Why we are disappointed

We keep getting told completely different things. It's a dream, it's not a dream. Megha and Mohan will be together next week. We won't disappoint you blah blah blah.

Well, it seems like its not a dream and we are all very disappointed. Sudhir Sharma and all the CVs keep trying to pacify us like we are little children. Unfortunately for them, we are not.

I have read a lot of posts about what the purpose of this show is. Whether its about a widow marrying the man she loves or whether it is about a widow marrying a bachelor. There is some discussion that it was meant to be the former and that is what the CVs intended. However, it is clear that for the fans, it was both. The man she loved was a single man. That was the beauty of the show. It's essence, which unless the current track is a dream or the marriage is fake, has now been destroyed.

Again, if the marriage isn't real then this post becomes somewhat redundant and I accept that, but if it is real, then how are all of us expected to forget everything that happened and continue watching as if nothing happened?

I've always felt disillusioned by Indian tv shows but this one was different. Doesn't seem that way anymore. This track seems like its been introduced to satisfy all the aunties in India who believe that a single man shouldn't marry a widow. Well done to the production team. You may now have a lot more aunties watching the show, but the rest of us who actually think a woman should not be subjected to this discrimination because she is a widow, have lost faith.

The chemistry between Mohan and Megha isn't just created by the characters, its the circumstance and the story, both of which have changed. I find myself wanting to stop watching the show, which I am sure plenty of other people are considering. If the CVs are ok with losing our viewership, I think that is disrespectful to their audience.

I sincerely hope, they use all the comments and criticisms and fix the track. I think a lot of the fans, like myself, would find it difficult to stop watching the show immediately. But i think, over time, people will become disillusioned and may slowly turn off.

Kunal and Aakanksha, everyone on this forum is and always will be a fan, but unfortunately, the script seems to be failing your acting prowess. I hope I am wrong and I can continue to proudly proclaim myself as a fan.

now i want to see how mohan tackles the situation when megha n kids gets to know the truth after marriage...

bcz since MegHan marriage is happening...i don't think mohan will able to tell megha the truth...he might want to confess...but i am sure circumstances will not let him too...n i think even guru will ask him to hide the fact...before all this mohan will meet riddhima tells her the truth n riddhima might help him to free out of the marriage...w/o megha...vyas family...kids knowledge...the truth might be out after marriage infront of megha...which will cause a rift b/w MM...n mohan will try all his best to make megha understand...n here i guess kids will help him out too...

he has to hide the fact bcz of the fear of loosing megha...he loves her madly...this will teach mohan a lesson...never take hasty decision in life...it will make him more responsible...

but i hope this truth comes out before marriage...mohan is going to marry megha...for every relationship...honesty is the first step of all relationships...till now mohan has been honest...but this was a mistake he did...which he regrets big time now...i hope like before...he will tell the truth to megha even that cost to loose her

And this has cut the concept of NBT from its base.

CVs ko aisa nahi karna chahiye tha. Ab koi phaayda nahi hai ki wo Mohan ko galti sudhaarthe huye dekhaye ya phir Megha ko Mohan se nok jhok karthe huye dikhaye. Bahut ganda mazaak banake rakh diya pura show ka.

Cvs ke paas ab ek hi raasta bacha hai is badi galthi ko sudhaar ne ke liye

wo hai yeh.

Yehi ki Ridhimaa ki pehle se hi shaadi hochuki hai apne boyfriend ya phir uske pehla pyaar se..Jo uske parents ne accept nahi kiya ya phir

Ridhima ko pata chala hi uske boyfriend ne usko dhoka de diya jo wo apne parents se kehnahi paayi.

They can void Mohans Ridhima Marriage only and only if Ridhima is already married similar way with his boyfriend which she did not disclose to her parents. When she did his father got heart attack and she just in shock got married to Mohan to save her father from critical situation.

Please share your views.

then i read a few more posts and realised that a lot of phorum pholk are kinda behaving like the world has come to an end, the earth has shattered, the tsunami has hit. and all 'cause mohan bhatnagar is now a married man?

why??? it's not like he is in love with poor ms. wistful riddhima. in fact, i think that this little marriage ceremony has infinite possibilities of removing some really hard battles that were facing mohan bhatnagar and his beloved mrs. vyas going forward.

think 'bout it: what was the most difficult barrier for these two? it was actually mohan bhatnagar's mother. and it was not just her, it was actually all of society who would point fingers in shock and dismay that a "bachelor" was getting married to a "widow -- a previously married woman".

well now. the tables have been turned haven't they? both mohan and megha are on the same page now, aren't they? both of them have now been ''married'' once before. for mohan to marry megha, he has to become a "divorcee" -- else he will be breaking the law. now _that_ would be sooo much better accepted in society! after all, that's why manav was okay in papaji vyas' eyes, no?

for all those who claim that this show, this script, this storyline violates the sanctity of our marriage ceremonies, consider something else that is a little more fundamental than the whole social mores thing: megha has taken all those marriage vows -- with full conviction, passion, heart and mind, in love, life and death -- with someone else already. and yet no-one has a problem with her "violating" all those promises? why? only because mohan bhatnagar is a loveable rogue of a man-child and kunal kapoor is a terrific actor? i know that if this had been another story from my past, i would have had several twinges of problems about it!

personally, i think that this show has a possibility of equalising the imbalance between megha and mohan just now. what is sauce for the goose, can be sauce for the gander. everything that society allows the man, must also be allowed for the woman. and the other way around too.

just like megha has been bullied to let go of the memories, the love, the marriage vows that she has taken with amar, mohan must also be given the freedom to let go of all of those things too -- and in his case, it is so much simpler -- just the vows that he has taken. his heart and mind and soul have never been touched. for him, it will be easier than what megha had to go through.

ya, all of this thinking is just a possibility. i don't know if they will play it like this. all i think is that they can. and should. possibilities like...

it can be a chance for megha to show how much trust she has in mohan and his decisions. even more than his mother. it can be a chance for all of society to see what a decent guy mohan is, even in comparison to the block manav. i mean, everyone (in the vyas family) applauded manav to be a hero when he compromised his reputation by helping out a widow and her child with emotional and money support. mohan helped save a man's life. is that any less?

why is no-one seeing it as having so much potential for good - no, wonderful - outcomes?

(and here endeth today's episode of lessons that mohan bhatnagar teaches us. 😆)

What I interpret from your post is that his marriage has now removed some barriers and effectively equalised their situations. I think that's the exact problem. Myself, and I think a lot of other viewers too, liked the show because the situation wasn't equal. He was single and she wasn't. There was a disconnect in their circumstances which is what attracted us. My whole point is that, while in the real world, him being a divorcee would now make it easier for them to be married, that's not the point of the story, which is why we are all disappointed. We feel like this track has been created to appease society, almost complying with the idea that society is correct. Which I don't agree with. That is where the disappointment comes from.

Of course no one thinks he loves Riddhima but we are almost reflecting the disappointment Megha will feel once she finds out what he's done. She won't be happy about the fact that he is now a divorcee which makes it easier for them to get married. I think she will just feel betrayed.

When it comes to your point about the sanctity of marriage, I didn't bring that point in at all because I do believe marriages are made in the heart, not on a piece of paper. And yes we know she made all those promises with Amar but he has passed. How can she be expected to keep a promise to a person who isnt in the world and who in all possibility would not want her to live her life alone.

I think people are annoyed because the CVs didnt have to take this route to bring them together but they have and while yes, the world has not ended, I feel like they have missed the point of the show and complied with a flawed society to try and equalise these people before they get married.