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Posted: 12 years ago
I want Ovi and baby bonding scenes . Beautiful ones and Arjun watching .
Kalapi thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago

Now let me put forward what I think about Ovi, the mother today.

I found Ovi, the mom, stressed out yet very calm and in control of herself. She was a mother who was facing her child's emergency should be. Calm and composed and in control of herself and the situation and not like Purvi, who needs someone to look after her, instead of the situation at hand.

So now, what did the Cvs really want to show in that scene? It just left me wondering, if ma –ka dil and ma ka mamta makes ones to lose oneself and create a 'scene' in public, well, I find that repulsive and I only can say, I hope, I am not one such mom……

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Now let me put forward what I think about Ovi, the mother today.

I found Ovi, the mom, stressed out yet very calm and in control of herself. She was a mother who was facing her child's emergency should be. Calm and composed and in control of herself and the situation and not like Purvi, who needs someone to look after her, instead of the situation at hand.

So now, what did the Cvs really want to show in that scene? It just left me wondering, if ma 'ka dil and ma ka mamta makes ones to lose oneself and create a 'scene' in public, well, I find that repulsive and I only can say, I hope, I am not one such mom''


I think the sooner Ovi finds out about her child being Purvi's the better it will be for everyone. That way, before Ovi gets way too attached she can give Purvi the child back. I feel terrible for Ovi for what's to come in the near future but it is better she faces the truth now and takes immediate action rather than twenty years later when the truth comes out leaving Ovi shattered, broken, vulnerable, and driving her to insanity.

As for Purvi, no words about her. The less said the better. Her ma ka mamta arising now after just giving the baby away is just disgusting. She didn't even think twice about giving the child away. Ovi is far sensible. She felt bad for Purvi and even said that her child has two mothers (which she really shouldn't have said, inviting trouble for herself) . Ovi's sadness over Purvi's baby didn't make her want to give up her child which shows who has their priorities straight. No matter how much Ovi may be unappreciated by her family, she's the smartest of the bunch and the most sensible. Let the family and Arjun chase around after Purvi. Ovi can handle herself and her baby.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Ovi the mother is going to come out shining thru this ordeal..
She is the one who had stillborn premature baby at 7th month..She would have the horrble depression and other medical related issues...So she would be the one needing emotional and physical-medical attention...Just because someone donated their baby to her does not mean her body wont go thru the normal stuff someone in her case would..
I so wish Ovi would find out abt her baby sooner than later..
I understand Purvi may be going thru her emotional issues parting from baby...So if she changed her mind say so...Sooner the better instead of making Ovi-Arjun and the little innocent baby girl become a true loving family..
Sad what we are witnessing on PR.
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Ovi the mother is going to come out shining thru this ordeal..

She is the one who had stillborn premature baby at 7th month..She would have the horrble depression and other medical related issues...So she would be the one needing emotional and physical-medical attention...Just because someone donated their baby to her does not mean her body wont go thru the normal stuff someone in her case would..
I so wish Ovi would find out abt her baby sooner than later..
I understand Purvi may be going thru her emotional issues parting from baby...So if she changed her mind say so...Sooner the better instead of making Ovi-Arjun and the little innocent baby girl..
Sad what we are witnessing on PR.


Purvi will be useless in the matter of revealing the truth. She'll just want to haunt the child and Ovi until Ovi gets so frustrated one day that she snaps at Purvi. I think Onir is the only one who can help in this case, that is if he wants to and decides what's best for the parties involved. He should tell Arjun and Ovi that their child is really Purvi's child that she donated because ArOvi's baby died. Ovi will be shocked and hurt that she didn't know about the death of her own child and that she didn't even get a chance to mourn but she will no doubt make right of the wrongs Purvi committed by donating her child and pretending her live baby is dead. As for Arjun, I don't know what he will do but I have more faith in Ovi fixing things if Onir helps in disclosing the truth.

I know for sure once Purvi gets her baby back, she'll be like "Ovi I wanted you to have this child. Please take her back. I promise I won't bug you ever again."

