a word for gauri

i thought i would be happy to see JG marriage disintegrate.

i've hrd bout mny men wrkng undr dr wyf nd dey hv gr8 undrstndng bt d prbm hr is jaggz ego...he hd d habit f being treated as d princ f jaitsar,d 1 abov evry1 els...nw whn hez being shwn d ground by hs frns,hez js frustratd (although nly ppl lyk jaggz nd gauri cn hv sch frns😆) anandi moulded hrslf acc 2 jaggz bt gauri rarely gvs a damn,so hez js pissd off😉

Agree with earth1978..

Moreover the true purpose of Balika Vadhu show is that people married din childhood did not find happiness with each other but they found happiness with the partners they chose after growing up.

Truly I don't find Gauri wrong in lot of the things she says.. but she nags and she plots out of insecurity and jealousy. and Jagya is responsible for that since he has been spider dancing all this time..

Jagya attitude is absolutely unacceptable ... He did not find Anandi equal to his interest or education but now when he has someone to his equaling he can't handle it ...

CVs can show other things but ultimately it should not be shown that breaking out of Child Marriage was wrong..

CVs r doing a great job, if they r saying problem between this loser couple, it was not becoz a mbbs husband working under MS wife, but it is becoz a person with big ego and selfish and a equaly selfish wife ,who dosnt know how and where to behave. There was problem even before they started working and there will be problem even if both will work seperately and not depending on each other. They will always find reason to fight, becoz they dont know how to compromise in life, which is very necessary in marriage life. Two person cant think equally everytime, but if u want tht the gaddy of ur marriage life run smoothly, u hv to make compromises. I m clarifying, before any faminist start cutting my throat, tht my statement is for both, husband and wife. If u cant compromise and ur thought most of time not match thn option is always open to run out from the relationship, instead making each other life hell. This is musch easier for illeagal relationship like JAGO😆

I think main reason for problems in their marriage is lack of understanding.Jagia is very lonely. He comes from a large household where he was centre of attention. Now he is on his own due to Gauri. Actually it is Gauri who is wrong.

Here is the root problem ... anandi was always a mother-figure/caretaker role for jagya. Bhairon would always dismiss him and his ideas, and anandi was the one who would convince bhairon to listen to him.

ankit i agree to your points. but i dont agree that gauri was wrong in demanding enough sleep.

Absolutely agree with Ankit. The loser couple is one of its kind, both of them are equally egoistic, selfish and only thinks about themselves. Regarding the party fiasco, both Jagya and Gauri are at fault.

Jagya's fault:

1. Jagya should have consulted Gauri before throwing the party
2. When he knew Gauri could not stay up late that night, he should have postponed it to another day. I don't think their friends came over directly from the hospital, they must have had enough time before the party started. Why didn't they talk to each other and postpone it?
3. Since it was Jagya who called those guests, it was his responsibility to see that the party winds up early. Gauri shouldn't need to intervene.

Gauri's fault:
1. When she herself threw a party for her job, neither did she inform Jagya nor did she invite him! Since she behaved so adamantly, it gave Jagya an opportunity to repeat the same.

2. If she could not do a late night, she should have intervened then and there and postponed the date of the party. She was there when Jagat was planning the party, why didn't she speak up? It's much better to postpone a party before it starts than asking invited guests to leave your house. That's quite insulting!

3. There are many ways she could have wind the party early. Making excuses of not feeling well is the best way to send your guests back without any unpleasantness. Yet Gauri had to adopt a method that is extremely uncouth, since people were already teasing Jagya about being G's junior. Sometimes I feel she did it on purpose, else how come the lie queen could not come up with any other excuse like not feeling well?

4. Gauri's reasons for objecting to the party fluctuated. First she said Jagat should have waited till he got his salary (financial reason) and then when that reasoning did not work out, she said she has to leave for work early (professional reason). This totally diluted her logic and it seemed like she was opposing the party by hook or by crook. She should have handled it better.


The loser couple are a perfect match for each other. They deserve the hell they are going through and I wish them more hellish moments together😈

Originally posted by: earth1978

ankit i agree to your points. but i dont agree that gauri was wrong in demanding enough sleep.

u see major surgeies last for hours and one needs to concentrate hard. u can imagine ur having someone's life at stake.

i dont care about other things but this was certainly not gauri's fault or selfishness. it was very logical and just request she made.

in order to drive home the point CVs want, they shud use the right reasons.

I dont think tht i even talked abt tht particular event, i meant the root cause of problem between thm. I dont even care a particular evens between thm and avoid to find who is rit and wron, whn i know their basic is wrong. One or two events dosnt play big role. These r small things. Till their base is wrong , one day Jogia will be rit, other day Gouri. Only permanent between thm will be their fight😆u r finding no problem in demanding a sleep and i think even tht she cd handle in proper way and not ordering in front of friends, who r already mocking him and she knew how he was feeling. But anyway, i dont want to go in this discussion, because these things matter nothing, till their basic nature r not on the track😆

Jagia is searching for anandi in gauri. He is searching for the same devotion in gauri. When he was with anandi he was searching for gauri in anandi.