Ovi-purvi-arjun- Page 2

Originally posted by: bhallarox

Good post sherma.

Arjun and Purvi are not innocent they have made many mistakes. Arjun cheated Ovi and never told him he fell in love with Purvi but kept on making her hopes get higher.

One of these days, Ovi is going to do something drastic because of her obsession but some people will still be defending her. She has been coddled so much all her life, never had to hear NO for an answer, treated like a barbie doll and her grandmother still talks to her as if she is 4 years old...Miss Ovi need a huge reality check that the whole world does not revolve around her and she need stop feeling sorry for herself because it ain't so bad for her...people are far worse off and still don't complain.

how can purvi snatch ovi from arjun when arjun not love ovi at all who snatch perspon from other when some one love each other and even know this she try to snatch him this is call snatching. but her it no like that you dont understand that he even not love ovi and she is only he's chilhood freind why he would marry with the girle that he never love her and if after marriage arjun will not give her the love that she want ovi all time will cry the person should to marry with they person who love each other and ovi's love is only one side and how purvi think only about her self and not about other.you hear purvi praying to god and make wish from god for hrself she never pray to god for her self she always pray for other's happenis but ovi only pray for her self and think about her self . and tell me why purvi should to sacrfice her love for her sister do you think if ovi was in purvi place she sacrfice arjun for ovi.when archana sacrife manav for shravni you say that she is wrong and and now when purvi not sacrifice arjun for her sister you'r saying that she is wrong.then tell me one think when manav try to save purvi then why she not let manav to save purvi i know that she is angry on purvi but she should think that she is in danger and maybe she will die if he not save her.if ovi get kidnapped im shour purvi tell arjun to save ovi even if she know that ovi love arjun she will not stop him from saving ovi and even help manav for money.then please dont tell that she think for herself and not other's.dont you think that purvi save ovi from this relationship othervise if she marry arjun she will cry all her life and has to suffer because she will never get arjun's love.

Hi I am new here.

No one is at fault here. Fate played worst role in all 3s life.

Sunflower52 and newt2007, very well said. Love is not just hankering after a person, it also involves sacrifice and understanding. Sunflower as you so rightly put it, Ovi is lacking the "human" element, she can only think of herself even when another girl is in danger, that takes the cake!! And grinding her teeth when Arjun is sitting there forlorn, that is love? If she were truly his friend and loved him, she would be hurting for him and consoling him. Until yesterday, I never doubted she loved him in her own way but the grinding incident changed my take on it.

And why blame Purvi in this? If anyone was at fault for inaction or not trying hard enough to set matters straight, it was Arjun. Purvi was not even aware of the Ovi factor. And if you expect Purvi to have sacrificed for her sister, why not the other way around? Ovi could have sacrificed for her sister AND also for her "love" whom she phataoed on second try and the fool fell for it for whatever odd reason. No, not excusing him but you cannot blame him for not falling in love with her, maybe he has always known something that we didnt about her aka her selfishishness, self absorption, dwelling in her two or four year old self. Yes, he should never have agreed to marrying her and he is making Purvi pay for that mistake of his as well as he has made no attempt to clear Purvi's name to the Deshmukhs, including Mother Deshmukh aka Archana.

i dont think arjun and purvi should be blamed for anything becuz arjun NEVER lovedd ovi she jus pushed herself on him. so i think purvi and arjun should get married and ovi should back off and find somebody else since she does modellin it wont be hard for her