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OMG! Second post in a day. DAMN! I needa get a life! 😆

Anyways, this is not a bashing post. I'm gunna simply state what I feel. If anyone feels offended my apologies for offending you.:)

Now that we are getting lil tit bits of past getting revealed, obviously Khushi's connection will be revealed as well. Since the show started, the whole focus has been on Arnav-Anjali's past, how they got affected how they feel and what they went through. We never got to see or get to see how Khushi feels about her past. How she feels about losing her parents. We never get to see her inner monologues about this loss. It is always about Arnav, his happiness, his anger, his priorities, his love for his Di and Anjali's life, her happiness, her pregnancy her husband cheated, he chotey doesn't care about her anymore, her chotey lied to her && their past is dark, painful, everything was destroyed. Yes I know they have suffered a LOT. Both their parents committed suicide and it is very painful for kids to grow up without heir parents but even Khushi lost her parents didn't she? We all know her parents' death had a deep impact on her. She's scared of fast cars, she still hangs stars on her bed side thinking her parents have become stars, she's scared of dark, she's scared of sleeping alone etc. That accident had such a deep impact on her and still Cvs never show her feeling or inner monologues about her parents' death. Why not? If all this can be shown for Arnav-Anjali why not Khushi? Isn't her past as painful as them? Hasn't she suffered? Why this unfairness?

Cvs already have done such mistakes by always sidelining KHushi's feelings.After this revelation of past and their connection, more focus should be on KHushi's feelings. We wanna know who she feels. Arnav-Anjali already know what happened in their past but KHushi knows nothing. She was a kid when all this happened. So this would be a BIG SHOCK for her. This should result in her breakdown. So, Please CVs show more of Khushi's feelings too and how she feels. We wanna know about her feelings as well. It would be amazing if Arnav tries to console her and bring happiness in her life. She brought love and happiness in his life. After this news, she will completely breakdown if Cvs show that way and it would be amazing to see Arnav getting her back.

Maybe Cvs won't show exactly what I'm asking but something similar to these lines would be awesome to watch!

Okay people, this is what i want to see. Please tell me what do you think?

P.S.: I'm not KHushi obsessed or Arnav hater or basher. I love this show and everyone in this show. It's just all this unfairness to Khushi convinces me to make topics on her. Every time Arnav does something good I always make posts on him as well. So, I want no bashing and simply a healthy discussion. Thank you:)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I honestly don't know which is more painful, having no control over your parents' death or having somewhat of a control over it, not saying Anjali and Arnav had that much control over what their parents did, but if they talked things out with their parents maybe circumstances might have changed, Khushi on the other had, her parents died in an accident something she had no control or witness over, and I don't think it was JUST an accident T_T

So far everyone has been saying Khushi's side of the family has some "bad" connection with Arnav's side of the family, what if it was the other way around? What if Arnav's family did something bad to Khushi's side of the family and was the cause of her parents' death (which I think is hardly the case but still =/) it seems like Khushi is always in fault so if they do the latter then it'll be something new and something I will enjoy but so far the clues seem to be screaming the first circumstance 😕

as for Arnav and Anjali's story, I think Gul Khan mentioned that most of the story will be showed through Arnav's pov of view rather than Khushi's, which is why we haven't seen much of her past unless she's on screen and most of all she was in the accident herself which is y she hasn't really chosen to remember it, which idk sometimes I feel is odd also cuz people who have been in car accidents most of the time get flashbacks of the accident when they're in that situation again, for Khushi, fast car rides which she's been with Arnav ridiculous number of times, but she's shown as a happy go lucky character rather than a complex/shattered girl (yet, that part may come after the past is revealed)

and yes I really want to see Khushi's depth of feelings and how she handles the situation and what Arnav does about it as well, I hate to put it this way, but FOR ONCE (to the CVs) please give Khushi's character and her past some focus as well, so far the only focus she's gotten is when she has to make things funny, happy, cute, or romantic or for chemistry with Arnav but we want to know how her past was, how she took, please take it back to when Arnav first apologized to her or the after Diwali scenes where u guys wonderfully expressed her pain and what not,

