whats future for Jagaya?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just a thought came into my mind wanted your all views on it ...we all bash Jagaya he is a liar , he is cheat , he is idiot , he is this he is that...yes he is ..he is worth of all these bashes no doubt😆but one thing is there we simply cannot deny the fact he is also victim of child marriage ..lets just think if that child marriage wasn't there..there would be no mess in both lives of Jags and Anandi...somewhere the root cause of all the damage is this child marriage ...so like if cvs are up to the bonding Shiv Anandi which is good will give a good moral to serial but then what is there for Jagaya? well he is receiving his share of punishment from the day he cheated on Anandi..his life is a total mess ...Anandi has succeeded a lot in every sphere while Jagaya who use to consider Anandi not worthy of him is losing every where but once he will realise his mistakes then what is there for him in case of life partner ..he will lose Anandi .. will cvs let him be alone or will they make Gauri realise her mistakes as well.?..since once Jagaya will realise his mistakes and truely sorry for them there won't be any sense in punishing him..of course i am not saying reunite him with Anandi ..but once he realises his mistakes , there won't be any sense in giving him life long punishment of being alone ..there should be something done for the injustice done to him as well when he was child by forcing him in a relation when both bride and groom were not at the age of even understanding the true meaning of this relation ...what you guys think?

Note: please do healthy discussion ..don't bash me up i am not fan of Jagaya😆just giving my view coming out my anger against him and thinking from his side as well you might differ from me but no fights ok 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

Just a thought came into my mind wanted your all views on it ...we all bash Jagaya he is a liar , he is cheat , he is idiot , he is this he is that...yes he is ..he is worth of all these bashes no doubt😆but one thing is there we simply cannot deny the fact he is also victim of child marriage ..lets just think if that child marriage wasn't there..there would be no mess in both lives of Jags and Anandi...somewhere the root cause of all the damage is this child marriage ...so like if cvs are up to the bonding Shiv Anandi which is good will give a good moral to serial but then what is there for Jagaya? well he is receiving his share of punishment from the day he cheated on Anandi..his life is a total mess ...Anandi has succeeded a lot in every sphere while Jagaya who use to consider Anandi not worthy of him is losing every where but once he will realise his mistakes then what is there for him in case of life partner ..he will lose Anandi .. will cvs let him be alone or will they make Gauri realise her mistakes as well.?..since once Jagaya will realise his mistakes and truely sorry for them there won't be any sense in punishing him..of course i am not saying reunite him with Anandi ..but once he realises his mistakes , there won't be any sense in giving him life long punishment of being alone ..there should be something done for the injustice done to him as well when he was child by forcing him in a relation when both bride and groom were not at the age of even understanding the true value of this relation ...what you guys think?


Note: please do healthy discussion ..don't bash me up i am not fan of Jagaya😆just giving my view coming out my anger against him and thinking from his side as well you might differ from me but no fights ok 😳



I agree with you. Everyone seems to bash him. He did not do the the right thing by cheating on Anandi, but how many people understand marriage when they are that young. In this entire serial Bhairon and company seems to have washed their hands of what they did and the focus is on gauri and jagia being bad people. I am not a fan of any of the characters, but truly speaking jagia and gauri are more realistic and have grey shades, as normal humans do.
Also I find difficult to understand sumitra. mother is a mother, whatever the son/daughter turns out to be.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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jagia if he realises his mistakes should say sorry to Anandi..But he should remain with gauri. Gauri should also realise her mistakes. Marriage is not a joke and Jagia married Gauri as an adult. They both should work on their relationship. If cv show that Anandi accepts Jagiaback that means ladla beta can get away with anything and never pays. He will never change then. It will send a very wrong message.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Sumitra*s role in future will turn grey. If Jagia comes back she will try to unite A and J. She will think like a mother not as a woman. She also has challenged Gauri that her son will come back to her. As far as Anandi is concerned she should have left singh household once Jagia married Gauri. Only then they could accept Jagia and Gauri and believe me their marriage (gaga) would not have been on rocks . It is funny first you are bahu then become beti.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@elasingh...Anandi tried to leave the house when J and G came home married ...DS had an heart attack at that moment ...so what do you think she should have left DS so that she could die and why not a bahu can become a beti of the house 😕and i don't think Anandi not leaving the house has to do anything with singh family not accepting J and G relation..they both married going against the wishes of them ..breaking their hearts even not bothering to let them know about it and later came home married to take their blessings ..what kind of sense is that ...? how come singh family would have accepted them in so easily...😕they have every right to be angry on them and i don;t think Sumi will turn negative ...if Jagaya will come back i think all Singh will ask him to stay away from Anandi ..it will be heart breaking for them but i think they will do it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pagli14



I agree with you. Everyone seems to bash him. He did not do the the right thing by cheating on Anandi, but how many people understand marriage when they are that young. In this entire serial Bhairon and company seems to have washed their hands of what they did and the focus is on gauri and jagia being bad people. I am not a fan of any of the characters, but truly speaking jagia and gauri are more realistic and have grey shades, as normal humans do.
Also I find difficult to understand sumitra. mother is a mother, whatever the son/daughter turns out to be.

