Badi Beeji - A strong woman, crumbled...

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hello Ji...🤗

one post before going to bed...

I thought of writing this up when i watched the episode...one beautiful, heart wrenching scene to the core.. my heart literally sank for few seconds and my throat was choked with this scene...,.

yes I am talking about the BADI BEEJI scene..

When Badi beeji was lying lifeless for those few moments ... my heart skipped a beat and sank deep down, with each passing moment .. and by the end of the scene .. never realized .i had my eyes pooled.. that is the effect of such a heart wrenching or i would say heart tugging and twitching scene.. regarding which I could not find any post all day ...

For elders, specially the 4th generation people, above us.. they have seen everything in life.. they have lived every bit of life.. enriched every relation with their love and warmth.. and they are awaiting death..until then they wish to see happiness filled in the lives of all their kids ... and grand kids.. and everyone around them ..

but one thing that Beeji is most attached to, is the house.. into which, she came as a bride after getting married to par dadaji,. and people still have the sentiments of "ab iss ghar se meri arthi jaayegi,," meaning, the house has become the identity .. the astitiva,, the life of a woman ... into which she came as a bride and from which, she would never want to leave until death does them apart...

We might find it quite obstinate on their part or we might think they are over reacting with regards to the house... we look at the house as one property ... aaaj hai .. kal nahin.. but for the woman who spent almost all her life in the house.. the house is the integral part of her existence.. might sound senti and stupid ..(of badi beeji and also me making such a post) .. but the house is their life for someone like badi beeji

Badi beeji is a STRONG WOMAN in what ever situation, her confidence. her vishwas that they will not loose the house in any situation, came crumbling when they were hit with the auction notice.. for Badi beeji. i can tell this.. how she might feel about it.. as I have seen my own grand mom.. going through this separation anxiety and the tadap of leaving her ancestral home and moving to city ...

Badi beeji's trust broke.. she could not gather herself to give the strength to her family ... one by one all the family members started crumbling .. and for badi beeji.. the very sense of loosing the house was like taking her soul away from her body or her heart being pulled out of her being .. because for her the house is not of bricks and cement ... but of innumerable happy and sad memories.. innumerable relations .. innumerable moments... everything of her life is imbibed into the house..

for once when she woke up .. and laughed out and said that she will not die leaving them in such dire.. i had a smile behind my pooled eyes.. that badi beeji;s confidence is restored..,..but soon her wish .. to die in the same house inflicted a profound anguish in me... how painful and tearful it is to watch someone of Badi beeji's age to cry like a child and wish to die...:((

People like badi beeji instill the values and the beliefs in us,., they are our inspiration towards life.. they give us new outlook towards life.. ,. and what we do is to ignore or forward the scene .. as if they never existed.. waited all day to see single post on Badi beeji.. but hell what am i even expecting ...

I know .. not many will even bother to open this post as this is not about VirMan or JeeMan or ViriKa... -😕

shrav and Ash thank you .. for making me post this,, 🤗

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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Shravani

@Shrav123

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Posted: 13 years ago

unres...

munni di...first of all thank you for posting this... no one could pen it down as awesomely as you do...🤗 🤗

and now coming to the post, badi beeji was just awesome yesterday...that was indeed the scene of the day...i just had tears when i was watching that scene...

her fear,helpness was clearly seen in her eyes...she was totally broken after the notice...as you said,more than anyone it was badi B who was more attached to the house...

"People like badi beeji instill the values and the beliefs in us,., they are our inspiration towards life.. they give us new outlook towards life.. ,. and what we do is to ignore or forward the scene .. as if they never existed.. " ----- i totally agree with this...it is this generation of people who instill values into us...and guide us ...

and i just dont have any more words to write...you said it all 👏 👏 👏...soo just a copy paste from ma side...

Edited by shrav_virman - 13 years ago

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Ananya

@ananyakai

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Posted: 13 years ago

unres
badi b is one of my fav charachter
she really understands every1
she first understood manvi 's feelings for virat n vice versa was always a upperhand in der realtion..
she noes wats right n wrong..
i adore her a lot..
she is a support system
dabbu n her scene
wen she wasnt waking up my heart literally stopped for a sec..
cant loose her in d show..at alll...

Badi beeji is a STRONG WOMAN in what ever situation, her confidence. her vishwas that they will not loose the house in any situation, came crumbling when they were hit with the auction notice.. for Badi beeji. i can tell this.. how she might feel about it.. as I have seen my own grand mom.. going through this separation anxiety and the tadap of leaving her ancestral home and moving to city ...

so true!

n thanks a lot for making dis post😳

Edited by viratmanvi - 13 years ago

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Nikhila Chandran S.S.

