Originally posted by: bc123456
while reading i missed some of the writing on page 7 on rereading it it was asif ihad fond a bag of goodies felt great . and yes sujataji what do a few pin pricks matter but they do hurt terribly maybe tennysons lines do make sense but to loose the one you luv its a sadness that never goes away no matterwhat you do the pain lives inside you forever and somehow nothing matches the feeling not your work, home , anything thats why want this separation to end , does this ever solve things dont the cracks always remain on your heart no matter the love
Dr Babs...of course they hurt...but my experience is that the hurt does fade away with time and at times, you even wonder if it was such a big deal after all...time and distance affords perspective...
And no separation never solves anything especially when the love remains in the heart...marriage is all about compromise and it is unfortunate that couples today are increasingly unwilling to compromise...the worst part is emancipation is often quoted as a reason for this...I personally think that is ridiculous...I am a firm believer in the equality of the sexes,,,,but do we have to be equally stupid...hope this couple resolves its differences soon.
I assume that Tennyson was talking about irreparable loss btw!