Y should Jai acknowledge Barnali & Nattu? - Page 2

anu i have a strong feeling that u do not need the ONS to seperate jai bani ,if she as such support burno and son ,jai will do the needful by throwing her out of WM once again...but the leap round the corner how much more issues are they going to handle and i want the ONS as the main issue where we see jai and bani taking a stand and pia jumping off the tallest building 😳 not sidelined by these stupid tracks at present,it is not a matter whether barnali is right or wrong but u cannot ask a child to give the place of his mother to any other women..and any acknowledgement of barnali wld be the extreme humilaliation of jai' mother and her memories..so i don't think bani will go abt doing that(am i hoping too much) 😕

Originally posted by: an_jaani

Agree with u, very well written ...but i think jig's was friends with barnali ...taking pic with her father and his mistress ????.... then i am sure she approved of her father and his mistress and later when her father died she back stabbed barnali 😉

Actually even i was surprised as to why Jigyasa was there in that snap. But i dont think Jigs would ever be friends with Barnali... for that girl the Walia honour is the most important. I think Barnali must have been Walia sr's PA or something and it must have been a social outing and his daughter and PA accompanied him... and hence the photo... they dont look like a happy family at all... Barnali is kind of pushed off in the side and if Barnali and Jigs were freinds(could have been friends before the affair, who knows!) then Walia sr would have been in the middle and not jigyasa. Just my thought, i dont know.

Luv

Anu.

Originally posted by: sun29

anu i have a strong feeling that u do not need the ONS to seperate jai bani ,if she as such support burno and son ,jai will do the needful by throwing her out of WM once again...but the leap round the corner how much more issues are they going to handle and i want the ONS as the main issue where we see jai and bani taking a stand and pia jumping off the tallest building 😳 not sidelined by these stupid tracks at present,it is not a matter whether barnali is right or wrong but u cannot ask a child to give the place of his mother to any other women..and any acknowledgement of barnali wld be the extreme humilaliation of jai' mother and her memories..so i don't think bani will go abt doing that(am i hoping too much) 😕

That was beautifully put👏👏👏 that was precisely what i was trying to convey. Frankly knowing Bani and the way she reacted to Barnali yday i would be surprised if she didnt support them May be i should wait a while and see if Bani indeed does take such a stand before i hold it against her. It will be interesting to see Bani support ppl who are after Jai's life...

Luv

Anu.

Anu,

(I put this up, cause i felt WE were being wrong here to expect Jai to come clean with Bani cause she had a RIGHT to know and clearly seem to forget she has her own set of truths to hide. )

You are right that JW does not have a DUTY to tell Bani the truth about Barnali. But he could have told her "Look this is a secret which is so painful that I can't talk about it. But trust me that unlike PR this has nothing to do with ur family" If Bani had still persisted in it (and I have a feeling that she would have kept snooping) I would have fully blamed Bani for yesterday's fiasco.

Rgds,

Pri

PS: Remember how she stopped JW from telling her the truth about PR in the bhootia godown epi and yet kept snooping

Originally posted by: anushka_5

Pri,

I agree with u, The reason i put up this post was not to hold Bani wrong(Trust me i was thinking of it... provided this very point didnt exist, she didnt know what she was going to unveil!) As an audience we have the liberity to see both sides of the issue... and yes we do tend to get baised... but that shouldnt stop us from acknowledging the other side. I put this up, cause i felt WE were being wrong here to expect Jai to come clean with Bani cause she had a RIGHT to know and clearly seem to forget she has her own set of truths to hide.

Dont u think, u r expecting too much from St.Bani(as u insist she be called😆) There is a Will that has to be discovered... and i am more than sure Bani is going to support Barnali and Nachiket in this... And i would be trilled about the fact that she is teaming up with people who have made repeated attempts of Jai's life and have been responsible for her miscarriage. I am sure going to LOVE it! 🤢

Luv

Anu.

