Why does everyone hate Anjali today? - Page 3

yes , u r correct. before shyam reveal, she have sweety husband & caring lovely brother. but now she felt she is alone. reason is kushi .Anjali is not wrong.

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

So after reading the topics in the forum, I was a bit wary of watching the episode because I envisioned a Dracula Anjali seething with anger and jealousy, but when I actually watched the episode I was really surprised by the forum's reaction.😲 Why does everyone hate Anjali?

I guess I can see the reasons why, but would any of us be any different in her position? Forgetting ArHi for a moment and how much everyone loves them, think about their relationship in Anjali's view.

In Anjali's POV, Khushi is the reason she has been separated from her husband. Generally when we see someone cheating on their spouse, we put the blame both on him and the girl he's having an affair with, and though we know this is not true in Shyam's case, since Khushi is completely innocent, how is Anjali to know this? Who would we trust in this instance? The husband we have been married to for years or the newlywed wife of your brother whom you actually haven't known for that long? It is natural for Anjali to trust Shyam more than Khushi, because the news of his infidelity came out of nowhere (for her at least), and when she sees Khushi, she thinks of her as the one who destroyed her happiness. Though this is not true, she is not blameworthy for thinking this.

As for today's episode, Anjali felt like Khushi not only stole her husband, but her brother as well. Leaving her birthday aside, Anjali feels that all her loved ones are being stolen by Khushi. First her husband felt attracted to her and left their marriage, and then her brother who knew his sister was in despair, seemed indifferent to it and celebrated his wife's birthday. Of course it's not wrong for Arnav to do this, as he was really nasty to Khushi the other day, but in Anjali's POV she felt like Arnav forgot about her so easily and was celebrating instead.

I don't know...but instead of hating Anjali after this episode, I felt sorrier for her than ever.😭 I really feel bad for her and can't exactly blame her hurt and jealousy. I know I would feel the same way. In fact, I would hate Khushi more than Anjali seems to let out. It's wrong, yes, but it's human and completely natural.

Yes, Anjali's feelings are realistic. I don't have a crib with the Cvs, I am only saying that Anjali got what she deserved. It is her attitude of caring only for herself and living in her own bubble world that made her vulnerable to snake. She has help and support from everyone-- Nani, Mami, Akash, and even Arnav, yet she wants Arnav to forsake everything and stick to her. She does not want to examine, like any normal woman would, if there were any early warning signs of this disaster, nor does she discuss it with Nani etc-- wondering if and why Shyam did it. She is instead just clamming up in self-pity.

Contrast this with Khushi post marriage-- when not only had she been coerced into a marriage by a husband who tortured her, her own folks had disowned her and entire Raizada clan had too-- she stood up alone and shook off self-pity. She did not ask anyone to 'return her her world'-- she went and corrected everything herself-- from appeasing her family and in-laws (who were angry with her for no fault of her own) to rescuing her husband.

Anjali is a self-involved weakling in comparison-- and this kick from the fortunes should wake her up to reality and some self-respect. So she can hate Khushi all she likes, and maybe that is right from her perspective, but it does not change the fact that her blind willingness to stick with her delusions made her the perfect prey for snake, and let her be so easily manipulated by him.

I do not hate Anjali, but I cannot ignore the fact that she is partially responsible for her problems today. If she were less self-involved, less insecure, and more willing to face facts, she would have questioned Shyam harder during the many goof-ups on his part.

If I contrast her with Khushi, Anjali does show up as more selfish, self-pitying and weak.

After watching the episode and reading some posts, I have to agree. Anjali doesn't really seem to blame Shaym, She blames Khushi and that's why she's pissed how Arnav puts her above her. Arnav puts Khushi above because he is repenting. Anjali does not know about 6 month contract and all the hatred Khushi had to bear , so she is quite weary of it.

You show who you are during your bad days. It is so easy to be good during your good days. Just because it is you bad day, you don't jump into conclusions. Investigate on your own if you really care about other people around you. Especially people who give up things for you (roses given by her brother). If she hates Kushi, does not believe her, fine. Why not evaluate her brother's words why does she blindly side her husband for her convenience. It is great if husband is good but there is no reason to blow off your brother without reasonable investigation especially when you say "di se bhee zyada...". If you do not want to consider your husband guilty great, why blame Kushi just because it is easier to break your brother's home than your own. I still hope Angi realizes soon coz I do not like Arnav and Kushi hurt. I wake everymorning to see them happy.

I can understand your points n favor of Anjali.

I agree with you completely...I made a similar post...

Yess its natural nd human nature...but i dont feel sry 4 her nd will blame CVs 4 it...!!...
We r watching a layman viewrs...!!!...its irritating 2 watch a woman being in her delusional world...bt going in her chracter she shud react like this agree with ur post...bt sympathy is nt coming naturally wht can i do...*scratching my head*...!!!!...i dont hate her...poor woman she is...bt dont make her poor...make her strong it will pass agrt msg 2 the Viewrs...!!!!...Its all POV...u hv evry r8 2 dissagree...thnk U...:)

I agree that Anjali should feel bad , but like the poster above , my question is also why Anjali is staying in her brother's house.

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

Yeah, she should eventually come out of her makeshift fantasy world, but on the second day after she finds out about Shyam?😲 People do need time, and had she reacted like this months later maybe I'd have been annoyed, but right now all my sympathy goes to Anjali. I can't feel annoyed with her unless she turns into a rakshasi and throws Khushi out of the house or something, in which case I would hate. But she hasn't done that. Right now she's suffering, and that too alone, so I feel it's selfish for anyone to feel annoyed with her or hate her character.