So What? I am a Fangirl - A debate. - Page 2

Originally posted by: arisai

So much to say to this.

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Originally posted by: madarfan

' So what if I don't care about feminism/abuse/etc because I watch this for entertainment? I know where to draw the line, why judge me?' Exactly..

When khushi is not having any problem with him then y these so called feminists are worrying so much...

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Originally posted by: madarfan

' So what if I don't care about feminism/abuse/etc because I watch this for entertainment? I know where to draw the line, why judge me?' Exactly..

When khushi is not having any problem with him then y these so called feminists are worrying so much...

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Originally posted by: arisai

We worry because of morons and young, impressionable girls who watch this show who will later think that being pushed around and abused by their husbands is perfectly fine and romantic.

I weep for the world we live in where defending a woman's rights to be loved and properly cared for is frowned upon by other women.

Just because Khushi is shown as an all-accepting, all-forgiving saint doesn't mean she's doing the right thing. And just because Arnav used to look so attractive I myself admit to starting to watch the show PURELY because of him, it doesn't give him any right whatsoever to be a complete arsehole.

Originally posted by: arisai

Liking Barun is fine. Wanting to kill Pashmeen and wear her face so you can sleep with him is not.

Thinking Arnav and Khushi have a romantic relationship is fine. Wanting to kill your husband because he's too kind and sweet and doesn't shove you around like a ragdoll is not.

Watching the show for Barun is fine. Pausing when his face is on-screen so you can kiss it is not.

Not caring about the deeper meanings of the show is fine. But blindly accepting the show's ridiculous logic (or rather, lack of it) is not.

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Everything you described is the behaviour of a fan, not a fangurl. I've never criticised fans- by being on IF I think I've proven myself as a fan. By writing FFs on the characters, I've proven myself as more than that.

But fangurling- the INSANE fangurling and wailing at the Shrine of Sobti that I see on here is ridiculous, irrational and sometimes I wonder if these people are actually even REAL or just Moronbots trolling the internet. Gutter posts don't make me laugh- I don't find crass or obvious humour (if it can even be called that) funny. I prefer sarcasm, wit and clever wordplay- things that require effort and an innate, brilliant sense of humour as opposed to just a mind that needs a thorough rinsing with Mr Muscle.

I swear, some of the absolute shit that I've seen on here makes me wish there was a Mod specifically to go through and close things for excessive levels of idiocy.