Megha's Nazm :'( - Page 6

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Sure they BOTH make mistakes...but the sad fact of the writing of this show is that only MOHAN admits to his mistakes...Megha will HARDLY ever admit to her mistakes...and there's a HUGE list of mistakes she's racked up...jumping into marriage with Mohan when Addu wasn't ready for it...post marriage, NOT tackling the Mohan-Addu dynamic with more concern rather being busy with her own god knows what issues...They've steadily and consistently made her a very self-absorbed character.

Time and again, Mohan DOES makes mistakes...but the amazingly disarming part about his portion of nazams is that he still ADMITS his mistakes...loves her unconditionally despite anything and everything...while Megha's "love" for some reason always seems more conditional and surprisingly immature.

Yes, Mohan is a man-child...he never denied it...was forthright about it since day one...but what is Megha? A mother of two...a widow from such a young age...you'd think she'd have more maturity and samajh, more RESPONSIBILITY towards her kids...but I guess not...no thanks to the lovely writing of the show as always...her #1 priority should have been her kids...but she messed up BIG time on that front...and now Mohan is an easy scapegoat for her losses...

Originally posted by: mohan-sun-na

Thanks Meera. Am writing a long reply now. Sorry for not being able to come here earlier. My response to your quoted statements is in this colour. And brackets are in this colour.


First of all, thanks for commenting...🤗

Yeh, Thanks for the hug and hugging you back🤗

OMG!!! Swati you seem like burning with anger towards Megha,😲 your words are so cold and bitter... I understand your state of mind and am feeling the same.😳

No way, I am just NOT Burning with Anger on Megha.

Her character is not yet shown to be that of a lover, she is basically a widowed single mother. And considering the limited choices she had within the priorities of her life, she has chosen to prefer Mohan over Manav to marry.

Then she chose to not remain together with Mohan though he has contributed considerably for Addu going missing.

She chose to not stop Mohan when he was leaving home, with a promise that he will return only after he finds Addu.

I am not able to call that selfishness. It was Megha the mother becoming more powerful over Megha who loves Mohan. According to me the two situations are equally selfish in the sense that, the kids as well as Mohan is a source of happiness to Megha. And both the situations require a gigantic amount of Selflessness, as any kind of love demands it to an extent.

I am not being judgmental. I do empathize with Megha completely and understand that the kind of choice she made 12 years ago, has compromised her, Mohan's and Navika's happiness completely.

But so is the Mohan's choice. (clearly he has never contacted Megha directly in the past 12 years and I am not able to give any points to Mohan even if he has obtained information on the well being of Megha and Navika, from other sources.

He has failed to communicate, to get back and instead he kept sulking, drinking and alone looked for Addu for 6 months.

Afterwords he seemed to have clearly moved on, though he has kept this window on Megha, Navika and Addu always open in his mind. But that doesn't help him to win any points from me.)

Both have made choices, and are suffering silently from the outcome of these choices.

I feel sorry for both. But feel little more sorry for Mohan, as he clearly has kept the window open and Megha has closed it, so Mohan is in for a major break up after being separated for 12 years from his beloved wife and kids.

But I would call neither Megha as selfish for choosing to be more concerned about her kids and letting the husband go. Nor I would call Mohan as selfish who is clearly expecting a completely irrational thing today, that he shall be accepted by his family he left 12 years ago and never got back to them in between.


I want the makers of this show, to show some redemption in Megha's character. Megha should be shown repenting for her deeds, otherwise too many fans like us will start hating this character,😡 already we are not at all satisfied with her.👎🏼

After reading those lines i am.very sad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Originally posted by: mohan-sun-na

Quoting the whole thing... very sensibly written... agree with you completely.👏

Very well said Anu... thanks.😳

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thanks, Meera😊...Chalo atleast some of us were watching the same show and understood what was so OBVIOUSLY shown 😆...

Since lists are so popular here, I'd also like to be shown the points where Megha has admitted to her mistakes...can't recall when exactly she understood her lack of responsibility towards Addu...all I saw was her blaming herself for making Mohan the father of her kids...did she understand the COMPLEXITY of that matter rather than putting blanket blame on Mohan?

This main point is still not being understood...Mohan IS to blame in the Addu matter, no doubt...he didn't handle it in the correct fashion even though Addu was such an insufferable brat...and yeah btw where was Megha's lovely parenting when he was turning into such a rude, spoilt brat? Never saw her blaming her own parenting with regards to Addu either.

Mohan on the other hand time and again has admitted to each mistake...yes indeed even the retarded Riddhima plotline included Mohan admitting his "mistake' even though I don't think mistake quite covers what that was...

If we go back to his nazam again, the exact lines are all about remorse, regret at hurting Megha...while Megha's lines are all about denying his existence or him mattering in her life.

These are the contrasting ways in which they always express themselves...Megha takes centuries to come out of her self-absorption for a moment of clarity...it is obvious she misses Mohan but she will deny it to kingdom come as part of her defense mechanism...as part of her mechanism to push him away...telling him he doesn't matter and never will...while he on the other end pledges undying love to her no matter what...THAT was the point I made in my first post in this thread as well.