Awesome post Kiran and healthy discussion it is. xD

p.s sorry for babbling 😛
Edited by SaJanLuv14 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hope so too. For a while now (since the wedding,) Kushi seems to be sidelined. She is portrayed in a silly, let's tolerate her, (childish) attitude, manner. (And BTW if she really is 25, who behaves like that at that age, o mio dio!) Her character has been decimated and we see none of the previous strength in her. She is never shown thinking about her parents, yet the one time he mentioned that they must be disgusted with her (on the bridge after Buaji's house when he called her characterless,) she lashed out at him to not dare say anything about them. So we do know that she has deep emotions about this. But, we have NEVER seen this. Why? Read my opening again.
It is a testament to the amazing acting skills of Sanaya that we have as yet not written Kushi off!

Here is what I said to an earlier similar TM.

Don't forget that she lost her parents when she was eight. We don't know how she feels about that because the focus has been on him, not her. Apart from the fact that she has uttered a few words to him (poolside-stars, bridge-on the way back from GH after she found out he had seen her and Shyam, and that she believes they are stars,) we haven't seen any of her feelings and thoughts about her parents (except for her looking at the stars when she is really desperate.) There haven't been any FB on her part, she has fears about that, we know, she mentioned, but we haven't seen any of it. I'm hoping when the great showdown occurs, her past will be revealed, too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Another post already from you Kiran 😉

Anyways...Amazing Post Again

I totally echo your sentiments..This girl lost her parents and we haven't seen how their death affected her...She has always used her smile and laughter as a mask to her inner turmoil ..And yes she has to be in turmoil because no one loses their parents ans comes out completely unscathed ...We havent even seen her parent's death anniversary yet..Why ?? Because the CVs are too focused on Arnav and his past..

I read a lot about Khushi's parents being responsible for Arnav's past in the forum - Arnav's dad had an affair with Khushi's mom and hence arnav's mom committed suicide, Khushi's parents being servants at Arnav's residence, Khushi's parents responsible for the accident, etc. Why not Arnav's parents be responsible for khushi's parents death? We should really cut this girl some slack...She has already suffered enough..


But I have to admit I am intrigued to know how Arnav and Khushi's pasts are related...Hope the CVs do justice to it ...

From today's episode it seems like Arnav's dad lusted for another woman just like Shaym lusted for Khushi...

Maybe the woman Arnav's dad liked was Khushi's mother... just like Khushi was blamed and tortured for something she didn't do maybe the same thing was done with her mother.

Now when the truth comes out it might be the same type of problem when people have to understand that Khushi's mom had no fault in this just like khushi had absolutely no fault in what shaym did.

The last part of your post cracked me up...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kbtr

Here is what I said to an earlier similar TM.


Don't forget that she lost her parents when she was eight. We don't know how she feels about that because the focus has been on him, not her. Apart from the fact that she has uttered a few words to him (poolside-stars, bridge-on the way back from GH after she found out he had seen her and Shyam, and that she believes they are stars,) we haven't seen any of her feelings and thoughts about her parents (except for her looking at the stars when she is really desperate.) There haven't been any FB on her part, she has fears about that, we know, she mentioned, but we haven't seen any of it. I'm hoping when the great showdown occurs, her past will be revealed, too.


Exactly my thoughts. The focus hasn't been on her past ever! It's always about Arnav-Anjali's past since the beginning. I so want the focus on her because it is going to be a big shock for her once she finds out more about the incident. The real breakdown will be for her not for Arnav or Anjali cuz they know everything already! So, Cvs have to be careful here!
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Originally posted by: Edella17

Another post already from you Kiran 😉


Anyways...Amazing Post Again

I totally echo your sentiments..This girl lost her parents and we haven't seen how their death affected her...She has always used her smile and laughter as a mask to her inner turmoil ..And yes she has to be in turmoil because no one loses their parents ans comes out completely unscathed ...We havent even seen her parent's death anniversary yet..Why ?? Because the CVs are too focused on Arnav and his past..

