Khushi has lost my respect *EDITED* - Page 7

Originally posted by: maan-and-geet

Not that I am satisfied with Khushi's mellow response to Arnav's out burst... but sometime Silence is a greater killer than confrontation...

if you think about it Khushi herself feels that somewhere she is the cause of all the distress in RM... she said it before Arnav did... All Arnav did was put a seal on her guilt... she decided to leave coz she thought even though Arnav loves her he can't be happy when his sister is unhappy... her anger didnt kick in till Arnav turned into ASR and brought up the contract marriage... thats when khushi became angry coz he wasnt the person she thought he was... as far as she knows he hasn't changed a bit...

honestly I cried with khushi today when she was searching for her parents in starts... sometimes things are just too out of your control and you cant make the right decision... i have lived through that helplessness and I know sometime silence is your best weapon...

Khushi's silence doesn't mean that she has no self respect or dignity... she is knows she is stuck in the situation right now and yelling and screaming wont get her out... so she has to wait for the right time...

my heart too went out to her in that scene.

I was hopping mad yesterday at Arnav {Still not manafied, but lets leave that 😃 }
I thought maybe Khushi was being considerate of his recent traumas so she was not yelling but i really wish she wud calmly talk instead of beating around the bush & trying to escape the problem ...Arnav is in the dark about so many things...

Instead its better if she explains why he is wrong in thinking that ..she shud make him aware that he was the reason that Shyam entered her life...she shud fill all the gaps in the story he is unaware of esp that he drove her to agree to the engagement which she had vehemently opposed! She shud tell the mangalsutra story - its high time the Raizada family knows the entire story, why shud they think Payal was trying to protect her wedding when both sisters had decided to come clean no matter what, that was a brave step they had taken that day and it has gone in vain...that shud be highlighted.
Till now RM people have only seen the accusations hurled at Shyam, no proof !

Originally posted by: rukuswasthika

sometimes silently accepting without shouting is a kind of punishment(not always)but it would work sometimes with our loved ones.though khushi said she has forgiven,she has given arnie a great punishment indirectly(this is just my opinion.no offence for your views dear)

agree with you yelling is not the solution because when you are mad and you star yelling you say the wrong thing that you don't want to say and you hurt other people feelings

Originally posted by: chillygirl

may be ur right and cvs are playing on her silence but i seriously got frustated after watching the episode and vented out here

Well, honestly i didn't have that much respect for Khushi to begin with. No offence to anyone.

Originally posted by: maan-and-geet

dont get me worng... i got frustrated too... i was also hoping for khushi to be angry and blast Arnav when he comes back... but then after thinking about it for a while i did understand her reaction... she holds herself responsible for whatever happened thats why she agreed when nani asked her to stay away from Anjali... she already had the guilt in her mind before Arnav said anything... i think she was hoping that Arnav doesnt feel the same and holds her responsible thats why she was still in RM... but once Arnav said those harsh words he just made her guilt even stronger and she decided to leave...

ur absolutely correct and ur comments really are making me doubt my opinion but i hope one day she realises what all arnav's words actually meant and at the time, i wish she stays strong and do not relent to him easily

I feel arnav is not repenting enuf.. he is like a loose canon.. keeps going off on her!!! somewhere the serial has lost the intensity.. his behavior affte the past few days.. seems so off.. he has gone back to old asr

Originally posted by: dmgloverforever

Well, honestly i didn't have that much respect for Khushi to begin with. No offence to anyone.

I know i've been noted for criticizing Arnav's behavior, and those who critcize ASR are automatically assumed to be KKG fans, but i really ain't that big of a fan.

I love Khushi's bubbly nature and she's defiantly very funny And MY, the girl has a heart of gold but she cant be called sensible, then again most of SP's female leads aren't & lets just face it, Khushi's not an exception.No woman would take all the crap she does with a smile on her face, Unless she's a product of Gandhi and Mandela's sperms combined, carried by Mirabai, Then you cant say but since we all know thats not possible, Hence the source of Khushi's extraordinary patience remains unknown, at least to me.

She never really stood up for herself the way she should have and that just portrays her as a "Becharii ablaa nari", who people might love but not really "respect".

P.S. I LOVE SANAYA IRANI! GIRLS GOT SOME GREAT ACTING SKILLS!

will i was always in this hope that ice would crack someday and she will stand up for herself and give everything back to ASR with interest but now i dont see any of this happening