Ovi should say "No way sis! You can have your child back while I go mourn over my baby who didn't even get a proper goodbye. Thanks to you and your sick games my child won't rest in peace."

I will applaud Ovi for saying these things.
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Posted: 12 years ago
What can I say Nina, except, me glad Ovi isn't anyway like Purvi...
Purvi gives up first Arjun like muli😆...then her baby like baingan😆, not sure who is in her list next...
My only problem is that Arjun should realize now Ovi's value, instead of going round as if drinking Karele ki juice😆😉 constantly 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Don't know Nina, about the baby truth being out and then again being given away.

If I was that child, I could have been terribly upset, that none, not my bio mom, nor my adopted mom cared enough for me to keep me and kept giving me away like some candy. I would be screwed up for life. I could rather have Ovi say, "Purvi fine, you gave the baby away, so be it and thank you very much, she is mine and mine alone, and I will be the mother who will take care of her, love her and protect her as long as I shall live on this planet".

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Don't know Nina, about the baby truth being out and then again being given away.

If I was that child, I could have been terribly upset, that none, not my bio mom, nor my adopted mom cared enough for me to keep me and kept giving me away like some candy. I would be screwed up for life. I could rather have Ovi say, "Purvi fine, you gave the baby away, so be it and thank you very much, she is mine and mine alone, and I will be the mother who will take care of her, love her and protect her as long as I shall live on this planet".


I think the baby is safer with Ovi but Purvi the booth will make life miserable for Ovi and the child. She'll keep trying to gain the child's affection as more than a mausi even though that is her status now after giving the child to Ovi. And all the other family members would blame Ovi for not letting Purvi get close to her child after everything Purvi did for Ovi. I don't want Ovi to be indebted to Purvi forever nor do I want her family members constantly reminding her about this. Arjun, if he can straighten himself out, should drag Purvi to court and launch a good case against her. Then he can win and he and Ovi will raise the child together. Arjun will realize Ovi's value and start to love her and who knows, maybe another child will come into their lives as a sibling to their older daughter and as a symbol of their love, without having Purvi written all over it.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: salvatore-nina


I think the baby is safer with Ovi but Purvi the booth will make life miserable for Ovi and the child. She'll keep trying to gain the child's affection as more than a mausi even though that is her status now after giving the child to Ovi. And all the other family members would blame Ovi for not letting Purvi get close to her child after everything Purvi did for Ovi. I don't want Ovi to be indebted to Purvi forever nor do I want her family members constantly reminding her about this. Arjun, if he can straighten himself out, should drag Purvi to court and launch a good case against her. Then he can win and he and Ovi will raise the child together. Arjun will realize Ovi's value and start to love her and who knows, maybe another child will come into their lives as a sibling to their older daughter and as a symbol of their love, without having Purvi written all over it.

See Nina, I recently saw a real life crime petrol episode that an adopted parent got their right over a child years after, the birth parent contested. I think the baby got lost and the adopted parents found him on the roadside and brought him up as their own without any legal adoption. So, legally, even if Arjun, the Majnun don't want to contest for the legal rights for the child, Ovi can. Besides, nurture is considered much more important even than birth.

As for the dimwit Karanjkars and Deshmukhs, if they haven't learnt anything from Soham tragedy, God help them. Besides, Purvi gave the child on her own accord, if she wants her back...well, the character just goes further down for me'.

Edited by Kalapi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
how could a baby be safer with a woman who was drinking during her pregnancy, tried to commit suicide and have real possessive ,obsessive tendicies?the only reason ovi is calm now is due to the fact everything is going according to her wishes,fancies and wants.but if things dont go accordingly ,it isnt guaranteed that the baby will be safer with her.
Going to court is fine and great but considering ovi's behaviour during pregnancy and many other times with her screaming,shouting and crying ,if the courts know how she can become would they really put a child in her care???beign a mother means whatever problems come your way you can deal with it without losing your mental balnace anf if ovi feel threatened by purvi then she is no way mentally and emotionally srtong to care and protect a defeceless baby..My opinion of this situation with ovi beign a mother to a defencelss human beign.

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