Put yourself in her shoes & think logically...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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...regardless of what Arnav says tomorrow, whether it be 'break all ties with Garima' or whatever else (maybe even if it's something that's not too bad), after all that's happened, all that's she's been through, that her family has been through, would you marry Arnav?
He's seen what a broken marriage can do to a woman (Di), the pain, the suffering, the HELPLESSNESS a woman feels. If he really loved her, why would he subject her to the same? Leave her waiting at the mandap...that right there is downright mega disrespect!
I'm just wondering if any woman would marry a man, after all this?
PS. I know they're getting married, it's been confirmed. Just wondering what you guys would do if (God forbid it does though) this happened to you?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I would have left him after those 6 months were over and if it does happen like Khushi and he left her at the alter - I will still leave him and not marry him. The worst a thing that can happen on a wedding day is the when the groom or the bride doesnt turn up and let's the other person get humiliated.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well as Khushis r very rare, meaning being as selfless and giving as she is is a rare trait.. therefore it is not likely that someone will get to the point she is in right now...

so anyway nope i will not marry!! i would have kicked him out of my life the 1st day he misbehaved with me!! (in real life i mean, me drooling on ASR is a different case)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I would never marry the guy 😕 😆 They shouldn't let the marriage happen though, cus I'd love to see Arnav regretting first 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am a self proclaimed Female ASR
So the chances of me ditching my would be husband at the alter are much higher.

I would never have or can be in her position.

Edit: On hindsight, I don't think I made my point clear. I have no problemo marrying a guy like ASR. The angry ASR is actually my preferred type. He would just be marrying a female version of himself 😃 When I meant that I would never be in Khushi's position is that, he couldn't have easily manipulated me as he has manipulated her. And yes, in my case, he would have been waiting at the mandap, wondering if I would turn up 😉 not vice versa. But then again, i am an atheist, so I too have no interest in the big fat Indian wedding. So it would have worked out fine in the end.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ideally Kushi should leave him..but even though India has changed, but. Broken marriage is always a girl's fault..Kushi will b blamed her entire life as she alarm lived with Arnav...so her family will force her to marry Arnav at any cost
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanab29

I would never marry the guy 😕 😆 They shouldn't let the marriage happen though, cus I'd love to see Arnav regretting first 😆

Yeah, that's exactly how I want it to happen too! We've seen Khushi at the recieving end of pretty much EVERYTHING in their relationship; pain, suffering, HUMILIATION. I want her to LEAVE HIM and for him to regret it badly. To fully comprehend her worth as a human being.
If he truly, truly loves her, he will NOT ask her to choose between Garima and him. I hope to God he doesn't ask that of her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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No...I would not have married a man who left me standing at the alter...I have been saying this all along...I can never fall for such a man...it sounds romantic in MB novels...but in real life Iwill-not tolerate anyone manhandling me, disrespecting me or my family. It would be a complete no. But saying that I must say that Khushi is not that feisty woman who inspired me to watch the serial...she forgave him nevertheless. I don't know anymore. Is there a new confirmation about the marriage?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I would not want to see remarriage happening again so soon actually, Arnav needs to prove his love this time and maybe the redemption track!? Telling her to leave garimaji would be very insensitive and if he says that he deserves a slap from khushi! Khushi shd give the Dadi's khandani bangles to Arnav to wear!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: notorious

Yeah, that's exactly how I want it to happen too! We've seen Khushi at the recieving end of pretty much EVERYTHING in their relationship; pain, suffering, HUMILIATION. I want her to LEAVE HIM and for him to regret it badly. To fully comprehend her worth as a human being.
If he truly, truly loves her, he will NOT ask her to choose between Garima and him. I hope to God he doesn't ask that of her.


EXACTLY!😲 Like why can't the CV's not let that happen!! Cus that is the best bit and the ONLY bit that can really happen! Arnav regretting! BUT but... I have a feeling that will happen when they get married and Khushi will leave him! And this can be for any reason like Arnav hating Garima and Khushi not liking this.. Obviously their relationship won't get anywhere, with this big truth out.. So Khushi will leave, and THEN Arnav starts regretting! I hope it'll go somewhere along these lines!😕 Cus now that the marriage is going to happen, I can only think of this!

And obviously if Arnav doesnt tell her choose between him and Garima, then that's even better!!! 😃

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