Overpowering Hate... - Page 6

Hi Rima, I have been mostly been a silent reader in this forum. I remember a time when I had just joined the forum, I used to make it a point to read your posts. I can't claim that I read all your posts, just some of them, but I found them to be well written and were entertaining and made sense to me. I don't know what happened or exactly when it happened but I lost interest in your posts, they started to seem illogical, biased to me. It definitely could have been because I was not following everything you wrote and I don't even remember exactly what those things were that seemed senseless. I opened this post by you after ages and liked it😊

Beautifully said. I am so disheartened by the state of this forum. I try to avoid bashing posts but it is not easy when it is all over the forum.

People take comments said by a few people and make a mountain out of it. 50 people will jump on some line written by 5 people. As if the rest of the people who write in the same thread feel the same way. If there is a thread on "criticizing" certain comments of actor/director ..and few people in that thread go too far and make unreasonable "bashing" comments...then a whole new thread is created for bashing the whole group of people. And they generalize the comments made by a few people to represent everyone in that thread. Why can't we ignore what the "minority" is saying and see in an unbiased way what the "majority" are saying.

There is too much hate in this forum now. People who make such harsh comments...I am not sure they truly loved the show. It is easy to dislike Barun because they feel he doesn't deserve all the fame and adulation he is getting because he left the show. The more he is praised/supported, the more they dislike him. Some people were dissatisfied with the comments made by LM even though they love his work and loved the rest of his interview. Again these posts were blown out of proportion because a few people made too strong comments bashing LM in the same thread.

The problem is that people are making hateful comments just to hurt other people in the forum. It is no longer about the actor, director or PH. People are just fighting against each other...making posts just to hurt other members. There is no unity in the forum anymore over the love of the show or love for Arhi that once existed. I think it is better to shut down this forum as there seems to be nothing to discuss anymore since the show ended. It pains me to say this because I am addicted to this forum. But I feel keeping this forum open is causing more harm to the show and the wonderful memories.

I agree with u. everyone here seems to hate others may be because after investing so much time watching the show and being on forum. It is like alcohol addiction. People don't seem to be able to detox blaming others for show closing. This was just a show.

Topic on state of the forum , members & fan groups not allowed.