Yes,the media is the only source of information...At the same time,we must also realize that not all what the media carries is true.....
The media reporters do not have first hand knowledge most of the times,they report based on what some people tell them...Now these people can lie,cant they..B'coz,the media carried news saying that Abhishek and priety are dating,and that spread through the grapevine,with Karan Johar setting the wheels in motion..Thus completely believing what the media spouts is stupidity!
Thats what I'm saying.. since the audience doesnt have any first hand information.. we have no choice but to believe the media.. unless the person in question comes out and sorts out the whole issue. But you cant go and refute everything that the media says blindly. For the first few months of the Ash-Vivek relationship.. i thought the media was making it up since Vivek was younger than Ash (not that it matters.) But it turned out to be true. When mid-day published the whole thing about Kareen and Shahid's infamous mms clip.. both of them went beserk saying it was all made up. But what happened in the end? The tapes turned out to be genuine. So.. lets not talk about the credibilty of the media.. because thats questionable.
I loveed Vivek in Saathiya,but I yet stay true to my stance...When the movie released,vivek had just 1 hit to his credit..Company..and company too wasnt his movie...Now,saathiya had great music,one hell of a storyline which wasnt the usual hackneyed crass,and Rani...The promos were convincing....Vivek solely wasnt the reason for the movie's doing well......What about Ishq Vishq then? It was Shahid's first movie.. but it did extremely well. So you cant say that Vivek doesnt deserve any credit for Saathiya.
Yes,Vivek had the potential,and still does have great potential...Afterall,didnt even Abhishek struggle for 4 years and churn out 17 flops before Yuva happened 😃 ..His career choices were downright BAD,something which only he is to be blamed for.....he rejected Hum Tum and green signalled projects like home delivery...Thus,its only his stupid choices that have culminated in his surrent plight,not Ash!I think Rani didnt want to work with him, thats why he left that project. Not sure though. Well, I hope he rises above his failures, and gets another chance of making it big.
A good professional is one who separates personal life and professional life..VO had some problems with that psycho Salman....He should have been clever enough not to wash his dirty linen in public,as that adversely affected his career....If he really succumbed to Ash's egging on and provocation and thus went public,there cant be anything more asinine than that ..If VO became blindfolded in love,its his fault!Yeah that whole press conference thing was stupid of him. Thats why Dia Mirza and Rani started hating him. Because he dragged their name in the whole thing. But who knows.. maybe he discussed it Ash before going ahead with it. I dunno.
YES,its very much open to doubt and skepticism,just as the allegation that she uncerimoniously dumped him by just saying that "she isnt answerable to him" is open to doubt....Thus,when we can give a margin of doubt in one case,its just but fair that we must also give that margin to the other statement..what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gancer! 😛I tried looking for VO's interview where he was talked about his relationship with Ash.. and how it ended. I couldnt find it.. but if I do.. I'll post it.
Now fine,she didnt do the most sapient thing...But is that a sole reason to hate her 😕 ...Yes,in retrospect we might say that she made a big error by dating salman in the first place.....No point in being wiser after the event!..Ash-Salman predicament is their personal life,and none of us know the true story and the accurate chronology of events that finally led to spiltsvilleHer relationships arent the sole reason why people dislike her. At least not me. I have other reasons which I have stated before. Well its not her fault that she went out with Salman.. its a good thing she ended things with him.
Yes,Sush is very vocal about her personal life,and Ash isnt!....Buw how fair is it to calumniate Ash only because she doesnt resort to recrimination.....Now,if Ash starts retorting to every false allegations and animadversion,some people cant even hide in the darkest corner .....Sush has oncesaid that She finds married men "interesting"...and the ulterior meaning is very blatent....Now Ash isnt the one who would say such things........... because she doesnt get involved in a mudslinging spree,its wrong to berate her and deem her to be a scourger👎🏼I dont particularly like Sush as an actress either.. but she has this off-screen persona thats very attractive. Thats the only reason why she won Miss India in the first place (Ash was better looking.)
But I dont think it works in Ash's favor, if she has nothing to say on issues relating to her. I know shes not obligated to talk about her life, but since she is a public figure, the audience expects her too. On David Letterman.. he asked her if she had a boyfriend, and she was like "I'll leave that one for the auto-biography".. personally, that answer just doesnt appeal to me.
Why should she 😕 ....She has never done that before,so why now 😕 ....and who knows,they might indeed be dating too 😉 ..Even when Abhishek was going out with Karishma,initially both used to rubbish the fact as a mere "rumour"....So,we cant really be sure 😛If she doesnt clear it up.. I dont think she/her fans have any right to complain that people are unfair to her.
BTW: Buffie.. just wanted to tell you.. you're an awesome writer. Great job!!