I dont think Pia will defend barnali didnt she snap at Barnali last nite ??when barni was ranting that Bani's family was to blame for all .???.. Barnali doesnt look like a gareeb, mautaj , lachaar , kinda character . lets say ,if she does ..coz , we all know Bani is famous for her role in Banigiri , then we can only imagine HOW much support Pia will get from Di Dearest when the the truth of Pia's pregnancy is out .

klue

Anu,
I somehow find myself agreeing with MT, Bani needs to understand that Jai is not just her husband, or someone's brother or son. He is an individual,who also needs to have his own private space sometimes.
You say that Jai has other secrets to hide, I cannot think of secrets apart from ONS and Barnali one,that he hid from her but Bani, she makes it a point to keep Jai in dark about everything and make every one around her pledge not to tell Jai either.
Accountability is one lesson these sisters needs to learn big time.They just cannot meddle in anybody's affair until they want them to, yes even Jai's affair.One should not be robbed of his personal space, even if the person in question happens to be your husband or wife.

If she has sensed that Jai and Walia's are not comfortable talking about Barnali or her presence disturbs them,and that they do not wish to discuss her ever, she should put her curiosity to rest.It does not concern her any ways.But it is Jai at fault ,when he knows that his wife can give FBI a run for their money when it comes to digging out old skeletons, he should have given her an explanation to quench her thirst of snooping around.
As for Barnali and Nattu getting the right to Walia surname goes, I think Nanttu deserves it.I am with him only and not Barnali cause a child never asks to be born out of an illegitimate relationship.It is always the parents who are at fault, the child is innocent just like J and P 's baby will be innocent but his parents will be guilty.

God save Bani, if she helps B and Nattu, one moment you keep on harping how important your husband and his honour is to yiou, next minute you disgrace him in public and then help his killers out of sympathy.Her character has been damaged beyond repair

Anu, you simply hit the nail on the head!

Originally posted by: klueless

I dont think Pia will defend barnali didnt she snap at Barnali last nite ??when barni was ranting that Bani's family was to blame for all .???.. Barnali doesnt look like a gareeb, mautaj , lachaar , kinda character . lets say ,if she does ..coz , we all know Bani is famous for her role in Banigiri , then we can only imagine HOW much support Pia will get from Di Dearest when the the truth of Pia's pregnancy is out .

klue

Arre Klue, werent u the one who coined the term Banigiri? U should know better about what she is capable of. Yup, Bani supporting Barnali will be just a prelude to the entire Pia fiasco

Luv

Anu.

Originally posted by: mahimn

Anu,
I somehow find myself agreeing with MT, Bani needs to understand that Jai is not just her husband, or someone's brother or son. He is an individual,who also needs to have his own private space sometimes.
You say that Jai has other secrets to hide, I cannot think of secrets apart from ONS and Barnali one,that he hid from her but Bani, she makes it a point to keep Jai in dark about everything and make every one around her pledge not to tell Jai either.
Accountability is one lesson these sisters needs to learn big time.They just cannot meddle in anybody's affair until they want them to, yes even Jai's affair.One should not be robbed of his personal space, even if the person in question happens to be your husband or wife.

If she has sensed that Jai and Walia's are not comfortable talking about Barnali or her presence disturbs them,and that they do not wish to discuss her ever, she should put her curiosity to rest.It does not concern her any ways.But it is Jai at fault ,when he knows that his wife can give FBI a run for their money when it comes to digging out old skeletons, he should have given her an explanation to quench her thirst of snooping around.
As for Barnali and Nattu getting the right to Walia surname goes, I think Nanttu deserves it.I am with him only and not Barnali cause a child never asks to be born out of an illegitimate relationship.It is always the parents who are at fault, the child is innocent just like J and P 's baby will be innocent but his parents will be guilty.

God save Bani, if she helps B and Nattu, one moment you keep on harping how important your husband and his honour is to yiou, next minute you disgrace him in public and then help his killers out of sympathy.Her character has been damaged beyond repair

Agree with everything u have to say. Yup Nachiket deserves the Walia surname... but Jai or Jigyasa cant do anything about that. What was Barnali doing when Walia sr was alive? Couldnt she secure the Walia surname for the kid? If she kept quite at that time...she has no right to expect Jai to legitimize Nachiket's identity by accepting him as a brother. It will wrong to expect that from Jai, cause his acceptance will mean he is accpeting his dad's illegitimate affair which pained his mom and left his sister and himself with a neglected childhood.

Luv

Anu.