Arnav such a jerk - Page 62

Originally posted by: naddiya26

he is not a jerk at all , he is a gentleman, see he walk to her to cover her , then when she stopped him he didnot forced her , he love her ,he was just loving her showing how much he love her .

Originally posted by: Arshi4eva_18

Accept it or leave it. That was ASR not Arnav. His actions were justified. And if there is so much problem, then please leave the forum. Our ASR was a jerk and is still a jerk And that's how he will be from Episode 1 to the end of the show. And we want him to be like that. Simple as that, like I said- accept the fact or leave it.

I am not at all against the fact that ASR wants to fulfil his physical urges. I'd be worried if he doesn't want to, after being with this lovely woman for 6 months. But my peeve is with the fact that everything he did tonight was for HIM and not considered for HER.

Let me elaborate. He asks her to wear the cloths so that HE can see her in them, not because she feels nice to wear them. She continued to refuse to have a Suhaag Raat but he insisted on it because HE wanted it. She stopped him from going much further because she believed this is not how this step should be taken but HE was angry because she denied HIM. That was the main cause for his anger; HE was stopped from having sex with her. Simple as that.

Now it's natural for him to get angry (especially if he was hard on but I'll stop from going further for PG13 ratings). Yet when he dragged her to the terrace was that anger justifiable? Wasn't it just so he can quickly get the whole going round the fire business done with so that she would relent to him in the bed? It's a quick easy solution, not delve too deeper into what she wants because who cares what she wants as long as he has her by the end of the night right? Did he try to understand where she's coming from? No because at that moment her opinions or decisions didn't matter to him and he was driven singularly to get the woman pacified and come to bed with him.

This fact that he didn't consider her feelings during the whole make believe pheres is what's putting me off. It was HIM, for HIM and about HIM all the way. Right from the start of his proposal of having the SG until the time he forcibly lifted her and took her around the fire, it was all about him. Nope, he didn't take her around the fire for her sanctity. He did it for him so that he can get what he wanted out of her.

As I said in another post it's not wrong to have manly urges but if he cannot control his desires until she consents whole heartedly, he's not a gentleman, hell not even a civilised human. Coupled with the fact that he was extremely selfish and didn't give a dime regarding what Khushi wanted, made me gag at the whole scene.

Originally posted by: fan145

wait thrs a long debate going on lemme ask just one question reallly if its like tht like ur saying tht wat arnav did is wrong and he is jerk ...thn i cant undrtsnd y did she hug him back ..if she didnt want to be his for tht time thn y did she hug back...this question matters only if wat u said is rite like arnav jerk to do such things and alll..ll if tht matters question is relevant ...

Originally posted by: CDlove

I am not at all against the fact that ASR wants to fulfil his physical urges. I'd be worried if he doesn't want to, after being with this lovely woman for 6 months. But my peeve is with the fact that everything he did tonight was for HIM and not considered for HER.

Let me elaborate. He asks her to wear the cloths so that HE can see her in them, not because she feels nice to wear them. She continued to refuse to have a Suhaag Raat but he insisted on it because HE wanted it. She stopped him from going much further because she believed this is not how this step should be taken but HE was angry because she denied HIM. That was the main cause for his anger; HE was stopped from having sex with her. Simple as that.

Now it's natural for him to get angry (especially if he was hard on but I'll stop from going further for PG13 ratings). Yet when he dragged her to the terrace was that anger justifiable? Wasn't it just so he can quickly get the whole going round the fire business done with so that she would relent to him in the bed? It's a quick easy solution, not delve too deeper into what she wants because who cares what she wants as long as he has her by the end of the night right? Did he try to understand where she's coming from? No because at that moment her opinions or decisions didn't matter to him and he was driven singularly to get the woman pacified and come to bed with him.

This fact that he didn't consider her feelings during the whole make believe pheres is what's putting me off. It was HIM, for HIM and about HIM all the way. Right from the start of his proposal of having the SG until the time he forcibly lifted her and took her around the fire, it was all about him. Nope, he didn't take her around the fire for her sanctity. He did it for him so that he can get what he wanted out of her.

As I said in another post it's not wrong to have manly urges but if he cannot control his desires until she consents whole heartedly, he's not a gentleman, hell not even a civilised human. Coupled with the fact that he was extremely selfish and didn't give a dime regarding what Khushi wanted, made me gag at the whole scene.

