Y should Jai acknowledge Barnali & Nattu?

Anu, I agree with each and every word of yrs!! As I had told earlier in one of reply post, its very painful for any kid to talk about their parents illigemate relations! And Jai is no exceptional who has always been too emotional and insecured for love!!

Good thoughts. I completely agree with you. Infact she should have also told Pia and Rano that she loves Jai. She did tell Massi, Pushkar and Rashi did she? Pia would not have lured Jai otherwise in Dubai. At that point of time she still loved her Di. It is only because she thought that Bani did not have feelings for him, she stepped in. So Bani is to be blamed for the ONS too.

Anu,

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Wanted to post something on this lines but u saved me the trouble. In any case, I don't think I could have put it as well as you have.

But let's give Bani the benefit of the doubt, after all she did not know that she was dragging up a painful epi in JW's life. In fact she was acting more as a jealous, aggrieved wife, which is fair enough with me.

The test of her personality is now. Does she apologise to JW now and promise to let things be or does she again get back into her Janki jasoos/Rajani mode.

Rgds,

Pri

Well said Anu.....I have a slightly different view point in this issue;

I think Bani has not heard of something called, 'Space' in a realtionship...She can be so overbearing at times.....So what if Jai decided not to tell her about his family, what is wrong with her? Just because she is his wife doesn't automatically mean that she should be privy to his past, present and future.....How honest and open has she been with Jai? And in matters which concerned their marriage!

Bani was awful yesterday, shrill, irritating and totally stupid...Not only made a mockery out of Jai but also herself! I really admire Jai for putting up with such perseverance and patience, any other man, would have long run away!

Bani's biggest shortcoming has been her good intentions which almost always end up in wrong actions.....Agreed that she had not wanted to drag Jai's family name out in the open, but she could have atleast kept her mouth shut and spoken to him seperately...What was the need to lable him a liar and ask him embarssing questions in front of the whole world?

Really, Bani fails me everytime.....

Cheers,

MT

Agree with u, very well written ...but i think jig's was friends with barnali ...taking pic with her father and his mistress ????.... then i am sure she approved of her father and his mistress and later when her father died she back stabbed barnali 😉

Well firstly i think jai and family was wrong to do this women out of her share whatever happened she was married to jais dad ! secondly there was no need to make a big deal of it even if it was not connected to the future when she came back he should have explained who she was then there would be no scene x

Originally posted by: majumdar

Anu,

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Wanted to post something on this lines but u saved me the trouble. In any case, I don't think I could have put it as well as you have.

But let's give Bani the benefit of the doubt, after all she did not know that she was dragging up a painful epi in JW's life. In fact she was acting more as a jealous, aggrieved wife, which is fair enough with me.

The test of her personality is now. Does she apologise to JW now and promise to let things be or does she again get back into her Janki jasoos/Rajani mode.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri,

I agree with u, The reason i put up this post was not to hold Bani wrong(Trust me i was thinking of it... provided this very point didnt exist, she didnt know what she was going to unveil!) As an audience we have the liberity to see both sides of the issue... and yes we do tend to get baised... but that shouldnt stop us from acknowledging the other side. I put this up, cause i felt WE were being wrong here to expect Jai to come clean with Bani cause she had a RIGHT to know and clearly seem to forget she has her own set of truths to hide.

Dont u think, u r expecting too much from St.Bani(as u insist she be called😆) There is a Will that has to be discovered... and i am more than sure Bani is going to support Barnali and Nachiket in this... And i would be trilled about the fact that she is teaming up with people who have made repeated attempts of Jai's life and have been responsible for her miscarriage. I am sure going to LOVE it! 🤢

Luv

Anu.

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Well said Anu.....I have a slightly different view point in this issue;

I think Bani has not heard of something called, 'Space' in a realtionship...She can be so overbearing at times.....So what if Jai decided not to tell her about his family, what is wrong with her? Just because she is his wife doesn't automatically mean that she should be privy to his past, present and future.....How honest and open has she been with Jai? And in matters which concerned their marriage!

Bani was awful yesterday, shrill, irritating and totally stupid...Not only made a mockery out of Jai but also herself! I really admire Jai for putting up with such perseverance and patience, any other man, would have long run away!

Bani's biggest shortcoming has been her good intentions which almost always end up in wrong actions.....Agreed that she had not wanted to drag Jai's family name out in the open, but she could have atleast kept her mouth shut and spoken to him seperately...What was the need to lable him a liar and ask him embarssing questions in front of the whole world?

Really, Bani fails me everytime.....

Cheers,

MT

Arre, Nahi... I will be fool to think Jai has been right all the time. I know he has his own set of secrets to hide. I didnt intent to try set off on against the other or turn blind to Jai's mistake. I am just saying WE need to keep in mind the right Bani is depreiveing the others of when vouching for her right over matters! That is it!

u said it, she has very good intentions and sadly she takes on more than she can handle and end up spelling destruction in every which way. And as far as i see, none of her actions can be corrected, it is only Jai who is putting this behind him for his own insecurities about his relationship with Bani!

Lots of Luv

Anu.

Originally posted by: Misangelic

Well firstly i think jai and family was wrong to do this women out of her share whatever happened she was married to jais dad ! secondly there was no need to make a big deal of it even if it was not connected to the future when she came back he should have explained who she was then there would be no scene x

Sorry, Walia sr and Barnali werent married! They are not Walias... if they were, i dont think they would so desperate for the Walia Surname! Jai would give a damn about money... he will not acknowledge her cause it will be mean his mom's pain meant nothing! And moreover Jai doesnt have a clue about the will! If they are wronged... then the court is where they should fight it out... not in the living room of the Walia Mansion. Jai simply refuses to get drawn into this and i think it is his right to do so.

Luv

Anu.