Thank you for agreeing with me but i disagree at some points with you ...first yes i agree Jagaya and Gauri are realistic ..such people do exist in society but where i disagree not all people are grey like them ..not every normal human being act like them ...so i think its not fair to say Jagaya and Gauri both have grey shades of every normal human being ..even people patient like Anandi too do exist .
secondly ..i disagree mother is a mother ...right ..but if a son breaks heart of his mother , breaks her trust , she has every right to be angry on him ..every mother does ...no matter inside she is completely broken ...but she wants to teach her son a lesson so that he could come on right path...sumitra is broken from inside ..we saw her pain many a times ..she doesn't feel peace on slapping him...she just wants to bring him on right path and its her motherly trust on her son which is still there thats why she thinks he will come back to his family one day...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

Thank you for agreeing with me but i disagree at some points with you ...first yes i agree Jagaya and Gauri are realistic ..such people do exist in society but where i disagree not all people are grey like them ..not every normal human being act like them ...so i think its not fair to say Jagaya and Gauri both have grey shades of every normal human being ..even people patient like Anandi too do exist .

secondly ..i disagree mother is a mother ...right ..but if a son breaks heart of his mother , breaks her trust , she has every right to be angry on him ..every mother does ...no matter inside she is completely broken ...but she wants to teach her son a lesson so that he could come on right path...sumitra is broken from inside ..we saw her pain many a times ..she doesn't feel peace on slapping him...she just wants to bring him on right path and its her motherly trust on her son which is still there thats why she thinks he will come back to his family one day...

I still feel everyone is grey..some white qualities some black qualities ...some good some not so good. Thats what makes people interesting. People are never completely good or bad...its their situation what makes them to react and behave. There is very small minority which is very bad or too saintly.I am not saying people like anandi dont exist. As for sumitra yes, she is angry, but just not to bother if he is dead or alive is extreme. As for him to come back, as I have said the singhs have not taken any responsibility for their actions. He made a choice, the way he went about it was absolutely despicable,but they have to respect it, and at some point in real life parents move on. Of course this is just a serial.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes Jagya too went through the injustice of child marriage. While one cannot compare one's pain to another's, it is the girl who has to go through much more pain and adjustment. She has to leave her family's house, she has to adapt to a new environment as a "bahu", while the son is given preference over the DIL. So the DIL ends up worse off. Having said that, it is very possible for the guy to fall in love with someone else and should be allowed to choose his own life partner. The CVs have made the show one-sided to make the audience sympathize with the girl since she is the one leaving her family and going to another at a very young age, being made to adjust and live like a wife rather than a child.

As for Anandi's leaving the family and making way for Jagya-Gauri, Gauri would not have been able to adjust to the family. The family and Jagya expect the wife to take care of them, manage household and kitchen, and be submissive. That is their culture. Gauri is very independent and she would have had a very hard time adjusting, would have probably created problems with her negative side, and had yelling matches with Dadisa. Keeping Anandi aside, it would have been impossible for Gauri and the family to stay together. The family doesn't want a DIL who would stay so far away, and Gauri's insecurities would have made her cause a rift within the family.

Gauri's insecurities stem more from herself than Anandi. Her mother would have tried to make her cause a rift in the family. So overall if Jagya and Gauri planned to stay with the family or far away, they would have still had problems.

Anandi grew up with Jagya's family. She spent much more time there than with her parents. It is totally unfair to expect her to leave a place she calls home just because her husband left her. She has a relationship with her in-laws independent of Jagya, they educated her and supported her. She should not have to leave her house where she spent 17 years just like that. If she had to leave, she should leave legally with 50% of Jagya's property right so she can continue with her education and not be dependent on her parents.
Edited by Nach_Baliye - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahi12

Just a thought came into my mind wanted your all views on it ...we all bash Jagaya he is a liar , he is cheat , he is idiot , he is this he is that...yes he is ..he is worth of all these bashes no doubt😆but one thing is there we simply cannot deny the fact he is also victim of child marriage ..lets just think if that child marriage wasn't there..there would be no mess in both lives of Jags and Anandi...somewhere the root cause of all the damage is this child marriage ...so like if cvs are up to the bonding Shiv Anandi which is good will give a good moral to serial but then what is there for Jagaya? well he is receiving his share of punishment from the day he cheated on Anandi..his life is a total mess ...Anandi has succeeded a lot in every sphere while Jagaya who use to consider Anandi not worthy of him is losing every where but once he will realise his mistakes then what is there for him in case of life partner ..he will lose Anandi .. will cvs let him be alone or will they make Gauri realise her mistakes as well.?..since once Jagaya will realise his mistakes and truely sorry for them there won't be any sense in punishing him..of course i am not saying reunite him with Anandi ..but once he realises his mistakes , there won't be any sense in giving him life long punishment of being alone ..there should be something done for the injustice done to him as well when he was child by forcing him in a relation when both bride and groom were not at the age of even understanding the true meaning of this relation ...what you guys think?

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Note: please do healthy discussion ..don't bash me up i am not fan of Jagaya😆just giving my view coming out my anger against him and thinking from his side as well you might differ from me but no fights ok😳

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yes you are right... jagya has been a victem of child marriage and him choosing another mate is also understandeble.
But what he did wrong was the way he went about it. continually showing anandi. AND his entire family wrong.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Nach -baliye no one is comparing pain of Anandi and Jagaya ...no one is saying that J and A suffered equally but don't you think it was wrong for J's side too if he was married to Anandi at a very young age when he like Anandi he didn't even know the true meaning of the relation they were binding into ..i think it was Anandi's teacher i forgot her name now 😕who said at that time while going that marriage what is marriage for him eating sweets and all that...what my point is here of saying J was also forced in that relation as child if there was no child marriage of him. the present mess of him cheating Anandi all the trauma would never be there then of course how this serial will be created 😆but for all the mess the original thing is child marriage of both of them dont you think so ...so if for one there is a way out of it for other whats there for him if he truely realises all his mistakes ...😕

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