but i think the reason Anjali got so hurt like this by shyam was cz of the way she was wrapped in cotton wool by all her loved ones...
but today she sees that there is a world even to her loved one's that is beyond her..
that not just she has a private life away from the rest of the family, but also the other people in the family also have a separate life for which she is not the center point..
she is right now heartbroken..and it seems cruel to let her see this..
but if she had realized this from before, she wouldn't be in this place she is today..
so i believe it is better that little by little reality catches up with her, so she can eventually be a strong person..
i know she is now just hurt, n probably will start being angry too..n may even hurt both arnav and khushi..etc etc..
but in the end it is better she realizes the truth now on that later..