How could she just walk away, how could she??!! - Page 5

Megha's actions are not consistent... If she really believed in the promise, she wouldn't start hating him.

While I was swept up in the emotions during the MM reunion scene, looking back, she didn't make any sense 😕 . She hates him, doesn't use his money, blames him for losing Addu, yet waits for him to bring him back. She said "I shouldn't have waited for you and believed in you!" But in reality, I don't see her believe in Mohan at all... She didn't WAIT at all . She referred to him as past and a mistake before .

Originally posted by: Dee_76

Isnt always Megha's self respect was more important than anyone's chahe Mohan ka self respect jaye bhaad mein but I wont bend my rules is her attitude. Mohan has always lived up to each of the promise he made while he was getting married to her but did Megha do her part in that. And when she said to that rickshaw vala that he is her husband, I thought what a hypocrite women. Has she got any right to say Mohan is her husband, I wonder 😕

Agree with you.

@bold... Megha was just trying to save her image/status, so, she clarified that she was not talking to some random guy, whom the auto driver thought as some roadside romeo.😆

Wrote this in another thread...

copy pasting the same.😳
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Originally posted by: mohan-sun-na

Megha for me was selfish and rude in her behavior and attitude towards Mohan. She never listened to him or tried to understand his stand on the missing kid issue, like what efforts he put to search addu. What was he doing all these 12 yrs, how is he, where was he etc... As Guru said if it was not rimjhim in his life he would've succumbed searching addu wandering the streets.😭 Megha may have suffered, even he has suffered... why can't she see this? His guilt ridden expression said it all, but did she had the patience to look at him?

I understand Megha is a mother of a lost child... But one question I want to ask her, what did she do all these 12 yrs to search addu??? She just visited police station and enquired. That's it...👎🏼. If she was really concerned about her son, she should've done something to search him, like going back to PL and rejoining the office or taking help of the staff there to search addu. She did nothing to find addu.😳

This holds true in amar case too, she did nothing to prove him innocent, instead, she and the whole vyaas family 😡always insulted Mohan whenever he offered help in solving amar case.

Same goes with Nanhi, what has she done to search addu? She became a journo but what effort she put to search addu? She just records her hate messages and throws stone at Mohan's house.👎🏼

Originally posted by: swavai2

Word to word agreement with you Anu (Aare Yaar) your post here as well as your posts on Meera (devils advocate)

I am unable to believe that Megha loves Mohan and wants him in her life ever since the 12 yr seperation track came up. The FB of Mohan left his jm house, Meghas words, body language towards Mohan in hat scene has always made me wonder, "Mohan is not someone who would just leave these people with one incident of Addu gone missing. There got to be a lot more to Mohan leaving thanmis shown now".

Ther reason for me having this doubt in mind is I seriousely doubt if Megha really wanted him to be her man for life.

May be that explains she not tracing him all these years, though it was not difficult, it was possible to get details of the bank account from where Mohan transfered funds to MM joint account. Megha was aware of the funds being transferd.

I think if a woman loves a man and is married to him, would look forward to search the missing child along with him, being together. What other parents have done? Or the woman tolerate their husbands just because he is the biological father?

But then it should be a bigger mistake of a biological father to have lost child due to little carelessness, isn't it? Mohan is sautela baap, he has known his 8 yrs old for last 2 yrs or so, and has no biological bond.

This now clearly me ranting ... W*F ...

People reveal their preference by the behaviour, (google for Revealed Preference Theory of consumers demand by Paul Smuelson)

I think Megha has been revealing her preference time and again, she wants to be a mother to Amar Vyas's kids, she wants to be with Vyas family, She would dump Mohan.

She could have stayed with Nanhi in JM bhatnagar house as Mohan was sending money for their upkeep, and could have worked, traced Mohan and asked him back but instead she did what she has done

I am not able to call it love for Mohan.She went to the bank to close the account to cut the last link, she could not do it. But then, she doing it would mean she will have to own up the responsibility of giving up on Mohan, cant blame any one else. Since when Megha own up and acted on things? Except when she wanted her Mohan back as her husband during Raddi court room track.

This woman was getting engaged with Manav only to dump Mohan but wanted him to save her from the mess.

Such a trait of not owning up once choice and keepingna punching pad handy to pass on the blame is a well known trait in humans. Megha to me comes forward more to be such a person.

Yesterdays reaction suited that trait the most. She went to the bank to close account, but didnt then bumps into Mohan, for a little while the woman seemed happy to have got her man. But then comes the baby Addu, the chance to blame Mohan and therefore Megha just walks out, thats why she went to the bank any way.

To many I may sound too harsh on Megha but, I am not being harsh. I am writing my POV n his is how I could see this situation.

