Bullied Like Imam - Page 15

Originally posted by: -Cruiser-

@BOLD: Is that possible??😲

I would love to put one or two on that.

Contrasting view points are so welcome...what makes me consider projectile vomit as great Imam says is, full of hatred, idiotic comment makers who can't even express what they themselves want to say and fill their sentences if you can call them that, with absolutely inappropriate smileys!🤢

Originally posted by: mordor

Girl you are so TOUGH now! 🤗

Bullies never head anywhere in life. I bet those losers are still the same. Karma does come back to bite them hard in the ass.

That teacher was a bitch though. I cannot believe she didn't say a word 😡

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-

Firstly, it's very easy being a silent member than being part of the arena to access the situation.

Secondly, there are people who would term vocal members as bullies just cuz they do not like what they have to offer. There are people who are good at arguing/debating/discussion while there are those who aren't that great at it. Thus they will term themselves being bullied. There are situations when multiple people are against few and thus those few might claim being bullied, but that isn't the case just cuz those multiple people share same viewpoints.

There were many occasions where I have debated my viewpoints against many likes and members. So should I say I have been bullied by those fans since they were 50 while I was standing my ground by myself. Absolutely not. Thus I say, words like "bullying" has been abused by few either because they don't like certain members or because they can't argue well. This is a forum where arguments and discussions happen. One has to accept the fact there will be those who are better at presenting their viewpoints than others.

Also, I agree different people feel intimidated for different reasons. What I don't agree with is when people resort to using such words for their convenience.

On a side note, if people can't take the pressure of the forum or contrast view point, then this isn't the stage for them. I have seen how people take comments so seriously. I mean if people can't handle mere contrast views/virtual world, how are they going to handle the real world. Again, try being active and arguing against a fan base and you will see how your perception changes automatically.

P.S: @Bold: Without knowing the history or how the forum functions, please stop it with the accusation and tagging others as bullies. I mean since you were a silent member, would you be OK being called a "coward" merely based on my assumption ??

Originally posted by: Pooh.Honeywala

I don't know if you didn't understand what i wrote .. or u got so caught up in being defensive and aggressive , you didn't understand what i said .. but either way not my issue

I said .. there was a poll thread where people claimed they felt they were bullied.. Now i don't know if u know how a forum works or how a poll works .. but when someone voted they felt bullied or hated.. no one knows who the person is .. so i am saying on behalf of those people who voted that they felt bullied.. they should speak up and say something maybe something happened .. someone said something . but acknowledge it and resolve it here If people felt bullied.. why not let them be vocal and express what they felt.. Maybe it could have been a stupid argument or maybe it really got to them .. why not talk about it , find a solution and try to fix the issue.. but i guess people don't want to fix the issue .. just make excuses. I am pretty sure even the MODS would not want any member to feel bullied or intimidated.. to a degree they might harm themselves.

And it is a fact , I have seen some people being bullied.. on the forum .. but if u want to disregard other peoples feelings and make up excuses .. idk what to say .. i thought this thread was to acknowledge other member who were bullied.. maybe i was WRONG .. But

i honestly thought this thread was about people speaking up against bully and sharing their stories. . and since someone put up Amanda story that make me do a throwback and i recalled that one thread were 9 people voted they felt bullied and hated on this forum .. i thought why not acknowledge their feelings .. they should speak out .. since cyber-bullying is a big issues. but instead if u want to make excuses and say some member are more vocal and if someone can't handle it then this is not the platform for them well then .. i honestly have nothing more to say .

its is true that in the mist of bash-a-thons and arguments some members became a bit harsh and intimidate other members. .. and YES some members are more vocal and can put the pov forward .. but it doesn't mean their pov is superior then others..

And why in the world would i want to fight with fan bases.. why .. I seen People call sapna , imam - a psycho .. i read people calling salman khan a serial women beater., criminal .. u want me to argue with people who do nothing but bash sana , bash urvashi . bash imam , bash salman .. why .. why should i .. I have better things to do then go around a forum bashin and fighting and arguing .. Am i gonna to fight with you for calling me a coward .. no ... as i said before this is just a forum not the real world.. why should i care...

you singled me out and called me a coward.. should be offended.. no ... should i care. Hell no.. so call me a coward .. if it makes u feel better u can call me a bully. go ahead.. but still i wouldn't bash u or fight with u .. cuz my conscience is clear ..s o what do i need to be afraid of .. a word like coward or bully.. please.. Just cuz u said it doesn't make it true .. its just ur POV not my reality.

I will still stand by what i said .. In the mist of an argument i have seen member be intimidated n bullied by other members. if people felt bullied they should speak up and discuss it .. resolve the problem bury the hatchet .. but if excuses are gonna be made. then i am done.. - as Imam said it .. talking to them would be like pouring water down a duck's back .. so .. peace out

Originally posted by: mordor

Columbine is a bit uncertain. I read somewhere that Columbine killers weren't bullied.