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Here I am to justify my leads again.. Just my opinion! I will hold on to my faith in my favorites, even though I don't trust the CVs at times!!
I don't have an iota of doubt that RK loves her, admires her, 'respects' her but he doesn't know how to 'give respect' to her. It's not the basic crux, but a key component of a relationship.
Even if Madhu had invited bhai to the party, he could have avoided the scene he created. I dont mind him insulting bhai, knowing that he has enough evidence to suspect bhai-Madhu relationship. Albeit, it was not the best move to insult his wife in full public galore ? He could have questioned her afterwards, but his anger got the better of him. And Madhu had to bear the brunt of it.
RK is not evil, he tries to portray himself evil. Even though he has done heinous things, but there is an inherent goodness in him. I am not gonna talk about them here as i have already mentioned them umpteen times. Yesterday we witnessed the insecure, vulnerable RK, behind the garb of the egomaniac RK who the entire world admires, despises, loves, hates!!! The moment he told her that she didnt have her phone with her.. It took a moment for him to believe her.. What everyone called his fickle-mindedness was his desperation. He was looking for something to hold his faith on.. The moment Madhu gave him a lead, he held on to it. When Dipali told him, that Madhu met bhai in a mall, there was no anger on his face. It was disappointment. A fear. That he will be proved wrong again. There is no way I can hate this man.
I never bought his childhood theory, but yes he was all alone. Those who compare RK n Bhai! Sultan grew up with other kids on the street. He grew up to be a strong man because he saw the world the way it was along with a bunch of kids, whose world was no different? (I am not undermining Bhai's struggle; it's just an example) But RK was all alone. He must have been a loner, his world was different from the world his age mates were living in. And a mom as weak as Radhaji didnt help either. she was busy crying over her sorry situation. We have a tendency to feel bad for the people who are in obvious despair. But we don't want to see the pain who are just lucky to be born rich. There is a reason kids from broken homes have more problems than kids who just happen to be underprivileged.
He just grew up to have a peculiar personality, not a psychopath some people like to portray him as.
He doesn't know how to express himself better and his king-sized ego which is his mask doesn't help.
I endorsed him kidnapping her, not because it was the right way, but because it was the only way.. I was hoping that he will try to make amends for his past misgivings. And from what I see, he was trying to make baby steps only to be curtailed by his insecurities or Bhai's inadvertent appearances. To begin with, were they enough? , NA!! Not for the damage he had done. He has to learn that his circumstances do not allow him to walk over others. He can't give pain to people he loves.
Him taking her in his arms and caressing her when she was asleep proved that he loved her and wants to give love to her. But he can't! the RK she saw was one who handcuffed her, emotionally blackmailed her, called everything a minor tiff. This pushed her limit, and she had to retaliate. RK was not sensitive enough to understand her pain, and she was not left with an option. He doesn't know how to undo the damage he had done, so was trying his usual antics. But the presence of bhai gives fuel to his insecurities. And he acted the way he did with that story. I was more annoyed with the story than the handcuffs !! đĄ
So Madhu had to take things in her hands else this psycho drama was taking its toll on both of them. How can she live with a man who wants to hear that she loves him, but can't confess his feelings for her? if CVs have decided to go the sane way, she knows that he loves her. Now if she wanted revenge, she could have walked off leaving him to kill or burn himself. But all this drama where even she is going through hell, is just to teach him a lesson or two in feeling for others. Her going to bhai was important as she is not comfortable with the fact that she used bhai for her fight with her husband. It was Dipali who involved him and she had to play along to win this game of 'love or revenge'.
Even RK warned Dipali, when he used her to make Madhu uncomfortable.
I was very upset with the CVs after the party fiasco because they had spoiled Rishbala for me, but now I see that Rishbala is possible. Now they will be equal in all right. Both can resort to all means to meet their goal, which according to me is not wrong. Both of them are twisted now. Both are broken from inside. Both love each other, and their love is masked by negative emotions. His by mistrust/insecurity and hers by hurt/pain. Both of them are perfect for each other..
Today, we saw RK who thinks that no one can force her to come back, she wanted to be left alone. And she will come back on her own. This was a first positive change. (On a sarcastic note, in MBland no one actually seems to have a problem with women staying out at night. India is very safe according to them.) I hope we get to see more positive changes..
I just hope Madhu doesn't jilt RK the way he did. I cried with her during the unwedding. But her inner strength gave me hope. She had too many people to support her. But RK is very weak. He will be broken.. He will either die or end up in an asylum. I don't want a tragic end to their story!! But at the end it's CVs story. I don't know what CVs are thinking! May be they wanna go other bala way! But I am watching MEIEJ for Rishbala! And I decide to see it from my perspective till there is Rishbala. I will never accept another girl or guy between the two.
And yesterday, I cussed at bhai with all my heart. I have to take a few back. I don't mind him if he is not between the two crazies. And I will resume hating him if they decided anything as cataclysmic as bhaibala. I will lose my love for Madhu n MEIEJ!! The way I lost my love for RK briefly after unwedding.
For me, it's Rishbala always!! I love them both. This is purely my perspective.. No intentions to impose it on you. But please maintain a decorum when you comment on my post. All of us are educated, at least I'd like to believe that!!
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