I read a lot about Khushi's parents being responsible for Arnav's past in the forum - Arnav's dad had an affair with Khushi's mom and hence arnav's mom committed suicide, Khushi's parents being servants at Arnav's residence, Khushi's parents responsible for the accident, etc. Why not Arnav's parents be responsible for khushi's parents death? We should really cut this girl some slack...She has already suffered enough..


But I have to admit I am intrigued to know how Arnav and Khushi's pasts are related...Hope the CVs do justice to it ...

From today's episode it seems like Arnav's dad lusted for another woman just like Shaym lusted for Khushi...

Maybe the woman Arnav's dad liked was Khushi's mother... just like Khushi was blamed and tortured for something she didn't do maybe the same thing was done with her mother.

Now when the truth comes out it might be the same type of problem when people have to understand that Khushi's mom had no fault in this just like khushi had absolutely no fault in what shaym did.

The last part of your post cracked me up...


LOL! Yeah already another post from me and Thank You. You're such a sweetheart<3 Thanks for always commenting🤗 Exactly, just because she's selfless and "jhalli" doesn't mean she doesn't feel sad. Cvs really needa focus on Khushi as well instead of focusing on Arnav-Poojali only! I know right? Why can't Arnav's dad be at fault? Why just her parents? His parents can be responsible for her parents' death too. Just because they are Arnav's parents they are not at fault? Give yourself, Khushi and me a break people! Even Im excited to find out. I mean how can possible their past be related? Gosh this suspense is killing me! I think Khushi will once again have to suffer Raizadas' brunt but once they find out they will bring her back without any apology:( Because after all she is Khushi and she is "jhalli":(

hahha the P.S. part? LOL why?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


LOL! Yeah already another post from me and Thank You. You're such a sweetheart<3 Thanks for always commenting🤗 Exactly, just because she's selfless and "jhalli" doesn't mean she doesn't feel sad. Cvs really needa focus on Khushi as well instead of focusing on Arnav-Poojali only! I know right? Why can't Arnav's dad be at fault? Why just her parents? His parents can be responsible for her parents' death too. Just because they are Arnav's parents they are not at fault? Give yourself, Khushi and me a break people! Even Im excited to find out. I mean how can possible their past be related? Gosh this suspense is killing me! I think Khushi will once again have to suffer Raizadas' brunt but once they find out they will bring her back without any apology:( Because after all she is Khushi and she is "jhalli":(

hahha the P.S. part? LOL why?


Aww..You are welcome 😉 I know...I bet Khushi will once again go into sacrificial mode...That is one of her character flaws from my perspective...She gives too much importance to the others in her life ...I guess its a habit since she is an orphan that's why she feel the need to overcompensate ...After all they do say that "Sacrificing your happiness for the happiness of the one you love, is by far, the truest type of love.

I cracked up because if you are a Khushi obsessed or Arnav hater or basher, then all need to give up on the show because why watch a show when you hate the lead 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SaJanLuv14

I honestly don't know which is more painful, having no control over your parents' death or having somewhat of a control over it, not saying Anjali and Arnav had that much control over what their parents did, but if they talked things out with their parents maybe circumstances might have changed, Khushi on the other had, her parents died in an accident something she had no control or witness over, and I don't think it was JUST an accident T_T

