Marital Status of Forumwaasis - Page 5

I'm born and raised in Canada. I am not married yet since I'm just 19 years old and I've got a long way to go to finish my education and have a career.

Angel11 - To be very honest, if a man like ASR were to drop from heaven even when i was a teenager, with hot looks and the attitude, I would run in the opposite direction.

Originally posted by: rockingcouple

am an indian and married in a indian family..

And i feel both ASR and Khushi are virtual characters..you can find some qualities in realbut not all😊

It does not matter where I live but I am an Indian by birth and will always remain an Indian at heart.

Originally posted by: Krani

Yes, I have seen my Dadi taunt my mother on quite a lot of occasions - but my father has always stood for her right when things have gotten out of hand :)

In fact sometimes Dad gets angry if my brother or I hurt my mother too badly with our actions or words.

And so in the future, I would expect no less from my husband. If he can stand up for me, stand up for my values and my thoughts - then I would respect him and his family as well.

PS: I didn't know there was such a thing as an abnormal married woman

LOL sorry for the funny use of the word normal. By normal what i meant was a working woman in a middle class family 😃

Me married In India..ASR is awesome as a hubby...My hubby just like ASR there is no redemption in life and I have a sis in law just like anji...My inlawes died on my hubby bday!!!!

Originally posted by: After20at42

It does not matter where I live but I am an Indian by birth and will always remain an Indian at heart.

Thanks to God, I am blessed with a husband maybe better than ASR in certain ways. We have had our fair share of ups and downs in life..bu then, looking back at these 20 years we have spent together, me or him, we wouldn't want to change anything. We have grown stronger, wiser and happier over the years.

When you ask this question about all hubby's being like ASR, I have a small question in return..how many wives are like Khushi? All forgiving and all accepting?

I just want to say this... for any success or failure of any relationship, both involved parties have equal responsibility. Only when both hands come together can there be thunderous Clap?

But dear the sad truth here in India is that wives r expected 2 b forgiving & accepting. Our neighbor who is also a widow had 2 daughters & 1 son. The eldest daughter's marriage failed & she came back 2 mayke with a 1 yr baby girl. Next the 2nd daughter also got married & then finally they started searching 4 an alliance for the youngest son. Many families were reluctant due to the elder daughter being at mayke with a kid. So the family spoke 2 her hubby & parents & literally pushed her back into her sasural. I was just wondering how much it must ve hurt that woman to go back to the same house where the ppl insulted & emotionally tortured her for many yrs before her delivery. Now her in-laws r dead, her nanad is married & now her hubby is slightly better. But that didi is now over 40. Now tell me who ll give back all those lost years to her. BTW she was an MTECH grad working as a HOD in a top engineering college 😕

Again in my own office which is 1 of the biggest IT co in India i ve seen many stories like that, some with my own friends. My inlaws still dont consider me an ideal bahu & wife since i work & am a manager of a big team. Acc 2 them i must stay at home & take care of my hubby & kid. Sometimes even my hubby gets swayed away by his mom though he has become better aft the kid.

Anyway i am glad that at least many ppl in this forum ve been blessed with understanding hubby & in-laws. But what saddens me is that this is minority & in India women r still treated worse than dirt by her in-laws & hubby, sometimes even by their own grown-up sons.

Thanks a lot to all those who responded & do continue to pour in ur thoughts. I hope that at least we raise our kids in a such manner that they break all this social norms & make this society a better place at least for the future girl children.

That way we women ve a vital role to play as a mother!

ive been married fr 2 beautifull yrs...now in los angeles but basically settled in chennai

Originally posted by: Angels11

But dear the sad truth here in India is that wives r expected 2 b forgiving & accepting. Our neighbor who is also a widow had 2 daughters & 1 son. The eldest daughter's marriage failed & she came back 2 mayke with a 1 yr baby girl. Next the 2nd daughter also got married & then finally they started searching 4 an alliance for the youngest son. Many families were reluctant due to the elder daughter being at mayke with a kid. So the family spoke 2 her hubby & parents & literally pushed her back into her sasural. I was just wondering how much it must ve hurt that woman to go back to the same house where the ppl insulted & emotionally tortured her for many yrs before her delivery. Now her in-laws r dead, her nanad is married & now her hubby is slightly better. But that didi is now over 40. Now tell me who ll give back all those lost years to her. BTW she was an MTECH grad working as a HOD in a top engineering college 😕

Again in my own office which is 1 of the biggest IT co in India i ve seen many stories like that, some with my own friends. My inlaws still dont consider me an ideal bahu & wife since i work & am a manager of a big team. Acc 2 them i must stay at home & take care of my hubby & kid. Sometimes even my hubby gets swayed away by his mom though he has become better aft the kid.

Anyway i am glad that at least many ppl in this forum ve been blessed with understanding hubby & in-laws. But what saddens me is that this is minority & in India women r still treated worse than dirt by her in-laws & hubby, sometimes even by their own grown-up sons.

Thanks a lot to all those who responded & do continue to pour in ur thoughts. I hope that at least we raise our kids in a such manner that they break all this social norms & make this society a better place at least for the future girl children.

That way we women ve a vital role to play as a mother!

Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

Please keep all personal information to PMs.

IF is visited by many visitors & your privacy may be in jeopardy . Please edit if you have written any sensitive information.

Hey my intention was not 2 make ppl divulge their personal info. All i wanted 2 know is how many ppl in this forum r actually married since v c so many heated discussions on marriage, the duty of hubby, true love etc etc.