Originally posted by: bluefish

Yes ASR did behave like a jerk because today..
If he has a problem with rituals...he should have mentioned it to her yesterday itself..when she made a long list of complaints about the rituals. Ek min mein comedy..second min intense...he needs to have a sense of balance...

Secondly..inspite of his comments about not respecting any rituals..he did use Sindoor and Mangalsutra in the temple in front of Devi maiiayya...when he wanted to bind her to him...when he actually believed she was having an affair with Shyam.

Why did he use rituals then? I have no problem with him trying to get intimate. But doing the pheras forcibly...while she is talking against it..without listening to her...sorry thats not even love.
Thats being possesive..thats being in control.
He needs to give up that control..and let her lead the things her way..atleast 50%.

Hope he learns from this.

Originally posted by: CDlove

I am not at all against the fact that ASR wants to fulfil his physical urges. I'd be worried if he doesn't want to, after being with this lovely woman for 6 months. But my peeve is with the fact that everything he did tonight was for HIM and not considered for HER.

Let me elaborate. He asks her to wear the cloths so that HE can see her in them, not because she feels nice to wear them. She continued to refuse to have a Suhaag Raat but he insisted on it because HE wanted it. She stopped him from going much further because she believed this is not how this step should be taken but HE was angry because she denied HIM. That was the main cause for his anger; HE was stopped from having sex with her. Simple as that.

Now it's natural for him to get angry (especially if he was hard on but I'll stop from going further for PG13 ratings). Yet when he dragged her to the terrace was that anger justifiable? Wasn't it just so he can quickly get the whole going round the fire business done with so that she would relent to him in the bed? It's a quick easy solution, not delve too deeper into what she wants because who cares what she wants as long as he has her by the end of the night right? Did he try to understand where she's coming from? No because at that moment her opinions or decisions didn't matter to him and he was driven singularly to get the woman pacified and come to bed with him.

This fact that he didn't consider her feelings during the whole make believe pheres is what's putting me off. It was HIM, for HIM and about HIM all the way. Right from the start of his proposal of having the SG until the time he forcibly lifted her and took her around the fire, it was all about him. Nope, he didn't take her around the fire for her sanctity. He did it for him so that he can get what he wanted out of her.

As I said in another post it's not wrong to have manly urges but if he cannot control his desires until she consents whole heartedly, he's not a gentleman, hell not even a civilised human. Coupled with the fact that he was extremely selfish and didn't give a dime regarding what Khushi wanted, made me gag at the whole scene.

Originally posted by: CDlove

I am not at all against the fact that ASR wants to fulfil his physical urges. I'd be worried if he doesn't want to, after being with this lovely woman for 6 months. But my peeve is with the fact that everything he did tonight was for HIM and not considered for HER.

Let me elaborate. He asks her to wear the cloths so that HE can see her in them, not because she feels nice to wear them. She continued to refuse to have a Suhaag Raat but he insisted on it because HE wanted it. She stopped him from going much further because she believed this is not how this step should be taken but HE was angry because she denied HIM. That was the main cause for his anger; HE was stopped from having sex with her. Simple as that.

Now it's natural for him to get angry (especially if he was hard on but I'll stop from going further for PG13 ratings). Yet when he dragged her to the terrace was that anger justifiable? Wasn't it just so he can quickly get the whole going round the fire business done with so that she would relent to him in the bed? It's a quick easy solution, not delve too deeper into what she wants because who cares what she wants as long as he has her by the end of the night right? Did he try to understand where she's coming from? No because at that moment her opinions or decisions didn't matter to him and he was driven singularly to get the woman pacified and come to bed with him.

This fact that he didn't consider her feelings during the whole make believe pheres is what's putting me off. It was HIM, for HIM and about HIM all the way. Right from the start of his proposal of having the SG until the time he forcibly lifted her and took her around the fire, it was all about him. Nope, he didn't take her around the fire for her sanctity. He did it for him so that he can get what he wanted out of her.

As I said in another post it's not wrong to have manly urges but if he cannot control his desires until she consents whole heartedly, he's not a gentleman, hell not even a civilised human. Coupled with the fact that he was extremely selfish and didn't give a dime regarding what Khushi wanted, made me gag at the whole scene.