Originally posted by: coolgal49
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Older relationships need not be sidelined but new relationships should be equally imp...
Anjali is a very imp person in Arnav's life...Mother figure..True..no prob...but Khushi has also loved him unconditionally and proved it time and again...Why should she be secondary? why not equal...
Why is it Khushi's duty to understand...Support... everytime...shouldn't he understand her too..Why doesn't he stand up to his family when they insult her...isn't it his duty to support her then...
i donot agree with the bold...If he was merely attracted to her why was he so upset when he thought she met with an accident...He indirectly proposed to her with the bindi on the mirror...he went to the terrace to tell her " farak kyun padta hai"...Why did he break down in the middle of the road when he misunderstood the terrace scene...He loved her...before marriage...
Plz no offense..Its just my POV...
Strong relationships cannot be built in a day - They have to grow. And Khushi and Arnav really only know each other from a year or so? They started off on a wrong footing, their marriage happened because of wrong reasons - On what basis will Arnav prioritize this relationship over his and Anjali's which has taken years to reach this stage?
Everytime he has understood her, he has apologized or made up to her. She always puts up her price at that exact same moment! That is what I have observed. She is as stubborn as he is! And sorry this is the first time Khushi has been asked to understand and support and more importantly since it is her family now!
Your point about Arnav loving her before marriage - may be yes and he realised it only after. No issues with that.
There is no black and white and that is what Khushi has to understand - The world is grey! Arnav knows that but she is yet to realise it!
And come to it - Khushi's family hid such a big thing from the Raizadas - Did Khushi do the right thing by not telling Anjali when she knew her own sister was going to be married into that same family? Was she not emotional? Did she act rationally? No, she didn't. And that decision of hers and her family's has cost her and Payal dearly today! All that reaspn of Anjali feeling bad etc - Khushi knew one day or the other Anjali will feel bad. It was not a small mistake - Shyam was literally staying at her house for God's sake!
Agree that Khushi and her family hid a big thing from the Raizadas...they should not have hidden thr truth but then they hid the truth not only for Payal's relationship but for Anjali's too...She would not be able to bear it just as she is not right now...
I understand her being upset with Khushi as it is a reminder of her husband's betrayal but her being upset about Arnav-Khushi relationship...i don't get that...
I don't know if Arnav has understood Khushi but he has regretted and apologised somewhat before marriage...but all the pain after marriage is still to be redeemed...He knows the truth now...the MU is cleared at least for him but no apology for calling her Characterless...Home wrecker...saying that abt her parents...i guess its the CV's fault..
i donot want arnav to prioritise his relationship with Khushi above his Di...I just want it to be of equal priority...
I guess we just agree to disagree...đ
Edited by musicfan5 - 13 years ago
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