@Nikki_Titli

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Posted: 13 years ago

munni u wrote wht i felt seein d epi yday...srsly my heart went to her in tht scene...d actress who played BB hv givn such a flawless performance tht one cud LITERALLY feel d pain of BB...lik u said...She ws d one who alwz TRIED to find positivity in many of the negative things tht hv happend to this family...n she used to motivate others too..bt this time she lost all hopes d moment tht auction notice ws givn...it ws like literally someone hv shot her down...

For ny person...its BOUND to get attached to ny thing(house here)or ny person to vich they hv been attached to soo soo many years...n for BB her 80% of the life is spend in tht home...so she can nevr evr see in her lifetime tht vry own home bein snatchin away frm her..SHE JUST CANT..n thts wht made her react lik yday...

Awesome post munni...as this ws d same i felt i HAD to comment here..😊

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shine123

@shine123

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Posted: 13 years ago

Superb post munniji...

agree wid each nd every word of yours...

the house in which the person has spent almost aal their life means a lot to them nd don't wanna leave the house till their last breath...

inspite of being a really strong woman she broke down after hearing bout the auction...

in the dabu-bb scene nd bb lying lifeless though my eyes were bot pooled as urs but my heart sank d there was a pin drop silence in the room but wen she woke upnd her dialogue of hers made me smile...

P.S.: don't noe if it makes sense or not...

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swasti tiwari

@sanjana_cool

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Posted: 13 years ago

great post munnidi...
really the scene was emotional...her acting is superb!!!
the pain of leaving an ancestral property was clearly evident in her eyes!!!
she had spent her entire life in that house...how can she be expected to leave it...😭😭

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Simar Gulati

@-Simz-

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Posted: 13 years ago

So true.. Awesum post.. She acted awesumly! :))

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Ankita

@..Ankita..

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Posted: 13 years ago

for me, BadiB stole the show yesterday...I cannot say anything more than what you have already said..but yes, I would like to add how much I loved the CVs for showing her pain, and not screwing a track like they usually do.
Everybody's reaction was so human when they found out about the auction. Chachu was shocked, being the man of the family, he had to find another roof for his family - and he had none. Chachi controlled her husband and tried to give him courage. Beeki tried to handle everybody.
and BadiB, well, how else do you expect a woman to react when she is told that she just have to die a thousand deaths before her death? Wonderful performance by her!

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shrav_virman
unres...

munni di...first of all thank you for posting this... no one could pen it down as awesomely as you do...🤗 🤗

and now coming to the post, badi beeji was just awesome yesterday...that was indeed the scene of the day...i just had tears when i was watching that scene...

her fear,helpness was clearly seen in her eyes...she was totally broken after the notice...as you said,more than anyone it was badi B who was more attached to the house...

"People like badi beeji instill the values and the beliefs in us,., they are our inspiration towards life.. they give us new outlook towards life.. ,. and what we do is to ignore or forward the scene .. as if they never existed.. " ----- i totally agree with this...it is this generation of people who instill values into us...and guide us ...

and i just dont have any more words to write...you said it all 👏 👏 👏...soo just a copy paste from ma side...

You are welcome Shrav... 🤗 wouldn't have made it ,,,if not for you...

did you see the response for Badi beeji post 😕 well anyways...

The actors is just brilliant for words..I felt as if my own par dadi is crying there.. felt like going and hugging her

@blur shrav.. that is so true. .. her helplessness .. was quite evident ...her being the elder one..and not able to be of any help to save the home was quite poignant

thank you so much shrav .. glad u liked it beta 😃

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: viratmanvi
unres
badi b is one of my fav charachter
she really understands every1
she first understood manvi 's feelings for virat n vice versa was always a upperhand in der realtion..
she noes wats right n wrong..
i adore her a lot..
she is a support system
dabbu n her scene
wen she wasnt waking up my heart literally stopped for a sec..
cant loose her in d show..at alll...

Badi beeji is a STRONG WOMAN in what ever situation, her confidence. her vishwas that they will not loose the house in any situation, came crumbling when they were hit with the auction notice.. for Badi beeji. i can tell this.. how she might feel about it.. as I have seen my own grand mom.. going through this separation anxiety and the tadap of leaving her ancestral home and moving to city ...

so true!
n thanks a lot for making dis post😳

Ash,, indeed she is the support system.. older generation people are always a great emotional support ...be it any crisis they are the ones who bind the family together and instill the confidence to get over the crisis

My pleasure Ash 😳

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