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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -happilyunknown

Guys i do not choose this. I cannot do anything about it.

Where i live love marriages are not common k? And its like love is a crime.

In my opinion love marriage is the right way to go. But our fam is also imp.It should be someone that they approve of. Thats all. But i guess i will not get the right to choose.



well i sorta agree with what u said..but even if its an arranged marriage...U shud have a right to approve or not as well!!!...
Afterall its u who will spending ur life with him right?!!..

And in my case if its a love marriage thing...ill make sure my folks approve of him...
So they are happy and me wud be happy...
My parents themself had a love marriage..LOL
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Sim..Totally agree.And that luccha (like this word LOL) who can't even speak english/german etc...Want to live with me in Germany/USA etc...?
Dude,Not going to happen.
Get up on yor ass and face life instead of getting a free greencard.

LOL:...Last year when we went to India...in Punjab...First day..whole aunties where in our house and they were looking at me like crazy.
And they asked me stupid questions.

If you believe it or not...One Aunty actually had the guts to ask for my hand.
Pahhh Pagal!!! W*F???
My father's face was like:"WHO THE HECK???"
AND I WAS FREAKING 16 at that time 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ArhiAbhiya



well i sorta agree with what u said..but even if it an arranged marriage...U shud have a right o approve or not as well!!!...
Afterall its u who will spending life with him right?!!..

And in my case if its a love marriage thing...ill make sure my folks approve lf him...
So they are happy and me wud be happy...
My parents themself had a love marriage..LOL



And i completely agree with what you said :) I hope in the end i will have some say in the guy that i end up marrying.Maybe i will..god noes..:/
And guess what i am gna write an OS on this.
After all its all about Lovin your parents😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
@Sim...LOL...I will not gonna let anyone dominate over my lifestyle.Forget that typical bahu types.I can't even cook to save my life.I can't even make simple chai.I can only watch my dad cooking and eat.

My uncle always jokes that he will get me a gharjamai🤣🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ri_luvs_ArShi

@Sim..Totally agree.And that luccha (like this word LOL) who can't even speak english/german etc...Want to live with me in Germany/USA etc...?

Dude,Not going to happen.
Get up on yor ass and face life instead of getting a free greencard.

LOL:...Last year when we went to India...in Punjab...First day..whole aunties where in our house and they were looking at me like crazy.
And they asked me stupid questions.

If you believe it or not...One Aunty actually had the guts to ask for my hand.
Pahhh Pagal!!! W*F???
My father's face was like:"WHO THE HECK???"
AND I WAS FREAKING 16 at that time 😕



@bold 🤣
Noone has been as direct but when i went to this wedding someone actually said she is be perfect for our Arjun.And i was was like say what woman?!!

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ri_luvs_ArShi

@Sim...LOL...I will not gonna let anyone dominate over my lifestyle.Forget that typical bahu types.I can't even cook to save my life.I can't even make simple chai.I can only watch my dad cooking and eat.


My uncle always jokes that he will get me a gharjamai🤣🤣


Hah if i dont like the guy i am gna make the guy rue the day he married me :D

I have no idea how to cook too. Yes, not even a chai😆

But i think we should learn. Forget about Bahu thing.Imagine we are livin alone.How will we fend for ourselves/?

^^ this i show my mom threatnes me :D
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Ri: hahahahah i know i love this word too!!:P
I learned from grandma..LOVE MY DADI!<3

Hahaha omg i went to india last summer as well..n all the aunties were like ..."start looking for a groom...Dekho kinni jawan ho gayi aa kudi"

And i was like in my head..."oi!!...im only effin 15..."

And some aunties were also like "haath peele kardo and get the gurl married..."

It was as if i was recieving electric shocks...
But my smart dadi knew how to answer back..

She was like nooo nooo she needs to stand on her own two feet first...

These days gurls arent married off to become a typical housewife at the age of 15-18..LOL!...

I was like "dadima..thank god u saved me"
So after that..whenever any aunty came to the house..i stayed inside a room ...LOL!..
You never know when these evil aunties bring their lucche sons just so he cud go to canada or any other abroad country..LOL
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Posted: 13 years ago
@Gayu...Gosh...My father was really ASR when that happened and he was like...My daughter is only 16...16! 🤣
No proposals for her until she doesn't get 24.My mum and dad want a indian guy born/raised up in Germany😆
Edited by Ri_luvs_ArShi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: -happilyunknown


Hah if i dont like the guy i am gna make the guy rue the day he married me :D

I have no idea how to cook too. Yes, not even a chai😆

But i think we should learn. Forget about Bahu thing.Imagine we are livin alone.How will we fend for ourselves/?

^^ this i show my mom threatnes me :D


Hahaha LOL
Will make his life hell and make him regret like hell.


LOL...You are right but I seriously have nooo time for learning cooking.🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ri_luvs_ArShi

@Gayu...Gosh...My father was really ASR when that happened and he was like...My daughter is only 16...16! 🤣

No proposals for her until she doesn't get 24.My mum and dad want a indian guy born/raised up in Germany😆



i have no idea what my dad wants. But i have made it clear that i want a guy who works abroad.I just wanna get out. I will miss my parents of course. But i have been controlled and supressed for too long...

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