I have serious doubts about Megha loving Mohan or may be her love for her kids and every other member in her family other than Mohan is more strong. I do understand this character and find it interesting enough but can not empathise with her dielemmas.

I do have sympathy for her widowed mother of S1 but this S2 Megha Vyas Bhatnagar living with every one other than Bhatnagars and expecting Bhatnagars to deliver the long lost son of hers, I have no sympathy.

The pain of separation was invited by MM both but Megha could have asked him back, had she Loved the Man who loves her.

Thanks fornthis discussion here, I wrote my heart out.

-Swati.

Thanks, Swati and I absolutely loved reading your take as well cuz I was wondering if I was the only one so bothered with what was shown that I ended up venting so much...there are plenty of posts justifying Megha's reaction as an anguished mother but frankly I could never SEE that anguish ANYWHERE...all I saw was what you also pointed out...a selfish woman who doesn't have the guts to do anything but blame Mohan for all her misfortunes

@bold: My FAV. line from your post...BANG ON...Megha has NEVER owned up to her mistakes and never will...cuz she has a Mohan in her life ready to lay down his life, respect, everything in front of her and do whatever she tells him to...To let her have her hollow self-respect, he has pretty much destroyed his own self-respect...Megha ji herself has NEVER given ANY respect to Mohan anyways.

Tell me, what wife doesn't even give BASIC respect to her husband?

I just don't get Megha and her love for Mohan at all. She exercises selective memory as far as Mohan is concerned and never remembers his good things and all that he did for her and her family. Her tretament of Mohan at times is cruel and inhuman.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thanks, Swati and I absolutely loved reading your take as well cuz I was wondering if I was the only one so bothered with what was shown that I ended up venting so much...there are plenty of posts justifying Megha's reaction as an anguished mother but frankly I could never SEE that anguish ANYWHERE...all I saw was what you also pointed out...a selfish woman who doesn't have the guts to do anything but blame Mohan for all her misfortunes

@bold: My FAV. line from your post...BANG ON...Megha has NEVER owned up to her mistakes and never will...cuz she has a Mohan in her life ready to lay down his life, respect, everything in front of her and do whatever she tells him to...To let her have her hollow self-respect, he has pretty much destroyed his own self-respect...Megha ji herself has NEVER given ANY respect to Mohan anyways.

Tell me, what wife doesn't even give BASIC respect to her husband?

Thanks Anu, I am not able to understand if this is Megha's self respect or an inflated ego? (For whatever reasons it is inflated to this extent) How come a person who cares about self respect would really crush the self respect of some one else? So many times for the same person?

It is understandable that people whom you love the most, you hurt them the most. But to hurt is one thing and to disbelief, to ignore that person may have something to say, to not give them a chance to say it, to shut him the opportunity to explain, well how come these things are part of Love? I dont understand.

I have no problem anyone being selfish as long as their concern for their own self interest doesn't crush someone elses chance to fulfill their own self interest, desires and dreams in life. Megha's behaviour has harmed the joy of MMN all Vyases, Guru. And more than her being selfish I think it is a misplaced egoistic attitude of self rightousness + habit of not owning responsibility has made Megha blame Mohan all the time.

She is never wrong, none of the Vyases are wrong, Addu is a child, very innocent, Renu bhabhi aisi hi hai, but Mohan is wrong all the time, he makes mistakes and will never be pardoned without punishment.For Mohan owns up mistakes - the ones he made - Amar being blamed and Marriage with Raddi, and even the ones he did not -Pratik blaming him for allieding with Dinannath builder and Addu gone missing.

And sometimes in season 2 I wonder does she remember that it was Mohans efforts which made her recovery from that brain injury possible? If not because you love him, if not because he is your husband, if not because he is your friend, but because his efforts enable you to walk and dance today, you pardon Mr. Mohan Bhatnagar, who has accepted your blame that your son ran away due to him, though he can not be alone held guilty.

I am not able to write off Megha as selfish nor ignore Mohan's irrational acceptance of misplaced blame by continuousely denying his own self respect in the name of love.

Is this the story of a couple who lived apart, one partner sadist and the other masochist?

Are tumultuous relationships like this?

But it seems Season 2 is a story of Mohan Bhatnagar's unrequited love.

Thanks again all, specially zandu37 for making this thread, I wrote my heart out. I dont seem to have anything to add about Megha.

Hope to see Sonal madam's hard work to make Megha earn her redemption by wayof a sincere introspection, remorse, regret and an apology to Mohan to have messed up with her role as his wife, his love for life and her role as the mother of 2 kids from her earlier marriage.

- Swati.

i agree abhi toh aisa hi lag raha hai ki bas addu addu aur addu😡

I agree with Leesan's thoughts on the CVs idea