Losing your parents is the most painful thing ever especially at such a young age! :( I don't think anyone will understand this unless they have been through the same!
So far everyone has been saying Khushi's side of the family has some "bad" connection with Arnav's side of the family, what if it was the other way around? What if Arnav's family did something bad to Khushi's side of the family and was the cause of her parents' death (which I think is hardly the case but still =/) it seems like Khushi is always in fault so if they do the latter then it'll be something new and something I will enjoy but so far the clues seem to be screaming the first circumstance 😕
Obviously man. Khushi is always at fault! Arnav is GOD so is his family. How can they ever be at fault? The fault always lies in Khushi's side just because she is poor!
as for Arnav and Anjali's story, I think Gul Khan mentioned that most of the story will be showed through Arnav's pov of view rather than Khushi's, which is why we haven't seen much of her past unless she's on screen and most of all she was in the accident herself which is y she hasn't really chosen to remember it, which idk sometimes I feel is odd also cuz people who have been in car accidents most of the time get flashbacks of the accident when they're in that situation again, for Khushi, fast car rides which she's been with Arnav ridiculous number of times, but she's shown as a happy go lucky character rather than a complex/shattered girl (yet, that part may come after the past is revealed)
If that was the case, then why not promote it like that? Why not promote it as Didi ki saut or Arnav is kahani or whatever? Why promote it as a love story and now that you've promoted it that way, give the same importance or atleast half of the importance of what male lead gets to female lead. She lost her parents too. Why not show her remembering her parents? I mean which kid who lost his/her parents won't remember 'em? My dad lost both his parents and he has kids and there's not a day when he doesn't mention them or remember them! My mom has lost her dad and there's not a day when doesn't remember him or there's not a day when she doesn't miss her mom who is in India! I haven't seen my grandpa but I lost my grandma three years ago and only God Knows how much I miss her. I cry every night!
and yes I really want to see Khushi's depth of feelings and how she handles the situation and what Arnav does about it as well, I hate to put it this way, but FOR ONCE (to the CVs) please give Khushi's character and her past some focus as well, so far the only focus she's gotten is when she has to make things funny, happy, cute, or romantic or for chemistry with Arnav but we want to know how her past was, how she took, please take it back to when Arnav first apologized to her or the after Diwali scenes where u guys wonderfully expressed her pain and what not,
We don't wanna say it but CVs have forced us to say it. Please for God's sake show us something from her side as well. give her importance as well. Stop taking her for granted.
Awesome post Kiran and healthy discussion it is. xD
Thank You sweetyy<3 Love you<3
p.s sorry for babbling 😛
No problem I loved your babbling<3

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Originally posted by: ..Kirann..


Exactly my thoughts. The focus hasn't been on her past ever! It's always about Arnav-Anjali's past since the beginning. I so want the focus on her because it is going to be a big shock for her once she finds out more about the incident. The real breakdown will be for her not for Arnav or Anjali cuz they know everything already! So, Cvs have to be careful here!


Wonderful post Kiran! loved ur disclaimer 😛. You know I have to put one in my next post!😆
This is what I was thinking too, now we already saw enough hatred , sorrow, grief frm Asr n Anji, now it should be Kushi's turn! And I think outburst will be from Kushi's side when the past will be revealed! They have not shown any monologues of Kushi on their parents because she thinks it's an accident n so no one is responsible for that, but they have shown how much she loves her parents , ESP her Amma ! She always wears her amma's payals , believing that They became stars and her outrage when Asr talked abt her parents on the bridge, these all shows she ll do it finally!😆
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Wonderful post Kiran! loved ur disclaimer 😛. You know I have to put one in my next post!😆
This is what I was thinking too, now we already saw enough hatred , sorrow, grief frm Asr n Anji, now it should be Kushi's turn! And I think outburst will be from Kushi's side when the past will be revealed! They have not shown any monologues of Kushi on their parents because she thinks it's an accident n so no one is responsible for that, but they have shown how much she loves her parents , ESP her Amma ! She always wears her amma's payals , believing that They became stars and her outrage when Asr talked abt her parents on the bridge, these all shows she ll do it finally!😆


Thanks & She does need to finally just blast everyone off and THINK ABOUT HERSELF ONLY!

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