What hurt most about ASR today

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes I know he is great pain

I know he loves Khushi and he is hurting for that too

I know he is sheer agony of contemplating a life with the neice of the other woman...

But what hurt for me

the ultimate romantic

the ultimate ARHI fan

is the fact that he would even for a nano second consider ...

not going to the wedding

and not marrying her...

the fact that he delayed shows he is contemplating what to do...

And I believe so much in ASR's love that I never expected him to choose...or even think whether or not to marry Khushi

to be honest that is what hurt me the most...

not that asr has still not turned up

Because to me love is life

and there is no choice while choosing your life

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Priyanka

@AmazingAmy

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Posted: 13 years ago

Rima, that's exactly what I was thinking...wonderful post.

Dadi won because she succeeded in swaying Arnav and humiliating Khushi on her wedding day.

Arnav has seen this happen with his sister in the past, when her wedding was ruined at the altar. He always has flashbacks of that day. So why didn't he think for a second about how much it would hurt Khushi if he didn't show up at the altar?

I understand his pain but as usual, he didn't think of Khushi. He thought about himself, his sister, his family. He is so sensitive when it comes to his family. Yet he always proves to be insensitive to Khushi's feelings. She is never his number one priority. If she was, he would ignore Dadi, show up and marry her on time and deal with the drama later.

Khushi is the only character on this show who puts everyone else and their feelings above hers, and never gets anything in return. She put her life on the line without a second thought to save him...even at a time when he still hated her, called her characterless, said he would never accept her as his wife and leave her in 6 months. That's the difference.

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Ni1234

@Ni1234

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Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with each word here..:)

I am too numb today...

Was speechless after watching Khushi in the altar all alone..

We all know he will turn up tom, he took his time.

But Dadi got what she wanted. Khushi got humiliated in the altar on her wedding day.

Now I am just wondering how their relationship turn out post marriage.

Khushi should not be the victim this time.

And tom definitely Khushi deserves an explanation from ASR. She is no way at fault here. Period.

Enough said.

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689471

Hibernated

Posted: 13 years ago

Call it woman's intuition but; the woman in me today doubted him even before the episode aired.
The die-hard romantic in me died a bit today
I always knew fairy-tales were not real, the knight in shining armor etc but still I hoped and today I just...sighed
Love does not think twice and there's no place for doubt where love is concerned.
Khushi today proved she truly loves and is selfless.
Khushi never for one second doubted her love and that REALLY hurt me today...more than him not showing up or second guessing.
Khushi's and her resolute determination today has made a permanent place in my heart.

I felt sad for Arnav today but Khushi being second or even third fiddle again today hurt me the most!!

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fun_games

@fun_games

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Posted: 13 years ago

I will wait for tow's episode Rima.😉

I have always believed he will come.

Today let me recover from the shock -

1. BS leaving show

2.Khushi waiting at the Mandap - heart wrenching scenes & episode

3. Spoiler coming out 1st of off screen pic of happy IPK cast & then BS not leaving😳

4. My own promise never to become obsessed with an Indian soap!! Failing miserably though

Cheers😆

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vinu.sr

@vinu.sr

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Posted: 13 years ago

same here...i have always believed in his love for Kushi...i know he is a flawed man..but not his love...from the time he acknowledged his feelings and realised his love for Kushi i have always believed that he would never contemplate not having her in his life...

i dont really bother about him being late...i mean he is person with a heavy baggage...although some people in the forum are angry with him, i empathise with him...he has issues..and we all know that...he has deep rooted relationship issues...and trust issues...but i thought in his relationship with Kushi he is past all that...

come on Arnav...atleast tomorrow confess to kushi that not for one moment you had a doubt in your mind...and that you were only taking your time to grieve...

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Alia

@.A.l.i.a.

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with you ..

What hurt me the most , that Khushi didn't need a second to thought before forgiving him for his OWN sins and destroying her life, and made her live in a physical & emotional torture for 1.5 years ..
and he is thinking before marrying her-after all what happened- just because of her MASI's fault , not her fault ..

Thant why I always said the he don't deserve her .. That why I'm disappointed with him even though I knew that he will come later ..

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Rockerchic

@Rockerchic

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Posted: 13 years ago

A choice b/w honouring his dead mother and the lover who always stood up for him.

His choice is made I think.

In my perfect image of IPK, I think Arnav is guilty that he cares so less for something that is this prominent.

I trust in Arhi's love.

She asked him to come to her. He didn't.

He asked her not leave. She will.

But they will find eachother and that's all that really matters.

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rima

@rima

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: asr2kkg
same here...i have always believed in his love for Kushi...i know he is a flawed man..but not his love...from the time he acknowledged his feelings and realised his love for Kushi i have always believed that he would never contemplate not having her in his life...

i dont really bother about him being late...i mean he is person with a heavy baggage...although some people in the forum are angry with him, i empathise with him...he has issues..and we all know that...he has deep rooted relationship issues...and trust issues...but i thought in his relationship with Kushi he is past all that...

come on Arnav...atleast tomorrow confess to kushi that not for one moment you had a doubt in your mind...and that you were only taking your time to grieve...

let us see what he does tomorrow

it is crucial

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Dipali

@dipali13

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

I love ASR and I know he in shocked and pain and he will come to marry her but my POV is "har chees ka ek waqt hota hai, har kam agar time per pure na hoto uska koi matlab bahi rehta..some time life dose not give u time to think u have ti decide in a second other wise is too late..marne wale ki akhari khwahish useke marnese pehle hi puchi jati hai baad ma nahi..." understood his pain but life don't give him time it's action time only...