanx for this post Riti.


Edited by KittenRose - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ThanKs Riti for this post! But I doubt if it'll effect or help!

One thinG for sure,,,,its really sad,,that people who love one person hate, fight and argue with each other,,coz everyone thinks,,their own perspective is right!

I made a post,,,it was abt appreciating the actor,,,n I just added a news bit a shocking news bit,,from a reliable channel it was a NEWS(I dont know right or wrong, coz I am not the eye witness to what happened), n my intentions were on Scrutiny! Though I never said anything,,coz I hav my own opinions,,I dont share them publicly, as I can be wrong,,or I may be right. Everyone,,has their own opinion,,but again,like the man said,,no one among us knows the complete story,,coz a lot has happened! Who knows What,,so I am never going to declare or put something that this is what happenned or this is what the truth is,coz I DONT KNOW THE EXACT THING THAT HAPPENED DAMMMIT!😕

HATS OFF TO THE MAN,,,who carried out everything professionally...and MAY SUCCESS always be with him..n INSHALLAH WE shall see him on the top for long! Yea PPL migh laught at this too,,,,but it can happen,,,,he took all the defamation, bashing sportingly always!

THIS IS FROM A FAN WHO WILL ALWAYS WISH GOOD FOR HIM,REGARDLESS OF EGO, REGARDLESS OF HIS REASONS TO QUIT, REGARDLESS OF MY OPINIONS! COZ WHAT MATTERS IS HIS SUCCESS AND NOT MY OPINIONS!

my love for him is a lot bigger than the opinions I have. So I care damn abt wat is right and wat is wrong! I only feel for him BAS! Coz clearly he was victim,,,with that disclaimer run,,I will always hav that grudge against SP..n yea that was the motive of my post! the topic header if anyone paid attention to it...although the man has got a big heart for taking it sportingly!

FOR ANYONE WHO WANTS TO QUOTE ME AND ARGUE WITH ME: "YOU ARE always RIGHT! HAPPY!!"

So dont bother to waste your time with me!







Edited by UltimateBarun - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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(will take time to unres..am abt to sleep) just will say fab topic n totally agree!! 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Zoha*hugs*..
I understood dear.. everyone loves barun in their own way..n you really dont have to prove that.. I know you meant only good for him...
Our choice of believing in things differ..but i can say this confidently that all barun fans were hurt with that disclaimer.. So end of argument here... whom to blame for the disclaimer...that discussion is not relevant to me..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Since many can disagree with this too... an appeal to keep calm and respond..for first time actually i have written a post with neutral perspective...oh yes😆.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Riti...*hugs*
Riti respecting each other's opinion is what IPK fandom can never learn...
People have certain opinion which can never ever change...a person having different opinion is attacked and is made fun of just cause they have different opinion...
Disagreeing respectfully toh hum sab ki dictionary main hai hi nahi...
Its sad...Barun doesnt deserve this type of fandom...
If anything Barun has never bad mouthed about anyone or even said something which can be termed as controversial...
He has conducted himself in this fiasco with dignity...love him for not pointing fingers at others just to save himself...

I feel Barun's fans are responsible for him to be hated by certain group of people ...
Sanaya too is brought in these fights just to put down the other person...

Come what may i will always love Barun and Sanaya for type of human beings they are and no one can ever change this thing for me...
Edited by Swati_ - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Swati_

Riti...*hugs*
Riti respecting each other's opinion is what IPK fandom can never learn...
People have certain opinion which can never ever change...a person having different opinion is attacked and is made fun of just cause they have different opinion...
Disagreeing respectfully toh hum sab ki dictionary main hai hi nahi...
Its sad...Barun doesnt deserve this type of fandom...
If anything Barun has never bad mouthed about anyone or even said something which can be termed as controversial...
He has conducted himself in this fiasco with dignity...love him for not pointing fingers at others just to save himself...

I feel Barun's fans are responsible for him to be hated by certain group of people ...
Sanaya too is brought in these fights just to put down the other person...

Come what may i will always love Barun and Sanaya for type of human beings they are and no one can ever change this thing for me...

Swati ..i wish we all cud be like barun when dealing with criticism...coz my respect for him has increased manyfolds seeing the way he takes his criticism...
I know this place never had respect for conflicting views...and I also know that a small post like this will not make any difference too...
Thanks dear for comment😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Funny part is people will come and disagree here also😊
I have given up posting here
because there is no respect for opinions , people or anything
it is as if sitting behind the laptop
we get the freedom to do what we want
but my question is , does our conscience stop working too?
Edited by rima - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rima

Funny part is people will come and disagree here also😊

I have given up posting here
because there is no respect for opinions , people or anything
it is as if sitting behind the laptop
we get the freedom to do what we want
but my question is , does our conscience stop working too?

yeah i guessed that people will think i too have some hidden agenda with this...so posted a note to disagree in calm manner...I m weak hearted person..
I agree with you.. there is no respect of anything..
thanks for comment😊

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