In defence of... Anita!

rofl. Thought that would get some attention. OK so now that psycho bitch is out of the way I can safely defend her honor rofl.

I wnderd at ur title... Bt wt u said ws correct... Sm situations in lyf cn change people entirely... It cn make good-bad n bad-good. So we cn justify anitas actions as quite human... N wt I feel abt our hatred for anita s bcoz, f our love for gohem... We cnt c dem apart... And iira did a fab job by portrayin anita's character so naturaly...

You are right, not only situations, but the way Ahem broke with Anita, that is he just announced to Anita that his mom has already found a bride for him and that's it. The break was instant, no understanding of her feelings and Koki did the same for her personal gain. And hence this lead to all this. And that's why Ahem was as in in a transe when he saw Anita the day he went to exchange watches.

Lol SHaun. . .that title caught me off guard lol. .

but gud points. . . Anita . . even worse than Rashi. . cracked way to early lol. . and became MAAANTAL

😆 I saw the title and thought that you were in need of some chappals and that's why you posted it. but like you say, every person is human and have their own tipping point. Despair doesn't just belong to those who have lost everything.

🤣 i thought here we go again shaun you always like to defend the vamp.
Anyway i agree with everything you said about anita 😃

Ahswin..

Yes, it is hard to say something till you are in other persons shoes but love is not a excuse for Anita's sickly behavior. Anita knew how conservative ahems family was and that she was taking a chance. When your boyfriend hides the love for you from his parents warning bells should go on. She was his girlfriend and not his wife. It is a relationship that is not acknowledged in hospitals when ones life is in danger.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Ahswin..

I am not going to argue anything that you have written except to say that what Anitha did was not a sudden error from the humane side.. I totally agree about the breaking point, human nature etc., etc.,

But to want to see and then also use that as a justification in her argument without any remorse that she wanted to see another person burn...

I do not think that can be justified at any time. It is just horrible to want to see someone hurt like that.. And she uses that as an excuse.. it was not Ahem but Gopi ...🤢

Whatever the reasons one has, there are certain things that are just no no.. However weak one is, there is a limit to madness. Her words and her actions can be excused for her madness... Not the last piece.. BTW, Gopi also thinks like you do😊

So she has forgiven her.

Harini we have to remember that sane rational human beings are aware of certain morals and values. However sometimes something goes wrong. And a persons judgement is affected. You don't think in a normal manner anymore. This allow you to do and say things that you would not do under normal circumstances. Like people who commit suicide. Something in your head must not connect and allow you to over-rule the most basic human impulse of survival. I guess What i am saying is that anita needs help. Not judgement. And no not help in terms of What koki was offering like find a guy and get her married. But professional help. Like a psychiatrist.

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Harini we have to remember that sane rational human beings are aware of certain morals and values. However sometimes something goes wrong. And a persons judgement is affected. You don't think in a normal manner anymore. This allow you to do and say things that you would not do under normal circumstances. Like people who commit suicide. Something in your head must not connect and allow you to over-rule the most basic human impulse of survival. I guess What i am saying is that anita needs help. Not judgement. And no not help in terms of What koki was offering like find a guy and get her married. But professional help. Like a psychiatrist.